Hello Jenkinsonites! I would love to join you. I have ordered the book. I used to weigh around 8st7 (measured by midwives when newly pregnant with DC3 10 years ago). I lost most of that weight (no scales at home) but still had a poochy tummy. After DC4 and endless bedrest I lost a (very) little but now am basically back to my highest pregnant weight, i.e. 14 stone (I had polyhydramnios and massive babies among other issues; with the first three the highest preg weight would have been around 11 to 11.5 stone).
In that time I've gone from not having a sweet tooth, not liking fizzy drinks, rarely snacking (and being very averse to spending money on snacks while out) to eating everything in sight, finishing everything I start (even if it's something non-addictive like a tin of chickpeas, a hunk of cheese or a salad), having a multiple-cokes-per-day habit, eating poorly (more UPFs for sure, especially since Covid) and just generally feeling shite.
I need to take control, but every time I even think of dieting I seem to double my food intake. I used to blame Prozac, but it's probably a combination of that, sugar addiction (the coke started because I don't drink tea or coffee but needed caffeine), and slowing metabolism as I get older.
I really need to get myself in hand and stop killing myself. I have recently developed NAFLD and IBS, and wouldn't be surprised if I'm prediabetic. I do exercise, and that seems to go ok, but I also get ridiculously breathless just carrying a washing basket up the stairs etc.
I was referred to a dietitian, but I totally know what to eat, it's just stopping myself from gobbling up the contents of the fridge/freezer/cupboards, and more recently, since a much-resented house move/relationship wobble/midlife crisis, secretly buying fast food while out in addition to meals. 