Welcome @RubySlippers77
50lbs in 46 weeks sounds doable (albeit a long term project!!)
I know the consensus is often to break down goals / have smaller more manageable goals but I am thinking that looking at the bigger picture can help.
1lb a week should be manageable without too much sacrifice?
Where is your DN wedding?
I have my brothers wedding in 2.5 months and I'd love to be a stone down.
I have a 6yo, 4yo and 1yo, work theee days a week and have arthritis so exercise for me is walking (I manage 10k steps a day at the moment, my arthritis is currently well controlled but when I flare, it's hard to even do the school run!)
My issue is that I can be fine all week and then I tend to binge at the weekend?
Years ago I followed low GI and the 80/20% rule. If I ate healthily 80% of the time it left me a little scope to have a few treats not so healthy meals
It wasn't about bingeing. It was about having healthy treats (a few vodka and diet cokes as opposed to wine / homemade "KFC" as opposed to the real deal / share a shop bought pizza as opposed to order a massive Dominos)
Need to get back to that way of thinking.
This weekend is Birthday weekend though!! I plan on a few posh cupcakes (one for each of us) instead of baking a big cake that will last well into next week..... and get eaten everyday.