Thanks guys. Slendertone is a good idea, will look into it :)
No luck with the drugs yet, appointment next month to try a different one. Problem is they are all slow to act, so need to try each for a while before trying another. Worst prob at the moment is the HMS, hypermobility has gotten much worse as my mobility got worse due to the arthritis, as the muscles aren't strong enough to hold my joints in place!
I have physio exercises to do, but its not really enough for any sort of weightloss. The trouble with upper body exercises is that my back, hands and wrists are affected by the arthritis, and my shoulders pop out too, so just getting about on crutches is hurting the top half before I "do" anything. I tried swimming back in the autumn, thought it was okay at the time, but literally couldn't move at all the next day. And I have two toddlers, I need to be able to look after them.
Hopefully I will be able to do some sort of exercise soon, but want to be managing without, so I'm not depending on it. Iyswim?
Its really annoying, I was down to perfect weight after two close together pregnancies, then this happened and it all piled back on :(