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Going for 40lb off for reaching 40 - anyone want to join me?

26 replies

40for40 · 30/04/2012 09:49

Namechange regular because I don't want certain family/friends asking me sympathetically how I am doing!

OK - I hit 40 at the end of the year and I am about 2.5 - 3 stone heavier than I was 3 years ago. I don't want to hit 40 and look at pictures of a miserable, embarrassed, (drunk) beached whale.

I want to embrace my age looking fitter, more fabulous and most importantly, happy.

I know that losing 40lb in 8 months (34 weeks) is going to be really tough and I want this to be sensible so I won't beat myself up if I am not quite there by December.

However, I just feel so much better about myself when I am exercising and being sensible about what I eat and drink and so I want to give myself a big goal.

This isn't about being super slim because my target weight will still make me a size 14. It is about taking back control and feeling good.

I do think that aiming for 1-2lb a week is doable, though, if I change the way I approach food and drink.

Does anyone want to join me??

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lolajane2009 · 30/04/2012 16:17

can i join. gotta lose 3 stone by september and then keep it off. gonna exercise like mad and eat fairly sensibly.

40for40 · 30/04/2012 16:23

Definitely. Welcome! What is happening in september?

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sassytheFIRST · 30/04/2012 16:25

I'm 40 in dec too. While I don't need to lose huge amounts, I'd really like to shift a stone or so. I'm in please.

MsRinky · 30/04/2012 16:38

I am 40 in January. My target is half a stone a month until then (at which point I will still be reasonably fat, ho hum). This is probably a little overambitious, but what the hell.

lolajane2009 · 30/04/2012 16:43

my son's 1st birthday and his christening.

40for40 · 30/04/2012 19:05

Excellent! Looks like there are a few about-to-be-even-more-fabulous 40s hitting the world.
I am going to spend this week clearing out all the temptations and shopping for tasty but healthier stuff. I am home on Thursday and will start in earnest then.

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Fluffy1234 · 30/04/2012 19:16

It is definitely possible. I lost 4 and a half stone last year in 8 months going from a tight size 16 to a small size 10. I broke the weight goals into half stone chunks and that really helped. After each half stone I treated myself to something nice such as new clothes, make up etc.
Good luck.

40for40 · 30/04/2012 20:46

Thanks fluffy, that is really encouraging. Congratulations on your weight loss, that is an amazing achievement! Did you follow a particular diet?
Feeling happier now I know I am not alone.

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weblette · 30/04/2012 21:07

40 next April and have just signed up for the London Marathon ballot - yikes!!!

I could do with losing 3 stone, I'm usually great at getting the first one or two off but never seem to make it to the end, if I can't do it now I'll never make it!

Would love to join you all :)

Fluffy1234 · 30/04/2012 21:12

For the first three months I ate normal meals but cut crisps, chocolate, sweets, cakes, biscuits and ice-cream. Then I stepped it up a pace and cut most carbs. The weight then fell of . I averaged 1.75 pounds a week and never lost more than 2.5 pounds a week or less than 1 pound and that includes going on a cruise last summer and Christmas week. I did absolutely no exercise. I think it is just trial and error at the beginning and seeing what works for you and fits in with your lifestyle.

jerin · 01/05/2012 00:12

Hi ladies...can I join too? I'm also in the nearly 40 club and have a couple of stone to shift.

I lost a stone last year but it's crept back on.

Fluffy I really like your idea of 1/2 stone targets and treats.

Weblette are you planning to run the marathon next year??? Wow!! I'm always in awe of those that do. Have a few friends that've done marathons and would love to. Cant run for a bus tho.....

I'm planning to start tomorrow- well today now. I'm gonna cut out all sugary stuff- I have too much. I'm gonna cut out carbs and fill up on fruit, veg, salads and soup. I am really keen to start running....couch to 5k or 10k in an effort to shift the weight faster and tone up. I have an injury at the moment which may not make this possible but I'll give it a go...
Once I get motivated I'll move onto shred as have owned if for a year but not got past day two so far!!

Good luck everyone.....

lolajane2009 · 01/05/2012 11:30

lol i lost 7 and a half pre preg but as soon as i got to 9 and a half stone i got preg.

ShoopShoop · 01/05/2012 14:36

Hello ladies - please can I join too? I'm about to hit 30 in the summer (August) and have about 30 pounds to lose..... Hard but not impossible I'm thinking?

I would love to enter a half marathon....but I'm going to see how the weight loss and exercise go over the next couple of months and then decide if I'm still a blob or not :)

I've just joined WW and am doing ok but need some more motivation and encouragement which I'm hoping to find on here.

Good luck ladies x

Wolfiefan · 01/05/2012 14:42

40 later this year. So far lost 30 pounds in 3 months. (I am v overweight!) fluff I too am rewarding myself each half a stone. I am training for race for life and generally moving my butt more!

40for40 · 01/05/2012 18:58

Yay! Great to see that there are a few of us on this mission.

I am in total awe of those who have already lost insane amounts and in equal awe at the thought of a marathon!

I am crazy busy for work and away from usual eating places until Thursday and then I will crack on.

I definitely think going in half a stone increments is a sensible (and achievable) way of rewarding ourselves en route to the 40 for 40 (or 30 for 30)!

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ShoopShoop · 03/05/2012 09:14

Ok, so I only lost 1/2 pound this week Hmm at WW weigh in......but I'll keep going! How's everyone else doing? This miserable weather isn't helping my motivation very much! I definitely feel like a duvet day today Grin

jerin · 03/05/2012 19:39

I'm on day 3 and starving!!! Actually I don't feel quite so hungry today.

I want this rain to end and really want my foot better so I can start some running.......

Well done shoop shoop.....1/2 lb is half a lb.

I think I'll weigh in Monday's. What's everyone else doing?

MsRinky · 07/05/2012 11:00

Weigh in day for me today. Six weeks in and I have lost 6.4kg, which is a fraction over a stone in old money.

Wiifitmama · 07/05/2012 11:16

I just wanted to add my encouragement to you all. I turn 40 in a few days and it was my motivation to lose weight too. Over a year and a half I lost 112 pounds and am now a size 8. I have been maintaining it now for a couple of months.

I have various 40th birthday celebrations planned this week that I can attend looking fit, fab and younger than I did last year. It is so worth doing it so good luck to you all!

MsRinky · 08/05/2012 10:42

112 pounds ! That is amazing, well done.

Fizzybee · 08/05/2012 10:54

Can I join ?

I want to lose 3 stone 3 pounds to get to my weight I was post ds 1 were I was happiest with my figure

Already lost 10 pounds in the last 3 weeks

Would like to do it by Xmas so I can not be embarrassed by potential fb pics i hate every pic taken of me in the last 2 years Blush

lolajane2009 · 10/05/2012 03:53

only half a pound here too from sunday to sunday

ShoopShoop · 10/05/2012 15:45

A pound off this week which I'm happy with. I'm weighing in on a Wednesday morning.

How's everyone else doing?

Well done on your loss Lola!

reastie · 10/05/2012 18:42

Am I allowed to join if I'm only 30 Grin . I put on Blush 6 stone in the last 2 years after a difficult pg and struggling with dd and bfing hunger. I've had enough. I shredded for the first time this morning. I need to do this and I'd love to be back to my old size 16 or even better size 14 , feels like such a long way to go I don't know where to start. How and what is everyone doing?

wii what an inspiration

MsRinky · 21/05/2012 13:21

Have now lost sixteen pounds in eight weeks. Really starting to feel that it possible that in the eight months before I turn 40 that I could transform myself. How is everyone else doing?