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Things that have changed since you lost weight?

55 replies

extrasausages · 13/04/2026 07:53

I’ve lost 3.5 stone and have another 2 to go but I was thinking yesterday about positive ways I’m changing through losing weight.

At my biggest, on a deep level, I hated being ‘seen’ so for me it was often easiest to stay at home than to accept social invitations. The thought of going to a wedding or a big event would fill me with stress - not over the event itself - but over what I could wear in order to look lovely but also to be the most invisible. The stress would be even worse if there was the possibility of having photos taken or if I might bump into someone I’d not seen in a while (who would notice I’d gained weight). Funnily enough I have a friend who’s a photographer and she’d taken some pictures of me at a festival and had a couple of the group shots up in her studio. I looked utterly enormous and couldn’t even bear to look at the wall without grimacing. When I lost some weight, she actually edited the photo for me and slimmed me down and hung it back on the wall! 😂😂

But yes, even though I’ve still got some more weight to go, a lot of those feelings are gone. I’m no longer afraid of being seen.

Secondly (which seems to contradict the first thing), I’ve always worn high heels - not because I wanted to be ‘seen’ but because I thought they made me look slimmer/longer and it made my legs look thinner (I’m only short). Without even realising it, I’ve just slowly moved back into flats and have totally embraced being petite. I used to torture my poor feet with heels and wedges and now it’s such a relief to be able to wear nice flats and still think I look smart. And oh my legs look skinny because well, they are. 😁

I’m sure there’ll be more changes as I get closer to goal. To be honest I can’t even begin to imagine what that will feel like. I haven’t been at goal weight for about 25 years!

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Somethingsnapped · 14/04/2026 14:30

Definitely empathise with the photo thing. It was my face I hated seeing mostly. It didn't help that phone cameras often have the wide angle thing going on, and genuinely often do make faces look a bit wider, especially certain angles. But I really don't suit weight gain on my face. I was tall and a size 16/18, so not huge for my height necessarily, and I was pretty fit still. But I hated my face in photographs so much. Almost couldn't bear to look. My kids didn't recognise me from photos of when I was younger, whereas my sister, who has never fluctuated much in weight, looks exactly the same. I've lost 3 stone and am a healthy size 12 now, and I can finally look at my face in photos without cringing.

frostedshreddies76 · 14/04/2026 14:38

I've lost 4 stone and can now comfortable cross my legs when in meetings!

TFImBackIn · 14/04/2026 14:55

Does anyone notice their shoulders feel sharper now? That was quite an odd feeling!

I've lost 4.5 stone and it's like I'm living in another world. Buying clothes was so depressing and now I love it. Totally agree with everyone about travelling - it's so much easier now and I've also noticed I get a lot more help with my bags.

Talking of bags - the bags below my eyes have virtually gone, too!

The main thing for me is that Mounjaro stopped me from drinking regularly. I didn't have one drink for over a year and didn't even think about it. Before then I was having a couple of good-sized glasses of wine every night. It's worth the expense just for that, I think.

Questions1234 · 14/04/2026 15:30

I’m currently at a theme park with kids… want to add fitting into the ride seats comfortably and not stressing about it/feeling self conscious!

chequeredcushion · 14/04/2026 15:37

Being able to get dressed in the morning into anything really and not feel down about it or be trying to hide arms, stomach etc. Every day used to feel like a battle.

Going to places with my child and not worrying about if I’ll be too large / heavy eg. trampolining, theme parks.

Just generally feeling lighter, walking and stairs feel much less effort.

A big one for me is just being able to be myself because I don’t feel like I’m being judged all the time. I’ve been able to open up around my in-laws for instance and it’s been nice, in the past I was always too self conscious to put myself out there and get to know people.

And just feeling healthier. Being fat gave me such health anxiety but on the other hand would prevent me from seeking treatment when I needed it because I was ashamed of my weight.

twilightcafe · 14/04/2026 15:47

TFImBackIn · 14/04/2026 14:55

Does anyone notice their shoulders feel sharper now? That was quite an odd feeling!

I've lost 4.5 stone and it's like I'm living in another world. Buying clothes was so depressing and now I love it. Totally agree with everyone about travelling - it's so much easier now and I've also noticed I get a lot more help with my bags.

Talking of bags - the bags below my eyes have virtually gone, too!

The main thing for me is that Mounjaro stopped me from drinking regularly. I didn't have one drink for over a year and didn't even think about it. Before then I was having a couple of good-sized glasses of wine every night. It's worth the expense just for that, I think.

Nearly 3 stone down. I can't stop feeling my collarbones.

The first time I felt my ribcage gave me a shock - I didn't know what it was at first.

ThirtysomethingMummy · 14/04/2026 15:52

Lost three stone last year. I still remember walking up the stairs and not feeling out of breath!

cupfinalchaos · 14/04/2026 16:19

Amazing hearing all these stories. I have many problems but weight was never one of them and I don’t realise what so many around me were going through mentally.

monicagellerbing · 14/04/2026 16:47

I’m just at the beginning of Mounjaro and have 10 stone to lose. Cannot wait to be able to do all these things. Can’t remember when I was last able to cross my legs!

I’ve been hearing about pretty privilege has anyone experienced people treating them differently? I always think people are fairly nice to me even now as a huge person but maybe they become even nicer when you’re skinny?!

ShrankLastWinter · 14/04/2026 16:56

monicagellerbing · 14/04/2026 16:47

I’m just at the beginning of Mounjaro and have 10 stone to lose. Cannot wait to be able to do all these things. Can’t remember when I was last able to cross my legs!

I’ve been hearing about pretty privilege has anyone experienced people treating them differently? I always think people are fairly nice to me even now as a huge person but maybe they become even nicer when you’re skinny?!

Rather sadly, the main thing I notice is the loss of quiet camaraderie with other fat women. There’s a wariness from them, because I could be thin and judgy and mean.

monicagellerbing · 14/04/2026 23:09

@ShrankLastWinterwow! I never even considered that!

Flower1989999 · 14/04/2026 23:17

I have lost 7 stone since Jan 25 now a size 10...loads of things...

No knee pain
Getting dressed up is fun
Not getting out of breath and sweaty
I don't lìke the constant male attention i now get when out 🙈 ots li'm visible again!

TheChosenTwo · 14/04/2026 23:31

monicagellerbing · 14/04/2026 16:47

I’m just at the beginning of Mounjaro and have 10 stone to lose. Cannot wait to be able to do all these things. Can’t remember when I was last able to cross my legs!

I’ve been hearing about pretty privilege has anyone experienced people treating them differently? I always think people are fairly nice to me even now as a huge person but maybe they become even nicer when you’re skinny?!

Good luck with your journey on MJ, it’s been so positively life changing for so many of us.

I’ve not really noticed anyone’s attitudes change towards me to be honest but my circle of friends and family and colleagues all seem to be decent people who never openly judge on looks so perhaps I’ve just been lucky. I didn’t feel judged when bigger and not been made to feel more ‘worthy’ now that I’m slim.

Deadringer · 14/04/2026 23:36

I have lost 3 stone (one more to go) and I think the best thing for me is holidays. Finding the plane seat comfy, not worrying about being squished in beside a judgey stranger, or squeezing into the tiny bathroom. No worries about the heat, or whether the holiday place will be hilly, or have a lot of steps to puff up and down. No worries about being judged for eating nice meals out, and being able to fit lots of clothes into my suitcase. Every day life is better too, but my experience of holidays has completely changed for the better.

Firesidechatter · 15/04/2026 07:00

Being healthy is the big one for me. I look healthy. Glowy, I think it’s two years of healthy eating, 3 litres of water a day, minimal alcohol, and working out most days. It really does start from within. You can do all the skin care and make up in the world, but if you’re not healthy inside it shows on the outside.

Plus the wider benefits the drugs bring, I’m on a maintence dose, like reduced inflammation, improved kidney, liver, cardio vascular health, and anti ageing of internal organs as our cells regenerate when the inflammation has gone.

the second big one is sleeping 8 hours a night, I had sleep apnea. It’s gone. And I sleep solidly. A good nights sleep makes a huge difference.

being off the blood pressure meds, they are brutal, so brutal I kept having to have blood tests to check they were not damaging my kidneys.

i lost over 6 and a half stone. Now a bmi 20, size 8, have been for well over a year.

next one is the energy levels, I have huge amounts of energy, bounce out of bed in the morning.

mood, my mood is much better and my mental health. I am no longer sitting feeling deprived and wanting to eat, or guilty as I did eat something. I don’t struggle with clothes, trying to find stuff that’s going to hide the fat. I feel confident in my appearance.

lastly my appearance, I have found my vanity again, lots of lovely new clothes, found my style, enjoying getting dressed in the morning, don’t get worried about what to wear when I go out.

downside. Well cost obviously, attention, both male and female, sometimes positive, admiring, sometimes a little resentful or jealous. I could do without it.

everyone knows I take the meds, never really had any negative judgement, it is hard to be negative and not look like a right wanker when someone visibly looks much healthier in front of you.

ithinkilikethislittlelife · 15/04/2026 07:13

I have gone from 12 stone 9 to 8 stone 7. My body feels lighter and when I look in the mirror I’m proud now of how I look. The main thing for me is opening my wardrobe and EVERYTHING fits. I can wear whatever I want.

MutherTrucker · 16/04/2026 21:40

Did a SHEIN order today and got to send most of it back as it’s too big despite sizing down. This is not the usual reason for returns!

VividDeer · 18/04/2026 09:27

This is inspiring. Just about to start jabs, but have lost 11.5lbs already. Can't wait for

  • being able to buy clothes that fit. I'm very short
  • wearing clothes stashed in garage from before I was big
  • wearing my wedding and engagement ring
  • being happy in photos
  • being happy on holiday

I can dream of all the above. Maybe I will also get less achy joints and might be able to run again....

Periperi2025 · 18/04/2026 11:28

I've had complex endocrine issues. At 16.5 stone i was struggling to absorb and respond to HRT (both Oestrogen and testosterone) so was on a really high dose. With my weight loss (4.5 stone so far) I've started responding to HRT to the degree that my blood levels if oestrogen and testosterone and skyrocketed out of proportion to the weight loss alone, so now I'm rapidly having to drop my doses of both, with the aim to halve the dose, and likely cut the testosterone even more.
There is a lot more left to understand and weight, metabolism, hormones and GLP-1s.

smokymountain · 18/04/2026 14:35

Looking forward to wearing skirts and dresses in summer with no need for anti-chub-rub shorts!

Greenfingers37 · 18/04/2026 15:14

I’m on a cruise at the moment and as much as
I’m enjoying it, I can’t wait to get started on MJ when I get home. My BMI was 29 before the cruise, it’ll be higher when I get back no doubt. Hoping I get approved. I have no health issues.

itsmeecathy · 18/04/2026 15:33

Just putting on casual clothes and going out. I would spend ages trying to hide my fat and end up feeling uncomfortable, now I can just pull on what’s clean and feel tidy and put together!

VividDeer · 18/04/2026 17:42

Greenfingers37 · 18/04/2026 15:14

I’m on a cruise at the moment and as much as
I’m enjoying it, I can’t wait to get started on MJ when I get home. My BMI was 29 before the cruise, it’ll be higher when I get back no doubt. Hoping I get approved. I have no health issues.

I was approved by medexpress, and I think voy. I weighed and did photo after lunch. It was suitably 'fat'. Realised period was also due. Anyway no issues, its bmi 25+ now for both those supplies. Enjoy your cruise

MutherTrucker · 18/04/2026 20:50

My thighs don’t rub when I walk. Can’t wait to have a summer without chub rub!
in fact, walking my legs just feel so much easier to move.

Thecows · 18/04/2026 21:15

I'm the opposite size wise but am also loving all these stories of how good people are feeling 😊

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