You need to consider more than just whether you qualify, but you need to consider the long-term risk vs reward. Of course if one is obese, on the brink of diabetes and heart disease, the reward of avoiding these conditions and certainly dying sooner because of them, overcomes the risk that I am about to describe.
However, what is not talked about enough are the risks associated with using GLP1s when you do not fall into that category, but are wanting to use it for vanity reasons more so than health ones.
GLP1s have really only been in use for treating type 2 diabetes for about 20 years, which seems long, but really isn't when you consider that the off-label usage for weight management in somewhat normal populations has been much more recent. There are not enough long-term studies to really say that we won't uncover worse effects associated with their usage besides the gastro ones that some have, as well as increased risk for pancreatitis and gall bladder issues.
To me, the most significant risk is the potential for muscle and bone loss. If you fail to adjust your diet and exercise while using the GLPs it can result in somewhat significant muscle and bone loss, and put you on a pathway of trading a few extra pounds for osteoporosis in the future.
If you cannot exert the will-power right now to limit your consumption of wine . . . which honestly would get you close to losing the weight you want to anyway, while reducing your risk for a whole host of medical issues associated to alcohol, including diabetes and heart disease, then you have to ask yourself whether you will have the will power to eat well and do weight-training to keep your muscle mass. If you cannot, then you may lose more weight on the GLP1s, but you could do so by eventually getting that skinny "old lady", loose skin . . . veiny arms . . . and flabby untoned look, with it.
This is further exacerbated by your age as being more than likely in perimenopause where you are already upping the risk for these things as estrogen and progesterone decline.