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How are you negotiating Christmas food expectations?

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ICriedAllTheWayToTheChipShop · 20/12/2024 09:54

Couldn't think how else to phrase it! I will be spending Christmas at my parents' house, and they are very much of the "snacks and meals every 30 minutes" school of thought when it comes to Christmas. In the past I would have been first to the biscuit tin, but now I'll need to make my excuses and I'm not sure what to say that will ward off repeated questioning.

I could say I'm trying to lose weight but then I'll get "But it's Christmas, can't you just have some treats for one day?" Or I could say I'm not hungry, but then I'll be offered something else in another hour or asked if I'm feeling ill.

I know I could always tell them I'm on Mounjaro, but I don't really want to for a variety of reasons. Food and weight is a very complicated and difficult topic around my parents and the things they've said to me over the years about my weight have contributed to my crappy relationship with food. So I'd rather not go into it with them, at least not until I'm a bit nearer my goal.

Does anyone have any cunning tactics planned?

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Floralnomad · 20/12/2024 17:16

I’m not on injections but am low carbing quite successfully and I’m fine with no thank you .

Londonmummy66 · 20/12/2024 17:48

ICriedAllTheWayToTheChipShop · 20/12/2024 12:04

I don't really know what the deal is with my mum, because she's always been slim and she doesn't eat half of what she pushes onto other people. Maybe she really enjoys being the only virtuous one in the family and people who don't play along by being pigs are spoiling the illusion?

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"After you" seems a good response then.....

TorroFerney · 20/12/2024 18:00

ICriedAllTheWayToTheChipShop · 20/12/2024 16:19

She definitely has disordered eating, but I'm not sure it's ever tipped over into a full-blown eating disorder, iyswim. She acts like she hates having a fat daughter, but then tries to get me to eat my body weight in sausage rolls over Christmas. No logic to that at all!

Because your place is the fat daughter and she can feel better about herself as she is not fat, some people see being slim as a moral thing. Id be saying I thought you'd be pleased mother.

MajorCarolDanvers · 20/12/2024 18:03

‘I’m on a very strict diet for medical reasons. Please support me by understanding that means I can’t / won’t eat certain foods.’

thinkfast · 22/12/2024 16:37

I'd just say something like "Thanks but I've got a bit of indigestion so don't fancy that right now. If it passes and I want something later I'll let you know. "

Adelstrop · 22/12/2024 17:53

I'd go for the 'I've had a bit of a stomach bug and still feeling a bit dodgy' line. No one can argue with that.

ICriedAllTheWayToTheChipShop · 26/12/2024 16:31

Well, best laid plans... I ended up eating more than I was really comfortable with because the food was just there and it seems I only have the willpower when I'm in my own environment and in charge of what goes in the cupboards and fridge. Also, I'm still only on 2.5mg, my usual dosing day is Friday, and I think it started wearing off around yesterday. Never mind. I'm moving up to 5mg tomorrow and I will just have a week where I don't get on the scales until the inevitable gain has come back off.

Hope the rest of you fared better than I did around all the roasties!

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