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Weight loss injections/treatments

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You shouldn't take weight loss drugs. Learn about healthy eating, eat less and exercise more.

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GapTshirtsAreShitQualityTheseDays · 13/09/2024 13:46

This is like telling an insomniac "don't take tablets, just get more sleep"

I'm 41.
I have tried.

I KNOW all about healthy eating. Probably more than most slim people.
I don't have an emotional/binge eating disorder, I just have a bigger appetite than most people. I can only control it so long via willpower or low-carb diets. The drive to eat is the most powerful instinct known to man (except maybe breathing)

It's the weight loss medication that takes the edge of said appetite and ALLOWS me the space to make sensible decisions on food.

I've gone from 15 stone to 9 stone (I'm short). If these drugs had been invented 20 years ago, my life would have been much better.

And no, I didn't steal the drugs off a diabetic. I got private prescriptions for Wegovy and then Mounjaro which are only marketed for weightloss.

And yes I am quite prepared to take the drug forever if necessary.

And no, I don't care about the "potential unknown long term side effects" because they can hardly be worse than what I was facing with obesity.

And although exercise is beneficial for many reasons, it is a fairly trivial factor in weightloss.

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GapTshirtsAreShitQualityTheseDays · 13/09/2024 18:21

If anyone's interested, I have just had a small bowl of homemade chilli (with mushrooms and peppers). I will now have 2 After Eights.

I will probably not feel the need to eat again until 11am tomorrow when I'll have Greek yog and fruit.

Unless I get v hungry before bed in which case I'll likely have a piece of cheese or a banana or maybe a mini peperami.

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tobee · 13/09/2024 18:25

MounjaroUser · 13/09/2024 14:05

@Holidays4Ever Do you realise you are attaching moral values to losing weight by diet and exercise alone? Why is it intrinsically better to do this, do you think?

Phrases like At that point you should take your chances with the rest of us are very strange. The OP isn't trying to use your life raft. She's trying to maintain a healthy weight so that she can lead a happy and healthy life. Why does that impact on you or anyone else?

Hard agree

tobee · 13/09/2024 18:26

Moier · 13/09/2024 14:15

@Holidays4Ever
l will stay on a dose of mounjaro for ever.
I've tried 3 different types of medication for diabetes.
This is the only one that works for me .
I think you need to educate yourself...rather than using Dr Google.

Glad it works for your diabetes after the others didn't.

Goody2ShoesAndTheFilthyBeast · 13/09/2024 18:30

@Holidays4Ever
"At that point you should take your chances with the rest of us."

Why?

tobee · 13/09/2024 18:34

Goody2ShoesAndTheFilthyBeast · 13/09/2024 18:30

@Holidays4Ever
"At that point you should take your chances with the rest of us."

Why?

Yes do not see why people are so down on the results of this. Just moral judgement. Says more about the judgy person than anything. People get quite angry about it.

PersephonePomegranate23 · 13/09/2024 18:40

GapTshirtsAreShitQualityTheseDays · 13/09/2024 13:58

It enables me to eat less food but higher quality.

So: Greek yoghurt, berries, veg, meat/fish/poultry, nuts, cheese, some chocolate.

I tend to stay away from most carbs as they make me bloated and fuck with my blood sugar.

You could eat this without drugs. Start with small changes and your stomach gets used to less food and a different diet.

At the end of the day, it's your money and your body, so it's your choice and no-one else's business.

MounjaroUser · 13/09/2024 18:43

But you could say that you could get rid of a headache with a litre of water and a good sleep. Or get rid of indigestion by sleeping upright in a chair. Or get rid of acne by waiting five years until you're an adult.

Drugs are not necessarily a bad thing. The effect of using a drug like Mounjaro is you're far, far less likely to suffer from a wide range of illnesses.

elderflowerspritzer · 13/09/2024 18:44

Holidays4Ever · 13/09/2024 13:58

I do not think your prescription should continue once you reach the category Overweight.

At that point you should take your chances with the rest of us.

And you told us you know about healthy eating and sure you can’t do portion control. You did NOT tell us about exercising and you clearly do NOT know much about exercising.

The aim is not to be thin. The aim is to be healthy.

Being healthy is the goal.

Exercising is absolute critically important for a healthy body and mind. You can be as belligerent as you like, but staying in denial of this fact is what is going to cause the damage.

Once your weight is down to a manageable level you should be expected to maintain your health through diet and exercise, you may still be “fat” and struggle, but you don’t have a clinical need for the drugs any more.

You do not need a perfect bmi to be moderately healthy. If you are not obese you should be able to walk, run, do Pilates, yoga, swim, cycle, do aerobics or dance, do weights etc.

Even a small amount of physical activity makes a difference. The more the better.

Do you also feel that when someone taking antidepressants stops feeling depressed, they should stop taking them?

GapTshirtsAreShitQualityTheseDays · 13/09/2024 18:44

PersephonePomegranate23 · 13/09/2024 18:40

You could eat this without drugs. Start with small changes and your stomach gets used to less food and a different diet.

At the end of the day, it's your money and your body, so it's your choice and no-one else's business.

I have been trying stuff like that since I was about 12 and went on my first diet. Small changes, big changes, nothing sticks.

Without the drug, I would have digested that food by about 9pm (the drug slows down digestion). I'd sit and be grumpy and hungry until about 10pm, trying to resist eating more. Then my body would eventually go "fuck it" I'M HUNGRY and be rooting around in the fridge and cupboards or maybe nipping out to the garage for a load of crisps. (I try not to keep junk food in the house)

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PorridgeIsNotSlimmingTheWayIMakeIt · 13/09/2024 18:47

Portion control is a funny thing. When I was a teenager, a packet of fish fingers fed the whole family of five. I can't imagine that nowadays. No wonder I was thin!

GapTshirtsAreShitQualityTheseDays · 13/09/2024 18:48

@MounjaroUser great user name! Out and proud!!

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GapTshirtsAreShitQualityTheseDays · 13/09/2024 18:49

Dunno about anyone else's stomach but mine NEVER got used to small portions without MJ!

I've probably spent more of my life hungry than the most disciplined thin person. :-(

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LegoTherapy · 13/09/2024 18:58

The stomach takes 4-6 hours to empty after eating. Although if your body doesn't like something it with empty faster!

TheRavenSaid · 13/09/2024 18:58

Holidays4Ever · 13/09/2024 13:58

I do not think your prescription should continue once you reach the category Overweight.

At that point you should take your chances with the rest of us.

And you told us you know about healthy eating and sure you can’t do portion control. You did NOT tell us about exercising and you clearly do NOT know much about exercising.

The aim is not to be thin. The aim is to be healthy.

Being healthy is the goal.

Exercising is absolute critically important for a healthy body and mind. You can be as belligerent as you like, but staying in denial of this fact is what is going to cause the damage.

Once your weight is down to a manageable level you should be expected to maintain your health through diet and exercise, you may still be “fat” and struggle, but you don’t have a clinical need for the drugs any more.

You do not need a perfect bmi to be moderately healthy. If you are not obese you should be able to walk, run, do Pilates, yoga, swim, cycle, do aerobics or dance, do weights etc.

Even a small amount of physical activity makes a difference. The more the better.

I do not think your prescription should continue once you reach the category Overweight.

At that point you should take your chances with the rest of us

how does op using weight loss drugs affect you?.

Occitane · 13/09/2024 19:00

I agree with you OP. I was slim until I had children, and then medication for migraine. I'm sure my metabolism changed. I can eat really healthily and exercise but still gain weight. Also, it's very difficult to function if you are still ravenous and trying to eat small portions. It would be much easier if I naturally had a small appetite. Weight loss drugs lessen the cravings and the urge to eat, and I don't think people should be made to feel guilty if they use these drugs to lose weight and improve their overall health.

EasternStandard · 13/09/2024 19:03

I think these drugs are a game changer and I wish we had created it in the UK and envy Denmark enjoying their huge financial bump due to it

I am in a healthy range so don't need it but think people should just use it if it helps them. It could be what helps the NHS generally as it becomes more ubiquitous

Arraminta · 13/09/2024 19:05

SeptemberWitch · 13/09/2024 17:23

You sound rather childish. Who's paying for your medication?

And there we have it. The helpless bitterness. Not only are we losing weight quite easily, but can also afford the £175+ a month in order to do it. That seriously pisses some people off.

Arraminta · 13/09/2024 19:08

Occitane · 13/09/2024 19:00

I agree with you OP. I was slim until I had children, and then medication for migraine. I'm sure my metabolism changed. I can eat really healthily and exercise but still gain weight. Also, it's very difficult to function if you are still ravenous and trying to eat small portions. It would be much easier if I naturally had a small appetite. Weight loss drugs lessen the cravings and the urge to eat, and I don't think people should be made to feel guilty if they use these drugs to lose weight and improve their overall health.

Like you, I'm certain my metabolism has really changed. Partly through age and being peri menopausal, but also because I had to take Tamoxifen for a few years too. Tamoxifen is notorious for making you gain weight as well as increasing your risk of heart disease, stroke and osteoporosis.

WhiteLily1 · 13/09/2024 19:11

LibertyStars · 13/09/2024 14:03

Good for you, op. You don’t need to justify yourself to anyone.

A certain sort of person sees being overweight as a moral failing, so thinks weight loss only counts if it involves some sort of penance (eg hunger). It’s absolute nonsense though.

Shall I tell you why that is?
Becasue most people who are not overweight have to work at that DAILY. For most slimmer people it is a daily internal battle between a hoard of unhealthy junk food being offered at every turn with your mind saying yes please now, and the other side of your brain having to fight that.
OP do you think slimmer people just find it easy peasy to stay a healthy weight? No. It’s bloody hard. You are not the only person in the world to find it hard- most people do!
Weightloss drugs will destroy your insides (and outsides) far more than being fat will if your take them forever. Who knows what horrible side effects there are.

GingerLiberalFeminist · 13/09/2024 19:14

I had a mate tell me i should embrace my body instead of WLI. Ironically she has had a gastric band.
I exercise, I eat healthily, but binge and the WLI has stopped that.

LegoTherapy · 13/09/2024 19:15

Why would anyone slim be pissed off or somehow jealous that someone else got so fat they had to resort to paying for weight loss drugs to lose weight? That's a genuine question because it makes no sense to me at all.

GapTshirtsAreShitQualityTheseDays · 13/09/2024 19:15

@Arraminta good point. It seems to somehow be morally repugnant to have a few extra quid a month or say anything that reveals you do. I hardly think spending £175/m (but on the other hand saving money on food and buying increasingly bigger clothes) makes me the last of the great spenders. Frankly I'd cut corners elsewhere if I had to to make sure I could continue with this drug.

(To anyone wondering about cost - technically my pen is £224/m which is meant to last a month but I take the "secret extra" dose out with a needle so get 5 doses from it. Occasionally I take my dose more/less than weekly depending on how I feel)

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EasternStandard · 13/09/2024 19:15

WhiteLily1 · 13/09/2024 19:11

Shall I tell you why that is?
Becasue most people who are not overweight have to work at that DAILY. For most slimmer people it is a daily internal battle between a hoard of unhealthy junk food being offered at every turn with your mind saying yes please now, and the other side of your brain having to fight that.
OP do you think slimmer people just find it easy peasy to stay a healthy weight? No. It’s bloody hard. You are not the only person in the world to find it hard- most people do!
Weightloss drugs will destroy your insides (and outsides) far more than being fat will if your take them forever. Who knows what horrible side effects there are.

Weightloss drugs will destroy your insides (and outsides)

Where is this from? Is there a study or research you are thinking of?

LegoTherapy · 13/09/2024 19:16

So much anger towards slim people whilst claiming slim people are angry at fat people!

WhiteLily1 · 13/09/2024 19:16

GapTshirtsAreShitQualityTheseDays · 13/09/2024 18:49

Dunno about anyone else's stomach but mine NEVER got used to small portions without MJ!

I've probably spent more of my life hungry than the most disciplined thin person. :-(

Your stomach gets used to what you give it if you stick with smaller portions / low processed carb and sugar consistently for weeks.
OP you really don’t sound like you know much about eating healthily and how to feel full via natural foods.
You are not a special case. You don’t feel hungrier than the next person. You will lose weight just the same as any other person of your sex and age and activity level. There really is no magic or vodoo behind it.