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Just a note re "I did x and mine are fine"

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hunkermunker · 24/10/2008 23:14

If the children to whom you refer aren't 85 (at least), it's not all that bright a statement.

That's all.

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FlameThrowersKillZombies · 24/10/2008 23:15

lol

RedOnHerBeheadedHead · 24/10/2008 23:15

well said!

mazzystartled · 24/10/2008 23:16

quite right

PsychoAxeMurdererMum · 24/10/2008 23:16

very true

Twinklemegan · 24/10/2008 23:17

Hi Hunker. Long time no see. You work so bloody hard on here, you should be on the payroll. (I'm still on the wagon - haven't touched a breast/bottle thread in months).

Cadmum · 24/10/2008 23:19

Valid point. I must repent. I do try to avoid the whole topic but I have offered some potentially dangerous advice lately and my children are not 85...

RottenOtter · 24/10/2008 23:20

not sure

is this saying the effects of weaning/not may not be evident until then?

SecondComing · 24/10/2008 23:21

Does it really matter if they are fine? Even at eighty five?
That's like saying 'I got hit by a car/stabbed in the chest/took ten grams of heroin and I'm ok' yeah, you might be, but not everyone is that lucky.

hunkermunker · 24/10/2008 23:22

RO, I'm saying nobody knows, so don't use it as a debating point, because it's meaningless.

I don't say "I weaned mine at 26 and 28 weeks respectively and they're fine" because I a) don't like to tempt fate and b) don't have a clue what the future holds for them.

TM Suggest it to MN, will you, please?

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wannaBe · 24/10/2008 23:25

surely that works both ways though?

Equally you shouldn't say "I weaned mine at 4 months and they have alergies" because there's no way of knowing whether they would have developed alergies anyway?

SecondComing · 24/10/2008 23:27

Before 6 months they do not have the enzymes to digest solid foods, and some babies do not have closed guts which relates to a food being seen as a foreign protein, therefore fought off and establishing an allergy. This does happen, you cannot say for sure it's the reason behind your child's allergy but you can be sure it does cause some allergies. Why risk it?

wannaBe · 24/10/2008 23:29

Well personally i find it strange that babies are being weaned latr and yet alergies are on the increase.

RottenOtter · 24/10/2008 23:31

'why risk it'

well i could say earlier weaning = less allergies therefore 'why risk it' by leaving it later

works both ways

i go with government guidelines but agree with wannabe

SecondComing · 24/10/2008 23:32

In babies?
Allergies have been on the increase for years. Starting with the lowering of breastfeeding rates and higher early weaning rates.
Plus it's not the only way allergies can be caused.

SecondComing · 24/10/2008 23:33

But earlier weaning does not equal less allergies.

wannaBe · 24/10/2008 23:35

Well there has recently been a lot of suggestion that one of the reasons for the increase in certain alergies is that these foods are actually being introduced too late, and that they should be introduced earlier.

There is iirc quite an extensive study going on atm re nut alergy, and the suggestion seems to be that the guidelines are going to be changed the introduction of nuts and women eating nuts in pregnancy.

There certainly were not the amounts of children with alergies when i was growing up that there are now, and bottle feeding was very much the norm back then.

edam · 24/10/2008 23:36

wannabe, allergies have been on the increase - hugely so - since the 1970s. Nothing to do with later weaning - the guidance hasn't been properly implemented for long enough to see if it has had any effect yet. Potentially an awful lot to do with early weaning, though.

Ivvvvyygootscaaared444 · 24/10/2008 23:39

my grandfather lived till he was 93 and he smoked all his life - does that mean smoking is ok?

edam · 24/10/2008 23:41

look at the stats, Wannabe. B/f lowers the risk of allergies, formula certainly doesn't offer any protection.

If you look at a graph showing the rate of increase in allergies in the population, the curve starts to get really steep in the early 70s, when formula feeding become really popular. These two facts may not be cause and effect, of course, not enough evidence to say conclusively yet. But it sure as hell isn't b/f that is causing allergies!

ewwwmy2shoesarefullofblood · 24/10/2008 23:44

I have never understood these threads.
we did what we did as that was what we were advised back then(ds is 16) I have to date met one girl with an alergy nt and one sn.

hunkermunker · 24/10/2008 23:48

Wannabe, most babies still aren't weaned at six months. 1% were exclusively bf at 6m, I think, from 2005 study. Lurk on practically any other parenting forum - ALL the mainstream ones - and you'll see loads of babies being weaned incredibly early still.

And only one third of babies are exclusively breastfed by the end of their first week of life (although that's because they're having formula, not solid food, in most cases).

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RottenOtter · 25/10/2008 00:08

hunker i NEED more of these facts to make me carry on feel proud of myself!

TinkerBellesMum · 25/10/2008 00:14

Weaning was 9-12 months before the war and dropped down with the introduction of formula. So allergies have been on the rise since early weaning started, unless you think that there were more allergies before then

SecondComing · 25/10/2008 00:29

When formula was introduced it wasn't of todays standard. It caused a lot of scurvy and rickets as it was not up to the job nutritionally, so by about 3 months the baby's stores had gone. That is why early weaning started, and since then allergies have increased.

Shitehag · 25/10/2008 00:35

I think lots of people are weaning their babies too early.
Allegies are on the increase due to loads of different enviromental factors IMO.