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Would you take 4yo to gp with a headache?

36 replies

Fligflaag · 23/07/2026 07:47

2 night ago 4yo woke up twice saying his neck hurt. (Didn't think anything of it as he often wakes up with aches and pains and is always fine in the morning.)

Later that night he was awake for nearly 2 hours with a really bad headache and feeling as though he was going to be sick. (But wasn't) Gave him painkillers.

In the morning he seemed okay but said his head hurt a few times but seemed fine.

Last night, he woke up again with a headache, went back to sleep but woke up again and hour later with his head ache worse and needing painkillers.

He's otherwise well. Is going to the GP and over reaction?

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pepperminticecream · 23/07/2026 07:51

Take him. There’s too much anxiety over going to the GP in the UK. They are there to provide medical care. I don’t second guess when it comes to my children and nor do i ever feel bad for taking them in to be seenz

Fligflaag · 23/07/2026 07:57

I know what you mean. It's just that I know it probably is just a headache so I don't know if I'm just being overly anxious about it.

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r0ck · 23/07/2026 07:59

My son gets migraines and when he was seen by a paediatrician about them they said if he wakes in the night with them then get him seen again. So I don't think you'd be unreasonable to take him to the GP.

fiveminutestochill · 23/07/2026 07:59

Yes, I absolutely would in your situation. I'd be phoning for an urgent appt too and if no luck getting on to 111. He's probably fine, but I'd want him seen before the weekend.

Theforbiddenforest · 23/07/2026 08:03

Yes you should take him. Waking from deep sleep with a headache needs checking out.

My DD had this just over a year ago, had an MRI and thankfully nothing sinister.

pepperminticecream · 23/07/2026 08:05

Fligflaag · 23/07/2026 07:57

I know what you mean. It's just that I know it probably is just a headache so I don't know if I'm just being overly anxious about it.

Follow your intuition. You are posting here so I am guessing you feel that something is wrong. You should take him. I hope everything is totally fine!

Crumpetring · 23/07/2026 08:06

Head and neck plain together that didn’t really calm down would justify a GP trip to me.

Fligflaag · 23/07/2026 08:09

To be fair he's never mentioned the neck pain since. I just mentioned it in case it was relevant. He still doesn't sleep through the night and comes into my room saying his back/knee/leg hurts. I think he says it as an 'excuse' to wake me up at night if you know what I mean? So the neck 'pain' could be that.

Anyway, I've made him a GP appointment for this morning.

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Feelinghothothothot · 23/07/2026 08:21

Yes I would. I think it’s unusual for small children to complain of a headache. Mine never did. I would mention the other pains he is complaining of too.

Fligflaag · 23/07/2026 10:36

The GP checked him over and said it was just a headache.

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GreenFootstool · 23/07/2026 10:38

Is there a history of migraine in the family?

Migraine can present in children of this age, and it often shows up slightly differently than in adults.

https://migrainetrust.org/migraine-in-children-and-young-people/

Help for children and young people with migraine - The Migraine Trust

If you are a child or young person with migraine, we can help

https://migrainetrust.org/migraine-in-children-and-young-people/

MyOliveStork · 23/07/2026 10:39

Even though GP has checked him, keep an eye on him. If headaches continue go back to GP. Any headache that wakes a child is concerning.
Also get his eyes checked.

VanCleefArpels · 23/07/2026 10:43

My DS has suffered chronic migraine since he was a baby. He had episodes of extreme fussiness/crying as a baby followed by a single vomit which seemed to resolve things. When he could talk he referred to pain in his head during these episodes. Always led to sickness. We ended up being referred to peads and he started taking a prophylactic from around age 8 as he was missing school a lot. So definitely go to GP if this is a recurring thing.

Fligflaag · 23/07/2026 11:12

Thanks everyone. I will definitely keep an eye on him and take him back if it continues. I get migraines but I didn't realise 4 year olds could get them! I seriously hope this isn't the start. Your poor DS @VanCleefArpels!

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VanCleefArpels · 23/07/2026 11:50

Fligflaag · 23/07/2026 11:12

Thanks everyone. I will definitely keep an eye on him and take him back if it continues. I get migraines but I didn't realise 4 year olds could get them! I seriously hope this isn't the start. Your poor DS @VanCleefArpels!

Taking a tiny pill (Pizotifen) every day was a miracle! He’s grown up now and very rarely gets a migraine, stopped taking the medication while at uni due to failing to get a repeat prescription 🙄

orangehandles · 23/07/2026 11:57

If he gets recurring headaches, maybe take him to see an osteopath who specialises in cranial osteopathy on young children. That's what we had to do when our dc got a lot of headaches at primary school age. Turned out her head wasn't aligned properly with her neck, probably caused during spine-to-spine birth, but it was only as she got older that it started to cause issues.

JustAnotherWhinger · 23/07/2026 11:59

Could be worth getting his eyes tested.

Justploddingonandon · 23/07/2026 12:02

Yes, my DS got sent to A&E with severe headaches and neck pain. It turned out he had the flu but it can be a red flag for meningitis ( it usually isn’t but does need checking out).

user293948849167 · 23/07/2026 12:06

JustAnotherWhinger · 23/07/2026 11:59

Could be worth getting his eyes tested.

Yes this, worth ruling out whether it’s his eyes

KaySam · 23/07/2026 13:58

Take him for an eye test that can rule a lot of things out,or he could actually need glasses

Widowwith2 · 23/07/2026 17:03

Defo take to gp our child was the same having headaches,they were referred to hospital and kept in for ct scan and mri.Thankfully showed nothing sinister they did find cysts on the brain that aren't dangerous.Hope ur little one is ok

Imalittleelf · 23/07/2026 17:07

My DD gets migraines, minor at a young age but from around 7 they got progressively worse. She now has one at least once a month, but she is usually sick, sleeps for 12 hours and is fine.

Docs wont do anything for us yet as too young for medication but we are keeping a log, including what she has done prior, food eaten, sleep pattern so we have tracking evidence once she is old enough for further investigation

DD is hereditary on dad's side

Wolverine23 · 23/07/2026 17:21

MyOliveStork · 23/07/2026 10:39

Even though GP has checked him, keep an eye on him. If headaches continue go back to GP. Any headache that wakes a child is concerning.
Also get his eyes checked.

The GP is right, and it's not concerning. But do keep an eye out of course and definitely get his eyes checked, but just sounds like he could be prone to migraines. Ive had them all my life and and even waking up with them as a small child.

EmmaB1309 · 23/07/2026 18:59

I would. It’s an unusual thing for such a young child to complain of I think.