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Why can't I grow my triceps?

17 replies

Bubbles254 · 14/10/2023 08:07

I have been doing the Caroline Girvan iron program a couple of months on repeat and have had strength/muscle tone improvements in my core, biceps and legs. However I can't see any sign of any tricep muscle and am so weak there I can't do a single push up. I have also been doing the boxflex 3 minute plank every day and it is always my arms which tire first.

Any ideas how I can build more strength here? Should I do anything else on top of iron? I don't want to over work them but just feel so weak.

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Cathyt90 · 14/10/2023 08:16

I've been doing Iron and adding on Caroline's 10 minute upper body dumbell workout most days. Definitely seen improvement in my triceps but I agree not as impressive as biceps, shoulders and legs.

Likeaburstcouch · 14/10/2023 08:17

I struggle a lot with triceps too! Do you have dumbbells? There are a few variations of tricep extensions you could do. I think lying down is the best to ensure you're isolating them. I have to use my lightest weight tho I think the muscle is just much smaller.

Bubbles254 · 14/10/2023 08:26

Cathyt90 · 14/10/2023 08:16

I've been doing Iron and adding on Caroline's 10 minute upper body dumbell workout most days. Definitely seen improvement in my triceps but I agree not as impressive as biceps, shoulders and legs.

Ooh thank you, I might try this. I get confused over how much rest I should give each muscle group. Is this OK to do everyday? Do you avoid it if you have done say an iron upper body day the day before?

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DustyLee123 · 14/10/2023 08:26

Start with your push ups against the wall, then a table, before moving on to the floor.

Bubbles254 · 14/10/2023 08:28

Thank you. Yes I have 3kg, 5kg and 10kg dumbbells. I tend to use the 3kg x 2 for arms exercises when lifting above my head, 5 x 2 kg for other arm ones like bent over rows. Generally weights under half of what Caroline Girvan uses!

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Bubbles254 · 14/10/2023 08:29

Sorry above reply meant for Likeaburstcouch

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Cathyt90 · 14/10/2023 08:42

If it's been a heavy arm day on Iron I'll add on a 20 minute abs workout, but otherwise the 10 minute upper body. I just tend to listen to my body, sometimes I know I can do more on the arms, sometimes I can barely left my arms over my head for the cool down! I lift heavier than you (but nowhere near Caroline). Maybe get some 7 or 8kg dumbells as the step up from 5 to 10 might put you off trying to up the weight on tricep presses?

Bubbles254 · 14/10/2023 08:53

@Cathyt90 thank you. That makes sense. Yes 8kg dumbbells are on my wish list! I probably could lift a bit heavier than I do but am quite cautious as I have low bone density and am prone to lower back pain. Maybe if I do the heavier weights whilst lying down? I use 1 10kg for skullcrushers.

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RayKray · 14/10/2023 10:46

Can you feel it in your triceps when you're working them? If not it might be your form isn't quite right so you're using different muscles. I had to adjust my skullcrushers to get them right. I've also had to adjust tricep extensions on the cable machine for the same reason. When I'm working them I can absolutely feel them

Laurdo · 14/10/2023 12:26

Try using resistance bands. Cheaper than buying more dumbbells. Tie it round something high up and do tricep extensions.

LyricalGangsta · 14/10/2023 12:35

I've got huge triceps but can't do a push up 🤷‍♀️

WithIcePlease · 14/10/2023 12:38

Triceps dips on a chair or step?
I do 3-4 sets amrap of these with 30s rest between but this is after I've already done 2 other triceps exercises, just to burn them out.
Can certainly feel this exercise working my triceps and no fancy equipment needed. Maybe use a step or low stool at first?

Bilingualspingual · 14/10/2023 12:41

Is it definitely your triceps? I started being able to do press ups after using quite high weights for lying down chest exercises. Your weights seem very light to me as well, but I know that’s subjective. I agree with buying 7 or 8 kg. This is all from an absolute amateur btw, just my immediate thoughts!

WhatAreYouWaitingFor · 14/10/2023 12:50

I built my strength for push ups by focusing on the movement of lowering myself down, in a controlled, slow way. I took the "up" movement out of the equation completely.

Once I was able to do this, I had the strength to do a complete push up.

Bubbles254 · 14/10/2023 20:34

Thanks all, lots of good ideas. @RayKray good point, I can definitely feel them when I do some exercises, less so for others. I will keep a check on my form for these.

@WithIcePlease I do some tricep pushup in the iron programme and these do seem more effective than some of the other exercises. Will try to do more of these.

@Bilingualspingual I expect it isn't just my biceps but they are certainly the weak point. Will see if I can get some heavier weights. Am wondering whether to go for 7kg or jump to 8kg.

@WhatAreYouWaitingFor good idea, will give this a try.

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FarEast · 15/10/2023 12:16

You're probably not challenging the muscles enough.

For hypertrophy (muscle growth) you need:

Train to failure
Heavy weights, low reps
Sufficient rest between sets
Eat enough & eat enough protein

FarEast · 15/10/2023 12:30

I built my strength for push ups by focusing on the movement of lowering myself down, in a controlled, slow way. I took the "up" movement out of the equation completely.

Ditto. It's called a negative. It's the way I've not got a full 'hand release' press up. And for me the remaining weakness isn't in my arms - it's my core - I forget to pull my ribs down to my hip bones on the upward push.

The other thing I do is walk out press ups. Forward fold, nose to knees, hands on the ground, then walk yourself out to a full arm plank, lower yourself down as slowly as possible, making sure your chest touches the floor before your hips. Then push up, keeping your body in the plank position - for me, it's keeping the core straight now & not raising my hips first. Then walk your hands back to your toes. You get a good back & hamstring stretch as well!

It's the same with pull ups. Get up there with a band, and then lower yourself down as slowly as possible. Aim for 7 seconds, then 8, then 9 and so on.

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