I just wondered where everyone is ‘at’ with this atm? I’d welcome some honest opinions please. I know Parelli in particular wasn’t popular on here about 10 years ago but horsemanship has evolved in to different aligned methods more recently which are better taught now and more and more riders are taking on board natural
horsemanship methods.
I was taught traditional classical methods of schooling in my youth but I’m old so that was forty years ago now.
More recently, I returned to riding, bought my own horse and have been having intermittent lessons with someone who is a very very skilled practitioner in natural horsemanship and liberty - I am not talking Monty Roberts chasing around a pen endlessly for no good reason - it’s much more subtle and thorough and gentle than that. More Warwick Schiller meets Emma Massingale with a gentle but firm featherlight touch!
Natural horsemanship was completely new to me and I find it fascinating but I am not very skilled in it as yet so I don’t have as much confidence with it as I do in the methods I was taught originally. I’m doing a lot of groundwork obviously and I love it but it’s one of the hardest things I’ve ever done, especially as my horse is eleven years old and quite a stubborn weight carrier type.
The lessons are expensive and some days have gone great and other days I’ve felt frustrated as I’m relearning basic stuff eg putting a horse back in the stable, and even that I can’t seem to do right the new way! I have come to appreciate the importance of groundwork though and how it feeds in to work under saddle.
Anyway, I have come to a sort of crossroads where I don’t know which road to go down. I don’t compete or anything, other than in-hand at a very local village show or doing the most basic of dressage, I mainly hack and hope to drive as I get older. And I am at the mid point where I have left my old methods behind but I am not totally skilled at the new methods yet. And the lessons are mega expensive. So I am having a bit of a wobble.
To compound this I got some really snotty comments recently from people at my yard who are very embedded shall we say in traditional methods, some of whom
are very good horsemen, asking what did I think I doing “fannying about” and “he’s not a circus trick pony you know”.
Any advice please? Sorry this was so long!