what's usually understood by boarding, which is where a child is some distance from home and only goes home in the holidays, and where contact with parents is discouraged for the first three weeks. Where they are dropped off not knowing anyone and just have to stick it out.
This is utter crap and you clearly know nothing about actual contemporary boarding at responsible schools, @NameChangeMay2026.
For current parents, racing up and down the motorway or living on trains to and from the school can be pretty much a full time job. ‘Only goes home in the holidays’ my arse! While the youngest in our family was at one of the prominent schools being discussed on this thread, they were rarely at school for more than two or three weeks at a time and we could see them on pretty much any day we liked, in person. As well as for virtually unlimited time, outside lessons, on FaceTime. contact with parents is discouraged for the first three weeks. Nope! Wrong again. They were FaceTiming us with all the exciting newness of it all whenever they had time. From the start. ‘Dropped off not knowing anyone’. Again, wrong. Even if they hadn’t come up from a prep with several of their little playmates, it’s part of the housemaster’s job to ensure all the new boys in his house have met and spent some time together before the start of the academic year. And it’s the duty of older pupils to help them acclimatise.
The other obvious thing is that by the time a boy joins the school he’d have spent plenty of time there during the application and entry process. And decided he liked it and enjoyed being there. Absolutely no question of being dropped off in a strange environment and abandoned there till Christmas.
Why not do some research before spouting nonsense?