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Tom Bower's "Betrayal" Book discussion thread

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BasiliskStare · 26/03/2026 12:13

My copy of Tom Bower's new book "Betrayal" has transported itself on to my Kindle . Just started it.
A thread for those reading for discussion if anyone is interested.
All opinions welcome , but no spitting , no fighting 😂

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jeffgoldblum · 27/03/2026 11:01

Indianrollerbird · 27/03/2026 10:48

He didn’t offer to pay initially, only when it was leaked to the media that he was suing the government because he believed the bespoke arrangement wasn’t good enough, only then did he claim he had offered to pay, (that was proven in court to be a lie). He wants access to UK police intelligence along with 24 hour close protection.

I'd forgotten about this. He unsuccessfully sued ANL for libel. This is the article that the court found was accurately reporting Harry's lie.

https://archive.is/8bGYm

Oh ! I’m now wondering if Harry’s ( rather dubious it now seems!) case against ANL is actually more about revenge ?!

TheAutumnCrow · 27/03/2026 11:12

jeffgoldblum · 27/03/2026 11:01

Oh ! I’m now wondering if Harry’s ( rather dubious it now seems!) case against ANL is actually more about revenge ?!

I wonder if Hacked Off assessed him as an easy mark. He comes across as so embittered and vengeful, even over old girlfriends and events of 20 years ago.

What the hell have his private therapists been playing at? He is stuck in a cycle of self-fuelling his own anger, and it’s pretty obvious the man hates his past, hates his life, and hates himself, clinging to his wife like a drowning man clutches at a floating piece of the shipwreck.

It’s Greek tragedy stuff.

MrsLeonFarrell · 27/03/2026 11:18

I don't find Tom Bower or Andrew Lownie particularly nice people. They both have pretty large axes too grind.

But having said that I don't think that affects facts, just their interpretation of things that aren't facts. I'm not surprised there isn't much new in this book, Harry and Meghan live pretty public lives and all the interviews, books and statements they have released make their views easy to find.

Disappointing to give trolls space in a book which claims to be serious but i suppose rumours need addressing, hopefully to point out what isn't true.

Cheese55 · 27/03/2026 11:21

See i know this is controversial but I think someone might have wondered what colour the baby would as an interest point rather than a worry. Also it's not for me to say as Im not of colour, but I think the press turned on her because she is a woman with a voice.

bluegreygreen · 27/03/2026 11:25

Carla786 · 26/03/2026 20:49

Hang on, where did he do that? On his Substack, or somewhere else?

Yes, on his Substack.

To avoid derailing this thread, you'll find details if you search my username and Lownie or Substack.

bluegreygreen · 27/03/2026 11:31

See i know this is controversial but I think someone might have wondered what colour the baby would as an interest point rather than a worry.

It's also possible that someone had a well-intentioned conversation about what the media stories might be like, given the 'commoner genes' story with Catherine.
https://archive.is/ogARS

BasiliskStare · 27/03/2026 11:41

@TravellingSomewhere "And OP has now read the book snd says it has nothing new it in that you wouldn't of already known (presumably read for free)."

That's not quite what I said. I said there (in my opinion ) are no salacious new details if that's what people were expecting . I also said a lot of his footnotes referred to previously published material. But those are wide and varied. He also has footnotes referring to "private interviews" which I assume he can back up. So expecting to read eg H is doing an astro physics degree at UCLA , never before known - it's not there ( I made that up - the degree bit - not it not being there 😂) Those who follow the life and times of H&M will know a lot of this stuff but there are some interesting things I didn't know. Others may have.
I'm not an advocate of reading the book , just giving one opinion. I thought it was a decent effort and brings quite a lot together quite succinctly. He isn't a forensic historian but then no-one is compelled to read his book.

@Thedom - If you give me a while I'll check re the Invictus Sussex squad thing. I love my Kindle for very many reasons but it is harder to flip back and forth than will a physical book. Have a few errands today but I'll give it a go and check later on.

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jeffgoldblum · 27/03/2026 11:51

TheAutumnCrow · 27/03/2026 11:12

I wonder if Hacked Off assessed him as an easy mark. He comes across as so embittered and vengeful, even over old girlfriends and events of 20 years ago.

What the hell have his private therapists been playing at? He is stuck in a cycle of self-fuelling his own anger, and it’s pretty obvious the man hates his past, hates his life, and hates himself, clinging to his wife like a drowning man clutches at a floating piece of the shipwreck.

It’s Greek tragedy stuff.

I think it’s likely either they were too busy appeasing him to do the job properly or more likely he didn’t listen or pay attention to what they said!

Pleasealexa · 27/03/2026 11:52

Op, no fighting said in a Thomas Shelby voice 😃

jeffgoldblum · 27/03/2026 11:57

BasiliskStare · 27/03/2026 11:41

@TravellingSomewhere "And OP has now read the book snd says it has nothing new it in that you wouldn't of already known (presumably read for free)."

That's not quite what I said. I said there (in my opinion ) are no salacious new details if that's what people were expecting . I also said a lot of his footnotes referred to previously published material. But those are wide and varied. He also has footnotes referring to "private interviews" which I assume he can back up. So expecting to read eg H is doing an astro physics degree at UCLA , never before known - it's not there ( I made that up - the degree bit - not it not being there 😂) Those who follow the life and times of H&M will know a lot of this stuff but there are some interesting things I didn't know. Others may have.
I'm not an advocate of reading the book , just giving one opinion. I thought it was a decent effort and brings quite a lot together quite succinctly. He isn't a forensic historian but then no-one is compelled to read his book.

@Thedom - If you give me a while I'll check re the Invictus Sussex squad thing. I love my Kindle for very many reasons but it is harder to flip back and forth than will a physical book. Have a few errands today but I'll give it a go and check later on.

Don’t pay it any mind ! The new narrative is obviously to discredit and put people off reading the book!
but I do find the accusation that you read the book “ for free” rather a tad unsavoury!

TravellingSomewhere · 27/03/2026 12:19

jeffgoldblum · 27/03/2026 11:57

Don’t pay it any mind ! The new narrative is obviously to discredit and put people off reading the book!
but I do find the accusation that you read the book “ for free” rather a tad unsavoury!

I didn't accuse anyone of reading the book for free. I was simply saying if there is no new information and its information you already knew about which you would have read about for free. If its come from Internet trolls well anything can find that for free by searching the Internet, if its from previous news articles again most is free to read and then there are sm foums like this one where people post the information up for free.

I don't need to discredit him, he did that himself in that interview I was simply asking people the OP what their thoughts were about the fact it contains lies/ made up stuff.

jeffgoldblum · 27/03/2026 12:21

TravellingSomewhere · 27/03/2026 12:19

I didn't accuse anyone of reading the book for free. I was simply saying if there is no new information and its information you already knew about which you would have read about for free. If its come from Internet trolls well anything can find that for free by searching the Internet, if its from previous news articles again most is free to read and then there are sm foums like this one where people post the information up for free.

I don't need to discredit him, he did that himself in that interview I was simply asking people the OP what their thoughts were about the fact it contains lies/ made up stuff.

Sorry couldn’t follow half of that!

bluegreygreen · 27/03/2026 12:40

I haven't bought the book (I may do yet) but I'm appreciating seeing in print correction of some of the Sussex lies.

Edit to add: for clarity, I've been following along on another site.

Tom Bower's "Betrayal"   Book discussion thread
BasiliskStare · 27/03/2026 12:50

TravellingSomewhere · 27/03/2026 12:19

I didn't accuse anyone of reading the book for free. I was simply saying if there is no new information and its information you already knew about which you would have read about for free. If its come from Internet trolls well anything can find that for free by searching the Internet, if its from previous news articles again most is free to read and then there are sm foums like this one where people post the information up for free.

I don't need to discredit him, he did that himself in that interview I was simply asking people the OP what their thoughts were about the fact it contains lies/ made up stuff.

Thanks @TravellingSomewhere - you are right - I didn't read the book for free . I said most / a lot of the information was in the public domain.

So - (don't ask me about pages in the actual book because I don't have that only the Kindle version )

  • 64% is the actual book. - The rest is a short acknowledgments and the rest is Endnotes ( ie references. ) Inter alia these include newspapers , podcasts , publicly available interviews , other books , some publicly available court statements etc. & some Private interviews. So yes you could read a lot for free but many behind paywalls - good luck if you have the time and the stamina to go through all those if you can borrow a physical book to take a copy of the references . Personally I was happy to stump up the Kindle price ( I check my priviledge) to have TB do that for me. & he's put together a readable book.

To be honest, I don't think he has given credence to trolls. Eg he referenced people saying in the twerking video M wasn't really pregnant. So that's a reference but genuinely doesn't come across like he believes it. I think he will have been too careful to include lies / made up stuff. Colour me naive but I do. Why would he when he could be sued? No dragon slayer he methinks.

I'm not an apologist for Tom Bower. I just thought those who had read the book might have some interesting views on it.

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corblimeyguvnr · 27/03/2026 13:22

Cheese55 · 27/03/2026 11:21

See i know this is controversial but I think someone might have wondered what colour the baby would as an interest point rather than a worry. Also it's not for me to say as Im not of colour, but I think the press turned on her because she is a woman with a voice.

What do you mean by that exactly?

Cheese55 · 27/03/2026 13:26

corblimeyguvnr · 27/03/2026 13:22

What do you mean by that exactly?

That the media weren't being racist, they didnt like an outspoken woman and it was misogyny. I barely know what kate M sounds like as she never speaks. As I said she felt it was racist, so it is.

Roadtripp · 27/03/2026 13:36

TheAutumnCrow · 27/03/2026 11:12

I wonder if Hacked Off assessed him as an easy mark. He comes across as so embittered and vengeful, even over old girlfriends and events of 20 years ago.

What the hell have his private therapists been playing at? He is stuck in a cycle of self-fuelling his own anger, and it’s pretty obvious the man hates his past, hates his life, and hates himself, clinging to his wife like a drowning man clutches at a floating piece of the shipwreck.

It’s Greek tragedy stuff.

I agree with this - he has been the ‘useful idiot’ to many people - including MM - for them to push their own agenda. Someone with such a reactive, brittle and brooding disposition doesnt take too much effort to activate.

I think PH was also very specifically and strategically used by Hacked Off to groom and reel in Doreen Lawrence - both participants then giving the case more profile (PH) and sympathy (DL) - because let’s face it who would care from the hasbeens Sadie Frost, Simon Hugh’s and Liz Hurley etc.

Recklessismymiddlename · 27/03/2026 13:40

IMO
If Harry wants tax payer funded security then he can come back and earn his keep, by visiting hospitals and factories, not just celebrity gigs.

TheAutumnCrow · 27/03/2026 13:41

jeffgoldblum · 27/03/2026 12:21

Sorry couldn’t follow half of that!

Well, quite. I don't think the Chief Literary Critic for The Sunday Times need worry about the competition.

corblimeyguvnr · 27/03/2026 13:43

Cheese55 · 27/03/2026 13:26

That the media weren't being racist, they didnt like an outspoken woman and it was misogyny. I barely know what kate M sounds like as she never speaks. As I said she felt it was racist, so it is.

No she FELT it was racist but that doesn't necessarily mean it was. Many people FEEL things but it doesn't mean they were intended that way.

I was more interested in how you thought she was outspoken eg when - I recall the engagement interview where she was happy and then the Africa " nobody asks how I am " . I don't know if I would class her as outspoken at that time or ever - sure she talks a LOT but much of it is garbled in vogue talk . I guess I would say maybe whiney and inappropriate. Of course we don't know the background goings on with the bullying of staff.

Also odd that you say the POW never speaks.

Indianrollerbird · 27/03/2026 14:06

Cheese55 · 27/03/2026 13:26

That the media weren't being racist, they didnt like an outspoken woman and it was misogyny. I barely know what kate M sounds like as she never speaks. As I said she felt it was racist, so it is.

She - you mean Meghan, I assume - didn't hear the conversation. She got it second hand from Harry. Who knows what spin he placed on the conversation, whatever it was about? And yes, POC (like me) talk about what a future baby will look like, including colour of skin, hair and eyes, as has been discussed many times on these threads. The one person who has publicly expressed a fear that his child might take on Meghan's colouring is Harry - expressing relief that his "ginger genes" had prevailed over Meghan's in his daughter (during his Colbert Show interview). And both Harry and Meghan rejoiced over Lily's "blue blue blue eyes" and Diana colouring during the Netflix docusoap; dispensing with any discussion of Archie with a quick, "he looks like Meghan".

Mylovelygreendress · 27/03/2026 14:25

Thedom · 27/03/2026 09:53

I do follow his antics, and he has said he never believed quitting his role and moving abroad would mean losing the UK based Royal protection officers, he believed he was entitled to that. They were automatically assigned to him full time while he was in Canada on his 12 month sabbatical. I read 2 or 3 teams of 6 full time UK close protection officers on a two weeks rota, flying back and forth between the UK and Canada, huge overheads (overtime, accommodation, flights etc). All paid for by the taxpayers of the country he doesn’t like abd paid for by the hard earned cash of the citizens of a country he falsely claimed are racist.

When he quit the RF and quit the UK permanently he was advised he would lose the benefit of full time security which would be replaced by a bespoke arrangement where his security needs were assessed prior to each UK visit , requiring him to notify the home office in advance so they could activate the bespoke plan.

He has been in court since, because he doesn’t like the new arrangement, and lobbying the government to reinstate 24 hour UK security irrespective of where in the world he decides to live or travel to, usually for commercial purposes.

He didn’t offer to pay initially, only when it was leaked to the media that he was suing the government because he believed the bespoke arrangement wasn’t good enough, only then did he claim he had offered to pay, (that was proven in court to be a lie). He wants access to UK police intelligence along with 24 hour close protection.

He has his own personal armed security in the country he needs it most, his current country of residence, and in the UK if the police deem it necessary. Rhianna has just had her home in California shot at, he certainly needs to keep on his toes in his country of residence, don’t think he needs to worry about gun toting randoms on his visits to the UK. I don’t believe he even does worry about it, considering he was wandering around Fulham and knocking on random doors, bet he wouldn’t dream of doing that in California, !

Anyway, it seems his tax payer funded round the clock security is being reinstated, if the leaks coming from Harry are correct.

It’s also worth mentioning that at the time H and M made THAT statement, they also issued another one stating that as IPPs they would continue to receive full protection. That was removed but maybe someone took a screenshot.
Harry said he never thought his security would be removed . Even though he was told it would be !

Indianrollerbird · 27/03/2026 14:25

I think he will have been too careful to include lies / made up stuff. Colour me naive but I do. Why would he when he could be sued? No dragon slayer he methinks.

I don't agree with the dragon slayer part. Bower has taken on some very big fish, eg Robert Maxwell, Tiny Rowlands, Richard Branson. Several have tried to sue him - unsuccessfully. Maxwell basically had to buy Bower's publishing house to prevent his book being published.

He was successfully sued by Nick Brown MP on the very issue of repeating a rumour - a case heard in front of Nicklin MJ no less (the judge in the ongoing ANL case). So Bower knows better than to be relying on rumours (trolling) as facts in his books, and I assume his publishers don't want to be stung again.

There is absolutely nothing wrong discussing online conjecture and conspiracy without giving it the stamp of credibility or approval- and in this day and age it would be a bit silly to ignore the massive, digital elephant in the room vis a vis a couple who utilise online vehicles on a daily basis and have an online fan club who are quite happy to do a bit of trolling themselves. And it would be stupid to ignore the vast amount of noise about the Sussexes that takes place outside regular media discussion platforms. That's actually just acknowledging the zeitgeist, and the reason there is a discord in the level of popularity and credibility the press want to project the Sussexes as retaining, and their actual level of popularity in the wild. A discord GMB/ITV doesn't seem to understand, or doesn't want to.

HeddaGarbled · 27/03/2026 15:30

One snippet I found interesting:

Court case against the Mirror - one of the headlines that was alleged to come from phone hacking was “Hooray Harry is dumped” (about Chelsy Davy). He thought they were saying “hooray” in a celebratory way because he didn’t know it was a word commonly used to describe his type of people.