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C5 Documentary: Harry and Meghan, Rise and Fall

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IsoldeWagner · 18/08/2024 12:10

Anyone watching this? It's on My5. I thought the first episode was interesting. I was reminded of how popular they were and how much support they got.

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IsoldeWagner · 22/08/2024 09:21

One thing that really struck me about the C5 documentary was the response of H&M to banks of photographers and press. They loved it! Especially those scenes of the early days - the clicking and the flashing of the cameras non stop, they basked in it, pausing, turning, smiling. They look thrilled and loved being the centre of attention. It clearly suited them.
I think therefore a life of unofficial royalty, for them, had to include that level of press interest, headlines and clicks. That's what they want to maintain.

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smilesy · 22/08/2024 09:24

What is interesting to is that the famous “three of us in this marriage” phrase used by Diana is now interpreted to refer to Camilla, but it didn’t because Bashir had convinced her that Charles was having an affair with someone else entirely. So all Harry’s vilifying of Camilla is misplaced for that point of view and ironically the person who was (wrongly) thought of by Diana as the culprit was someone Harry was close to

smilesy · 22/08/2024 09:28

IsoldeWagner · 22/08/2024 09:21

One thing that really struck me about the C5 documentary was the response of H&M to banks of photographers and press. They loved it! Especially those scenes of the early days - the clicking and the flashing of the cameras non stop, they basked in it, pausing, turning, smiling. They look thrilled and loved being the centre of attention. It clearly suited them.
I think therefore a life of unofficial royalty, for them, had to include that level of press interest, headlines and clicks. That's what they want to maintain.

I think many of us have come to understand that what Harry calls “misinformation” and negative press is in fact any negative opinion of him and his wife. He’s quite happy with the press when they say nice things about them

IsoldeWagner · 22/08/2024 09:34

Yes, I think that's at the heart of it, @smilesy .
They want to be royal, famous, titled, photographed, respected, listened to. However - it's not realistic that there will be no criticism, and they don't seem to get it.
There is not one member of that family who hasn't had some bad press at some point. What the others did to get past it was to tune it out and focus on what they had to do. How Camilla got out of bed at one point defeats me, but now look at her! Supporting anti Domestic Violence projects, women's refuges, literacy, - all positive and all making a difference.

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Viviennemary · 22/08/2024 09:48

IsoldeWagner · 22/08/2024 09:21

One thing that really struck me about the C5 documentary was the response of H&M to banks of photographers and press. They loved it! Especially those scenes of the early days - the clicking and the flashing of the cameras non stop, they basked in it, pausing, turning, smiling. They look thrilled and loved being the centre of attention. It clearly suited them.
I think therefore a life of unofficial royalty, for them, had to include that level of press interest, headlines and clicks. That's what they want to maintain.

Spot on. They want to be royals and be curtseyed to and cheered and fawned over. But they do not want any of the restrictions of royal life. Or be told what to do by anybody. Or told they are ever in the wrong.

Butwhybecause · 22/08/2024 09:53

smilesy · 22/08/2024 09:24

What is interesting to is that the famous “three of us in this marriage” phrase used by Diana is now interpreted to refer to Camilla, but it didn’t because Bashir had convinced her that Charles was having an affair with someone else entirely. So all Harry’s vilifying of Camilla is misplaced for that point of view and ironically the person who was (wrongly) thought of by Diana as the culprit was someone Harry was close to

Yes, true.

It was totally unfounded and malicious and the poor, innocent woman had to live with that finger of suspicion and Diana's accusations afterwards.

IsoldeWagner · 22/08/2024 09:56

That poor woman. What a dreadful episode, didn't she threaten Diana with a legal injunction? Whatever, Diana did not come out of that well.

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Serenster · 22/08/2024 10:35

The month before she recorded the Panorama interview with Bashir, Diana wrote a note to Paul Burrell in which she told him that:

"This particular phase in my life is the most dangerous — my husband is planning an accident in my car. Brake failure and serious head injury in order to make the path clear for him to marry [the other woman]. Camilla is nothing but a decoy so we are being used by the man in every sense of the word”.

The Telegraph has recently reported that it was Bashir who was telling Diana that Charles and the the other women were having affair. He also produced a falsified receipt to Diana purporting to show that the women had aborted Charles’ child.

So yes, the Panorama interview needs to be looked at in the light of what Diana believed at the time.

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Serenster · 22/08/2024 10:40

LAW2010 - if you read my post above, at the time of the panorama interview, Diana herself believed that the confessed affair with Camilla was just a decoy to hide Charles’ real affair with a different woman.

smilesy · 22/08/2024 10:41

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See above post from Serenster. No I am not nuts thanks very much 😊

edited to insert space and disclaimer about my sanity 😂

IsoldeWagner · 22/08/2024 10:45

@smilesy 😂
Exactly the same post and phrasing as a different poster yesterday 🙄

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Rhaidimiddim · 22/08/2024 10:49

upinaballoon · 22/08/2024 08:35

The C5 documentary - I didn't glue myself to every moment of it. It was on and I was pottering about, hearing a lot of it and sometimes watching for a few minutes. To say what I really think of it I would want to see it again.

One of the things which I remember is something that is not usually mentioned but it was on this programme. After H and M came back from SA there was an announcement. I don't know how long after. In the autumn we were told that they were having a break and they were going to the USA for about 6 weeks. (Now, that was mentioned by C5.) I thought fair enough, they're a bit weary, M is from the USA, Doria is there, good idea to go and see her. I wasn't on SM or reading a newspaper regularly.

Was there a further announcement that they weren't coming back for Christmas here? Whatever, I remember thinking that it was a good thing if they spent one Christmas here and the next there, alternating. Yes, there was the Sandringham summit but I think H came after Christmas for that. On the surface, to me, without reading and hearing every opinion on it all, it seemed not all that dramatic, but a great deal was going on under the surface, and it all turned out that it was a bit dramatic after all.

I initially thought H&M = a good thing.

After the SA tour, and her behaviour on the previous tour, I was recognising a narc.

When they went off to Canada for 5 weeks, my thought was - this is where she isolates him from his family.

Uricon2 · 22/08/2024 10:51

"brokeback Brexit Britishness!"

Excessive fond of that phrase, aren't they? 😁

Rhaidimiddim · 22/08/2024 10:52

LilyBartsHatShop · 22/08/2024 09:20

Immedately after the Bashir interview went to air one of Prince Charles' people was intervied (I think on the BBC?) and said something like, You do realise that Diana is crazy, or words to that effect.
I think, given the timing, and given that nothing similar was ever said again, it's clear that Charles hadn't approved this being said and didn't allow anyone working from him to talk about Diana like this again.
Diana herself is the only person who spoke publically about behaviour that is symptomatic of mental illness: self harming, purging. I think she struggled with alot of demons at the same time as being a conduit of warmth and acceptance for the hundreds of strangers she was able to form empathic bonds with in her work.

I also think one of the big cultural changes that has happened since the early 1980s is that aristocratic women who wanted to keep marriage to the future king on the cards were unashamedly and very publically chaste!

It was the odious Nicholas Soames.

Edited to add - I remember that TV appearance of his well. My impression of him was that he was an out-of-touch upper class twit, the sort of man with no time for women with opinions. He did not come across as altogether together himself in that TV appearance - a bit outrage-frothy.

IsoldeWagner · 22/08/2024 10:53

Uricon2 · 22/08/2024 10:51

"brokeback Brexit Britishness!"

Excessive fond of that phrase, aren't they? 😁

It's alliterative! 😂
Is "brokeback" a reference to homosexuality?

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Gorgonemilezola · 22/08/2024 10:55

'the scarecrow'....

Such misogyny. From such a new poster too.......

IsoldeWagner · 22/08/2024 10:56

Gorgonemilezola · 22/08/2024 10:55

'the scarecrow'....

Such misogyny. From such a new poster too.......

I know. Can you imagine if such an offensive misogynist term was used against Meghan?!
We wouldn't, of course.

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Rhaidimiddim · 22/08/2024 11:01

IsoldeWagner · 22/08/2024 10:45

@smilesy 😂
Exactly the same post and phrasing as a different poster yesterday 🙄

We can add "brokeback Brexit Britain" to the bingo card.

IsoldeWagner · 22/08/2024 11:06

We can! 😂

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LAW2010 · 22/08/2024 11:13

Rhaidimiddim · 22/08/2024 10:49

I initially thought H&M = a good thing.

After the SA tour, and her behaviour on the previous tour, I was recognising a narc.

When they went off to Canada for 5 weeks, my thought was - this is where she isolates him from his family.

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So are you able to diagnose a Narcissist? Or are these journalists mental health therapists and can diagnose a Narcissist?

You are calling Harry a simpleton without a brain of his own!
A man who can fly an Apache helicopter!
A man who wanted to fight with his unit in Afghanistan!
Was always dong his own thing!

Harry was clearly terrified of history repeating itself, hence why they left the UK!

I agree though Meghan wasn't following royal protocol, just like a narc:-
Wasn't having an affair with another man whilst married to Harry!
Wasn't hanging out with people like Epstein!
Mind you Meghan could hang with Ghislaine Maxwell and learn some royal protocol!
Didn't get caught topless with an American Businessman, like Ferge did in the 90s!

The royal family is highly disfunctional

jeffgoldblum · 22/08/2024 11:17

Morning!(almost) @IsoldeWagner , I haven't managed to find time for the second episode yet, any good ?
Coverage fair and balanced?

IsoldeWagner · 22/08/2024 11:20

Morning Jeff! Yes, I thought so, in that voices from both sides were heard. No-one was demonised, which I liked.
I had forgotten just how popular and supported they were in the UK.

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jeffgoldblum · 22/08/2024 11:32

Oh I might give it a view then! 🤣
I actually missed all the ( joy) at the time so I'm finding it interesting seeing it with my own eyes, previously I've only heard snippets from posters here .

I'm not commenting on other topics here , it's got nothing to do with your thread title and is frankly boring old news that has been debated to death for 40 odd years now .

Rhaidimiddim · 22/08/2024 11:33

LAW2010 · 22/08/2024 11:13

So are you able to diagnose a Narcissist? Or are these journalists mental health therapists and can diagnose a Narcissist?

You are calling Harry a simpleton without a brain of his own!
A man who can fly an Apache helicopter!
A man who wanted to fight with his unit in Afghanistan!
Was always dong his own thing!

Harry was clearly terrified of history repeating itself, hence why they left the UK!

I agree though Meghan wasn't following royal protocol, just like a narc:-
Wasn't having an affair with another man whilst married to Harry!
Wasn't hanging out with people like Epstein!
Mind you Meghan could hang with Ghislaine Maxwell and learn some royal protocol!
Didn't get caught topless with an American Businessman, like Ferge did in the 90s!

The royal family is highly disfunctional

I'm not an ornithologist but I can spot a duck.

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