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Harry & Meghan change their surname

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Gottseidank · 15/02/2024 11:53

… from Mountbatten-Windsor to ‘Sussex’.
Apparently it’s to strengthen their brand.
https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/prince-harry-meghan-sussex-archie-lilibet-children-name-royal-title-cnvf7d9jf

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Samcro · 15/02/2024 16:04

@JSMill i agree. I would call KC sir as he is older than me. but the idea of calling harry or Meghan, William, kate and so on....no way

Puzzledandpissedoff · 15/02/2024 16:06

The royals do seem to have a flexible approach to their surnames (dropping Saxe-Coburg etc)

Yes and that was done for appearance's sake too, back in WWI when they no longer wanted to be seen as "a bunch of Germans"

I criticise H&M for plenty, but at least they're only using a name they're entitled to rather than inventing a whole new one

Propertylover · 15/02/2024 16:06

@GingerIsBest I can see your suggested wording that BP could have used may have worked.

I have a lot of experience tiptoeing around a hyper sensitive family member and no matter what I do it’s always wrong and gets a backlash.

InnocentAndDeranged · 15/02/2024 16:11

Propertylover · 15/02/2024 12:51

Because they were not grandchildren of a monarch.

When HMQEII died Charles became King and Archie & Lilibet became grandchildren of a monarch so became Prince & Princess of Sussex.

This was the whole Oprah farce about not getting titles due to Harry not explaining to Meghan that it was perfectly normal for their children not to be Prince & Princess until Charles became King. It was a really disingenuous the way it was presented to Oprah, any British Journalist would have picked Meghan up on it.

The name change is such a non-story blown up by the media. The website is more newsworthy.

What happens to their prince/princess titles when charles passes and william is King?

YetMoreNewBeginnings · 15/02/2024 16:16

InnocentAndDeranged · 15/02/2024 16:11

What happens to their prince/princess titles when charles passes and william is King?

They stay as they are.

The male line grandchildren of the monarch are entitled to the titles as per the 1917 LPs.

Several of George V’s grandchildren were born after his death and titled as male line grand children of a monarch

Charles dying won’t change anything for them (unless William changes LPs)

Gottseidank · 15/02/2024 16:24

OneCornetto · 15/02/2024 12:25

Where’s the dig?

You said that they had changed their name, which they haven't and that it was 'apparently to strengthen their brand'.

It's a dig because it suggests that they have done something in a shady way in order to become more famous or relevant but they hadn't dome anything at all.

William, his brother isn't called William Mountbatten-Windsor. Not before he was married and not after he was married but you haven't suggested they have changed their name to strengthen their brand.

They’ve announced it to coincide with rebranding and website launch so it’s reasonable to see it as a branding exercise.

They have been inconsistent to the point of dishonesty on the issue of names/titles/commitment to ‘equality’ etc so further developments invariably raise eyebrows

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tutttutt · 15/02/2024 16:25

@Gottseidank there you go. Your latest comment proves the pp right. Digging digging.

Gottseidank · 15/02/2024 16:41

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Propertylover · 15/02/2024 16:41

What they have done is to utilise the first time they publicly use their names as part of the launch of the new website. The website launch is the day before they arrive in Canada for the Invictus games so maximising publicity for both.

H & M are perfectly entitled to do that.

They are also entitled to choose to be followed by a Netflix TV crew, which is alleged to be happening. I assume it’s a behind the scenes look at Invictus. The RF did something similar with the Coronation.

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 15/02/2024 16:42

Mumsnut · 15/02/2024 12:05

Anyone with a hereditary title and also their spouse uses that title as a surname. So Lady Mary Crawley was surnamed Crawley, but her father would have been known as Robert Grantham, is my understanding, and her mother as Cora Grantham. I'm not sure that the same applies to their children though. The eldest son would be surnamed with any title his father had allowed him to use, so Archie Dumbarton was what I expected.

Robert would be Robert Crawley Lord Grantham or Earl of Grantham. Crawley is the family name and Grantham is the title.

Mumsnut · 15/02/2024 16:44

Yes, but he would be referred to as Robert Grantham, his titular name

mpsw · 15/02/2024 16:55

Remember there's a layer of military usage with Invictus as well.

Even after they've all retired, those junior often still call commissioned officers and senior NCOs "Sir", and wives of officers default to "Ma'am" (until they tell you to stop it) which does save quite a lot of name remembering!

But of course, it's a bit different for the Sussexes, as a) IG people will all know their names and b) Harry, though commissioned, was not particularly senior.

It was a bit weird - in some circumstances, the Waleses would call DH "Sir" and salute him (ie in strictly military formal environments as he outranked them), but in others he would call them "Sir" (representational) and salute them. Or at least I think that's how it worked.

I think the way the Sir/Ma'am thing is being reported looks bad for the Sussexes, as it's widely seen as standing on rank, so it's a shame it was said at all. The "just call me Harry" was a better stance

EdithWeston · 15/02/2024 17:03

Naptrappedmummy · 15/02/2024 16:02

The fact is if they care about equality as much as they claim they do they wouldn’t be using titles at all. In fact they would use their platform to publicly denounce such things, and make an example of themselves. Making the children a Prince and Princess ‘because it’s their birth right’ was laughably at odds with everything they virtue signal about privilege and inequality in children.

They didn't seem so bothered about birth right when they decided not to use the versions their DC were entitled to at birth - Earl of Dumbarton (or Lord Archie Mountbatten-Windsor) and Lady Lili Mountbatten-Windsor

EdithWeston · 15/02/2024 17:05

InnocentAndDeranged · 15/02/2024 16:11

What happens to their prince/princess titles when charles passes and william is King?

Unchanged.

They are still the DGC of a monarch, even after that monarch is deceased. Just as the York sisters are still Princesses Beatrice and Eugenie.

Patrickiscrazy · 15/02/2024 17:22

Freefree · 15/02/2024 12:19

Anything to have a dig at Meghan eh?

Yes, very possibly. Are you too surprised?

Likeateddybeard · 15/02/2024 17:25

JSMill · 15/02/2024 15:08

I sincerely hope that's not true.

Staggering if true.

GoosieLucie · 15/02/2024 17:29

YetMoreNewBeginnings · 15/02/2024 13:09

The Sussex children are HRHs.

All grandchildren of the monarch from the male line are automatically HRH Prince or HRH Princess.

That's not quite true. They may have the right to use the HRH style, but it is not automatically conveyed upon them. Although they were grandchildren of the reigning monarch, neither Princess Anne's children nor Prince Edward's children were styled HRH.

I think that unless you're in the close direct line of succession, it's rather pretentious to take that HRH style.

Personally I think it's also very pretentious of the Sussexes to give their children "prince" and "princess" titles - and very hypocritical. They claimed to want to get away from the Royal Family, yet they plonk those silly titles onto their children! Why would they do that for any reason other than to inflate their sense of importance? It's a very un-British thing to do, imo.

Raincloudsonasunnyday · 15/02/2024 17:43

Never mind the title, is that the same center stone in Meghan’s newly returned engagement ring?? It’s MAHOOSIVE 😱

PrincessWildernessOfWherever · 15/02/2024 17:43

Anne's children are not descended in the male line, Anne being female.

Edward's children are entitled to use HRH (and Prince/ss) but their parents chose not to use those titles, but that they should be known by their 'lesser' titles. Louise has turned 18 and not used HRH Princess, so presumably is happy with that.

RhubarbGingerJam · 15/02/2024 17:53

I can't read the article but I wonder if it's just easier especially when dealing with another countries legal system and conventions to have it legally fixed and clear what it is - so no confusion about dealing with titles and HRH stuff.

CarolinaInTheMorning · 15/02/2024 17:59

Nw22 · 15/02/2024 13:24

How does this nonsense work in the USA though? Surely they can’t put their names down as prince/princess on official documents as it doesn’t mean anything there

There are actually quite a few royals from different countries who have lived, or who are living, in the US. Generally, they can call themselves whatever they want. US states tend to be fairly liberal (not in a political sense) about what people call themselves as long as they are not using names to commit fraud.

EdithWeston · 15/02/2024 18:10

PrincessWildernessOfWherever · 15/02/2024 17:43

Anne's children are not descended in the male line, Anne being female.

Edward's children are entitled to use HRH (and Prince/ss) but their parents chose not to use those titles, but that they should be known by their 'lesser' titles. Louise has turned 18 and not used HRH Princess, so presumably is happy with that.

That's why we will need new LPs at some point (ideally before George marries).

Because there's currently a mismatch between the rules for HRH Prince/ss and abolition of male preference in primogeniture.

Because if Charlotte had been born first, and KC still alive when Charlotte and hypothetically younger George had their DC, then there would be the nonsense that Charlotte's DC would be Lord/Lady (even though they are the direct line) as HRH Prince/ss is only for DGGC who are the DC of the eldest son of the PoW.

So at a minimum, they need to change it to DGGC who are DC of the eldest child in the direct line (as there would be no PoW if heir apparent was female)

And whilst they're about it, they might have a think about what's the best arrangement for titles/styles for offspring of "spares". And do it soon, so it's can't possibly be taken as a snub by anyone directly involved before actual marriages have happened or real DC are in the picture,

CarolinaInTheMorning · 15/02/2024 18:13

They may have the right to use the HRH style, but it is not automatically conveyed upon them.

Under the current LPs, it is automatic once a person becomes a grandchild of the monarch in the male line. The LPs can be changed, of course. Charles could do it, but seems disinclined to. William could do it when he becomes king, but he would likely be affecting his own grandchildren, not just Charles's.

Viviennemary · 15/02/2024 18:14

Propertylover · 15/02/2024 12:51

Because they were not grandchildren of a monarch.

When HMQEII died Charles became King and Archie & Lilibet became grandchildren of a monarch so became Prince & Princess of Sussex.

This was the whole Oprah farce about not getting titles due to Harry not explaining to Meghan that it was perfectly normal for their children not to be Prince & Princess until Charles became King. It was a really disingenuous the way it was presented to Oprah, any British Journalist would have picked Meghan up on it.

The name change is such a non-story blown up by the media. The website is more newsworthy.

What they told Oprah was total nonsense. Archie could have had a title when he was born. Earl of Dumbarton I think. But they didn't t want that. Can't say I blame them for once. Them when the Queen died and they became grandchildren of the new monarch they were entitled to be Prince and Princess.

mathanxiety · 15/02/2024 18:21

HoHoHoliday · 15/02/2024 12:25

When they were born they didn't have a title so H&M chose a surname for them. Now Charles is king they have a title - Prince and Princess - so they switch to using the name from their father's title. This isn't something Harry or Meghan are "claiming", it just follows protocol of title usage.
Just as William's children used the surname Cambridge when they were young and now use Wales, to follow their father's title.
H&M cannot do right for doing wrong these days. Give them a break!

Well said, and excellent explanation.