I am patriotic in that I don't look at the country I was born in and think it the worst country on earth. Overall we are kind, polite, caring. We give more than many countries in humanitarian aid, we abolished slavery, we pay our courts to protect vulnerable people, we are generally very welcoming. Our police are generally good and not gun happy (more people are killed by the police in one month in America than in 2 decades here). Judicial system is second to none. Benefits system is generous in comparison to many. The NHS means you don't have to sell your house to pay medical bills. Plus lots of other positives.
Of course it isn't anywhere near perfect. Brexit was a mistake. The current government not fit for purpose, cost of living is difficult, but overall I'd rather live here than many other countries, not least because this is where my family are.
I support the royal family, love the pomp and ceremony, am proud of the fabulous history connected to the RF, and appreciate the high regard many other countries hold them in, despite the critics who will I've no doubt pile on this statement screaming to the contrary.
Only around 25% of the country are republican so despite the shouting and performance picketing, the RF with their perceived glamour, soft diplomacy, charitable work and high world profile are here to stay, despite the vitriolic jealousy often displayed in this section.