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New kittens very poorly - may need a trigger warning.

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realbutterplease · 15/02/2026 18:56

We lost our beloved cat in Nov last year to diabetes and sepsis (diabetes undiagnosed and sepsis at the same time) as a massive shock and we’ve really struggled losing him after having him from 8wks old to over 15years. Last week we decided to contact a rescue to enquire about a pair of kittens or young cats to adopt and the next day received a message saying they had a pair of boys for us to see. I went to see them on Friday, asked how healthy they were, what food etc and when they’d be ready to be told I could take them that day.

I brought them home, settled in but they wouldn’t eat, literally anything, we tried leaving out wet and dry, water bowl, the rescue said they didn’t know what they’d eaten as they just give whatever is donated. It was clear by yesterday morning (and 24hrs since they’d eaten) this might be more than the stress of the move so I called my vets who booked an appt later that day, in the meantime Ollie (b&w) had vomited, had diarrhoea and still not eating. Murphy (tabby) had had a little kitten milk and water. Vets immediately saw them and gave Ollie some glucose and fluids and then both some syringed food, gave us the can they had opened to carry on syringing in small amounts at home, said to give it 2 hours and if no improvement to take them to the vet hospital (35mim drive), so at 6 my husband and daughter took Ollie as he was clearly not improving and he didn’t make it. He died just as they arrived 😢

The vet highly suspects feline panleukopenia virus (fpv) and that his brother is likely to have it, and possibly mum. We’ve been feeding Murphy by syringe throughout the night and today but I think we’re losing him too as he’s very sleepy, refused his last syringe and his solid poo has gone to diarrhoea again. I’m absolutely devastated all over again, my children, crying happy tears on Friday are so upset.

Has anyone had any positive FPV stories? I know it’s unlikely for such little kittens (9wks) but I’m clutching at straws before I resign myself to the fact that these babies came only to us for a comfortable last few days. The rescue informed my husband today when he went to pick up some specialist food that they and mum were handed in by a family who had a cat to catch mice, got pregnant and then dumped them all with the rspca (or that’s who found them) They’d had a health check and given a place at the rescue and nothing to imply they were poorly, although first thing our vets asked was did the rescue inform me they were poorly. They say they had no idea and they seemed ok with them.

The rescue said she’d take Murphy back but she wouldn’t be able to nurse him so we’ve refused that as he is comfy with us and we are fighting as hard as we can for him, but if anyone has any tips, or anything I can hang a hope on. We fell for them as soon as we got them home, Friday they seemed very content with us, by Saturday Ollie particularly had rapidly deteriorated, Murphy picked up hugely, solid poos, taking his feeds, grooming himself, but I fear he’s going downhill now too.

Any advice? I’ve added a picture but this is my first actual post so not sure how this works!

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realbutterplease · 18/02/2026 22:22

@TwinklyWrinklythis is our fear, we removed everything and washed twice on Sat night/ Sun however we didn’t remove the rug (it’s a large one over wooden floor) and I’m wondering if Murphy wasn’t infected but then caught it here as they both sat on the rug. Ollie vomited on the rug which we cleaned straightaway, but I’m now wondering if we should have binned it. I think this makes it worse, I was only wondering to my husband earlier that the rug may have harboured the infection and we haven’t been as careful as we thought we were. For Murphy to last another 4 days after Ollie died and show signs of recovery makes me think he can’t have been infected at the same time.

We also know that we can’t bring anymore kittens in to the house and would worry even with an older cat, it’s absolutely breaking my heart that in offering our home to 2 beautiful little ones means we can’t do so again for a long time. I’m just so sad, but also hope they were sent to us because someone somewhere knew we’d love them, even for just such a short time.

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Toddlerteaplease · 18/02/2026 22:35

Oh no. That’s so sad. Bit no one could have done more. I was really hoping he’d turned the corner. At least they both knew love, comfort and kindness.

Yiayoula · 19/02/2026 05:26

I’m so sorry to read your update . Thank you for everything you and your family did for Ollie and Murphy, the love you had for them shines through all your posts. xx

TwinklyWrinkly · 19/02/2026 08:00

realbutterplease · 18/02/2026 22:22

@TwinklyWrinklythis is our fear, we removed everything and washed twice on Sat night/ Sun however we didn’t remove the rug (it’s a large one over wooden floor) and I’m wondering if Murphy wasn’t infected but then caught it here as they both sat on the rug. Ollie vomited on the rug which we cleaned straightaway, but I’m now wondering if we should have binned it. I think this makes it worse, I was only wondering to my husband earlier that the rug may have harboured the infection and we haven’t been as careful as we thought we were. For Murphy to last another 4 days after Ollie died and show signs of recovery makes me think he can’t have been infected at the same time.

We also know that we can’t bring anymore kittens in to the house and would worry even with an older cat, it’s absolutely breaking my heart that in offering our home to 2 beautiful little ones means we can’t do so again for a long time. I’m just so sad, but also hope they were sent to us because someone somewhere knew we’d love them, even for just such a short time.

No, no, no, please do not think like that. Both kittens would have had it, probably from their mother like the vet said. It's just very likely that Ollie was slightly weaker and succumbed first. Murphy just had a little more fight in him. It's the way it happens. They also often pick up, seem like they are recovering, then suddenly crash. Please, there was NOTHING you could have done that would have resulted in a different outcome. I am not saying it to make you feel better, it's just a really sad fact. If I remember correctly, during our horrid month last year, 2 kittens survived and 12 died. Several different litters, from several different places in the area we cover going directly to several different, experienced fosterers. No cross contamination. And they were absolutely devasted watching whole litters die, trying so hard to keep them going, so it's totally understandable you are finding it hard.

I'll be honest, if I could afford to, I'd chuck the rug, but obviously that's not necessarily possible. You could always use a good carpet cleaner and deep clean it. If all your soft furnishings have been washed and your hard surfaces cleaned with something that will kill panleuk (like Anigene, which is fabulous stuff, but use caution when using it, it's really strong stuff!) then do please think about adopting again when you feel able to. An older (over 2), vaccinated cat would be very unlikely to have a problem and would be so lucky to find their forever home with such a clearly loving family.

DesertIslandDreams · 19/02/2026 10:39

@realbutterplease I've also been watching your thread and hoping and am so sorry to read your update. Please don't go down the path of 'if only' about the rug: TwinklyWrinkly speaks good sense - and you did absolutely everything you could and showed them so much love in their short lives. I really hope that when you feel able to, you will again know the joy of sharing your home with a cat. Wishing you and your family strength and comfort.

Grumpyoldpersonwithcats · 19/02/2026 10:45

I have to agree with @TwinklyWrinkly. The kittens will both have been infected before you got them, you said in your first post that neither were eating when they arrived.

I'll say again that I'm so sorry for you, as you clearly did everything you could for them. Please don't blame yourself for any of this.

1984Winston · 19/02/2026 10:50

Im so sorry you lost them both, sounds like you did everything right and you have just been incredibly unlucky, I do hope you get some more at some point though as you sound like a perfect home for some cats in need

AlwaysRightISwear · 19/02/2026 23:46

I'm so very sorry.

tortietimestwo · 19/02/2026 23:54

Just wanted to say I'm so sorry, what a dreadful thing to happen but you did your very best for those sweet boys.

I would talk to the rescue about it when you feel able to, with the best will in the world these things can happen, and it sounds like they are pretty reputable so I'd make sure they know and can be vigilant for issues in any of their other cats and kittens.

My husband's beloved Lily and Lola, older girls - a white cat and a tuxedo - who died last year a few months apart, are there in kitty heaven to welcome your little fellas and show them the ropes ❤️ 💐

AutumnAllTheWay · 20/02/2026 00:08

So sorry to hear your update.

Please think about trying again when you are ready, you and your family have alot to offer.

You couldn't have done more.

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