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New kittens very poorly - may need a trigger warning.

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realbutterplease · 15/02/2026 18:56

We lost our beloved cat in Nov last year to diabetes and sepsis (diabetes undiagnosed and sepsis at the same time) as a massive shock and we’ve really struggled losing him after having him from 8wks old to over 15years. Last week we decided to contact a rescue to enquire about a pair of kittens or young cats to adopt and the next day received a message saying they had a pair of boys for us to see. I went to see them on Friday, asked how healthy they were, what food etc and when they’d be ready to be told I could take them that day.

I brought them home, settled in but they wouldn’t eat, literally anything, we tried leaving out wet and dry, water bowl, the rescue said they didn’t know what they’d eaten as they just give whatever is donated. It was clear by yesterday morning (and 24hrs since they’d eaten) this might be more than the stress of the move so I called my vets who booked an appt later that day, in the meantime Ollie (b&w) had vomited, had diarrhoea and still not eating. Murphy (tabby) had had a little kitten milk and water. Vets immediately saw them and gave Ollie some glucose and fluids and then both some syringed food, gave us the can they had opened to carry on syringing in small amounts at home, said to give it 2 hours and if no improvement to take them to the vet hospital (35mim drive), so at 6 my husband and daughter took Ollie as he was clearly not improving and he didn’t make it. He died just as they arrived 😢

The vet highly suspects feline panleukopenia virus (fpv) and that his brother is likely to have it, and possibly mum. We’ve been feeding Murphy by syringe throughout the night and today but I think we’re losing him too as he’s very sleepy, refused his last syringe and his solid poo has gone to diarrhoea again. I’m absolutely devastated all over again, my children, crying happy tears on Friday are so upset.

Has anyone had any positive FPV stories? I know it’s unlikely for such little kittens (9wks) but I’m clutching at straws before I resign myself to the fact that these babies came only to us for a comfortable last few days. The rescue informed my husband today when he went to pick up some specialist food that they and mum were handed in by a family who had a cat to catch mice, got pregnant and then dumped them all with the rspca (or that’s who found them) They’d had a health check and given a place at the rescue and nothing to imply they were poorly, although first thing our vets asked was did the rescue inform me they were poorly. They say they had no idea and they seemed ok with them.

The rescue said she’d take Murphy back but she wouldn’t be able to nurse him so we’ve refused that as he is comfy with us and we are fighting as hard as we can for him, but if anyone has any tips, or anything I can hang a hope on. We fell for them as soon as we got them home, Friday they seemed very content with us, by Saturday Ollie particularly had rapidly deteriorated, Murphy picked up hugely, solid poos, taking his feeds, grooming himself, but I fear he’s going downhill now too.

Any advice? I’ve added a picture but this is my first actual post so not sure how this works!

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poorkittyhealth · 16/02/2026 14:40

Honestly not everyone will agree with this advice but I highly recommend trying chat gpt, not as a use for medical advice but just for that extra reassurance.

Ive dealt with a very poorly cat who we struggled with for a while and sometimes it was useful to have that just to sense check and make sure I had just a little extra confidence, it was helpful. And if anything different to his treatment plan was suggested, my vet was more than happy for me to ask.

It sounds like you are doing all the right things, its a constant source of stress dealing with a poorly cat and especially when you have lost his brother, its an extra layer of concern but it sounds like things are moving in the right direction.

I hope Murphy recovers but if for any reason he doesnt, know you have done everything you can for him. Its so hard when you think you are bringing home a healthy cat and then it all goes downhill. I do hope for a positive outcome for Murphy.

Fatiguedwithlife · 16/02/2026 14:51

Keep going with the feeds and maybe wrap him in a little blanket, I have a thread where I rescued a tiny kitten a few weeks ago and she’s thriving now, tripled her weight. Being cold made her very sleepy and reluctant to eat
She required 2 hourly during feeds through the day and night and antibiotics but perked up within a few days.
Good luck!

Yiayoula · 16/02/2026 14:53

Thank you for the positive update, @realbutterplease - fingers crossed for Murphy, it seems as if he’s improving.
Your dedication to him, and poor little Ollie, is wonderful. Bless your heart ❤️.
Our granddaughter (10) lost a rescue kitten in January last year, it was devastating for all the family, so I do feel for you.
Keep fighting, little one ! ☝️

Uberaddict · 16/02/2026 17:13

Best of Luck @realbutterplease. Rooting for you and little Murphy. I fostered kittens from a reputable charity last year and while they did considerable checks before (slightly excessive inmho as I have had cats / litters all my life), they handed me a nursing mother and three small kittens with v little info at all. I spent two solid days trying to get mamma to eat - broiling chicken and getting tins of tuna until they finally checked her file and it clearly stated ‘only eats Felix’ . Poor mamma ate four sachets at once. There are just so many kittens that any time, they just push them out the door

realbutterplease · 16/02/2026 18:34

He’s just eaten his first food from the bowl (and I cried!) he’s a had a couple of formed poos this afternoon, water etc. I was going to give him his syringe of food just now but we thought we’d try a kitten tuna flavoured food as we tried a teaspoon of tuna water earlier today and he loved it. Queue my husband finishing work early to find a pets at home that sells this food to try, and it appears to have worked. I haven’t given him his syringe of food just yet as I want him to come back to the bowl (he’s just had a groom, a little play and MEGA purr back in his bed) but have it on hand as he only ate a tiny bit, but since Friday that’s the first time he’s shown ANY interest in food. Cautiously over the moon!

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RichPetuniaAgain · 16/02/2026 19:04

Hi Op, I don’t know anything about cats, but just wanted to say how wonderful it is that this kitten has found such a caring and loving home. Thank you🌸.

realbutterplease · 16/02/2026 19:15

Fatiguedwithlife · 16/02/2026 14:51

Keep going with the feeds and maybe wrap him in a little blanket, I have a thread where I rescued a tiny kitten a few weeks ago and she’s thriving now, tripled her weight. Being cold made her very sleepy and reluctant to eat
She required 2 hourly during feeds through the day and night and antibiotics but perked up within a few days.
Good luck!

I’ve just devoured your thread! It’s really given me hope that such little ones can thrive with some love, and we have plenty of that to go round! He has a hot water bottle under his blanket and other blankets to create a nest (in the sideways laundry basket!) he loves it in there. Can I ask when Penny had that first little teaspoon of food did you syringe any more? Murphy’s just had a similar amount, earlier throughout the day I’ve syringed food for him but wondering now if I syringe again if he won’t use his bowl. He’s having a post big purr sleep so I’m thinking to leave the syringe and try and encourage to eat from his bow again in a little while.

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realbutterplease · 16/02/2026 19:18

Sleeping soundly!

New kittens very poorly - may need a trigger warning.
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Fatiguedwithlife · 16/02/2026 21:31

@realbutterpleasewe just kept giving her the kitten milk as it was hydrating and had some calories in it. She started to eat the wet foot after a couple of days out of the bowl, I had to place her in front of it each time though every couple of hours. I’d say it was about a week before she could reliably just go and eat when hungry, she wasn’t keen on water at all so we kept up with the kitten milk in a bowl for about a week too and she’s drinking water now.

Toddlerteaplease · 17/02/2026 21:28

How’s he doing?

realbutterplease · 17/02/2026 22:47

He is still sleeping an awful lot and almost no play at all despite me trying but without annoying him! He still doesn’t initiate feeding himself and I’m waking him to feed, he’s started to lick some food from the bowl, which he’s done a couple times today. He is drinking, weeing, solid poos (although one this morn had a bit of loose with it) Earlier this evening I syringed some food as he hadn’t had enough throughout the day and offered the spoon from the bowl I was syringing from and he had almost 2 shallow teaspoons of it. I thought this would perk him up but again he’s slept all evening with no play when awake. Hopefully this is him recovering, but honestly it feels like a step forward then 2 back. We have the vets tomorrow for his first jab so I’ll ask them what I should be expecting. It’s so hard and I don’t want to push him, he almost looks sad today, I know he’ll be missing his brother so trying not to push him as he’s had a traumatic start. He has slept more in the open today, so on the couch or cat donut rather than in his bed which is our laundry wicker basket on its side full of comfy blankets with one over the top but open one side so he can come and go. Hopefully another good night and good vet visit tomorrow.

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JazzyAmbs · 17/02/2026 23:23

I don’t know much about FPV but did have a kitten who was very poorly when young with stomach problems. So much so it discoloured his black fur. There was a lot of boiled chicken and rice involved as it was all he could
tolerate for months. He pulled through and lived until 14. Fingers crossed for you.

Yiayoula · 18/02/2026 06:24

Wishing you and Murphy all the best for the vet appointment today x.

realbutterplease · 18/02/2026 20:03

We lost Murphy this afternoon, we did literally everything we could round the clock, I honestly thought he was getting better but this afternoon he crashed, started leaking diarrhoea, went very vacant and almost in a collapsed type state. Rang vets and immediately got him there (only 2 mins up the road) but there was nothing they could do. I’m absolutely devastated, not to mention the kids. After what was such a happy occasion only 5 days ago to now losing 2 little ones, I can’t quite wrap my head around it. We lost our cat we had loved for 15 years only 12 weeks ago yesterday and were so ready to put all our love into another one, or two in our case, now we’ve lost 3 in 3 months.

Thanks for everyone’s well wishes Xx

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pteromum · 18/02/2026 20:06

Oh my goodness I am so sorry for you. Thank you for caring for those babies till the end. The world needs more people like you xx

PandoraSocks · 18/02/2026 20:08

@realbutterplease I am so sorry Murphy didn't make it. I don't know what else to say really. What an utterly devastating experience for you all.

Wakemeupinapril · 18/02/2026 20:17

Ah so sorry op. They had lots of love when they needed it most.
Seems there was nothing you could have done...
I used to foster orphan dkittens. It isn't good for your heart...

Iheartmysmart · 18/02/2026 20:21

Oh I’m so sorry @realbutterplease You did your very best for those little kittens and I’m sure they would have known they were very much loved. What an awful experience for you all 💐

Grumpyoldpersonwithcats · 18/02/2026 20:34

Very sad to see your update @realbutterplease. You clearly did everything you could for the kittens and I'm so sorry it didn't work out for them.

MabelAnderson · 18/02/2026 20:50

Oh no, such sad news op. I’m so sorry. You did your best , they were obviously very unwell when they came to you, and such small kittens can go downhill really fast. You must be so upset, it’s a horrible thing to happen, poor little cats.

r0ck · 18/02/2026 20:57

I'm so sorry that there wasn't a better outcome. You did absolutely all you could, and did right by them. I'm just so sorry for you all.

tinyspiny · 18/02/2026 20:59

Sorry for your loss , at least you know that you did all you could and gave both these babes the best chance . 💐💔

Judystilldreamsofhorses · 18/02/2026 21:00

Oh OP, I have been silently following this thread and I am so very sorry to see this update, poor wee toots and poor you/your family. My MIL had a similar experience with a young cat (not a kitten) she adopted from CP after having to have her elderly cat pts - she hadn’t even decided on a name for her by the time she had to say goodbye and it was just awful.

Uberaddict · 18/02/2026 21:55

Oh OP - what absolute terrible news. I am totally heartbroken for you all. They were very loved and you gave them the very best chance

TwinklyWrinkly · 18/02/2026 22:00

Oh, @realbutterplease, I'm so sorry you have gone through this. I knew as soon as I opened your thread it was going to be panleuk. I foster for a rescue and it's such a devastating and cruel thing to happen. There was an outbreak last year across our whole area and so many rescues lost kittens. We lost 12 in a month, and that's with experienced fosterers and vets doing everything they could. So please take comfort in the fact that there was nothing you could have done differently to have got a different outcome. But what you did do is give them the best chance and you enabled their passing to be as dignified and comfortable as could be. They would have felt the love, care and kindness you gave them. Heartbreaking for you and your family though.

But please could I just now give a word of warning, just in case you aren't aware. And I really don't wish to be alarmist, but Panleuk is extremely contagious and can live on soft furnishings, like cushions and curtains, for a year. If you haven't already, please clean every single corner of your house where the kittens have been, with something really strong like Anigene. Wash any soft furnishings on a really hot wash, again with something that will kill the panleuk or throw them away if you can. Scratching posts, blankets or beds or anything like that should also be thrown away. This is really important if you are considering adopting more kittens as they are very vulnerable and susceptible to becoming infected. Adult cats are usually much more resilient.