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Good night little boy

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Puppylucky · 30/04/2025 11:56

My beautiful little boy Elton died last night and I am heartbroken. As I have mentioned here before he was FIV positive and had quite advanced CKD but he was young and strong and coped so well that it lulled us into a false sense of security. Over the last couple of days though he suddenly declined and was clearly very tired and weak. The vet diagnosed severe anaemia on top of the CKD and we were referred for a blood transfusion which would have bought him some time for other treatments to be tried. We drove him for 3 hours to the vetinary hospital and he was such a good boy, sitting quietly in his cage, but the doctors there said there wasn't really anything they could do as his body was basically shutting down. He was put to sleep at 10pm last night and slipped away very peacefully with us there. I'm not sure if he really knew we were there as he was sedated and very weak but I do hope he knew how very loved he was. I can't stop crying today. Here's a photo of the best boy there ever was.

Good night little boy
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TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 30/04/2025 11:58

Oh no, I'm so sorry that Elton has died.
He was so gorgeous.
You did the right thing to let him go and I'm sure he did know that you were there at the end.

Goandygo · 30/04/2025 12:03

You gave him a fabulous life, full of love. You didn't want him to suffer, so you did the best for him right til the end.
He was so lucky to have you.
Grief is hard but it's really the love you had for him that now has nowhere else to go 💔

Frenchfemme · 30/04/2025 12:05

So very sorry for your loss - RIP lovely Elton 🌈 He passed knowing he was loved and in the company of his favourite people ever. Thank you for being strong enough to do right by him 💔

MyKingdomForACat · 30/04/2025 12:06

Rest in peace darling Elton x

Igmum · 30/04/2025 12:07

So so sorry. Elton looks like a beautiful boy. You did the right thing but it’s heartbreaking. Go easy on yourselves ❤️

user1471548941 · 30/04/2025 12:11

I am mummy to two FIV boys and so so sad for you! When we got our second who is older and also has a heart murmur, I asked DH “will he break our hearts?!” and he replied “yes but that’s not as sad as him not getting a loving home”.
You have done the absolute best for your lovely boy.

dollyblue01 · 30/04/2025 12:12

What a beautiful boy, so sorry for
your loss, but he would have had a wonderful life with you, be kind to yourself you’ve done all you can and the right thing at the right time. RIP Elton 🌈 xx

HumanToCatBeasties · 30/04/2025 12:20

I'm so sorry. I'm sure he knew you were there and how much you loved him. RIP Elton

Tortielady · 30/04/2025 12:22

I am sorry to hear about your beloved Elton. He had a great life with you and he knew how much he was loved. You did the right thing by him and he drifted away, knowing you were there. RIP sweet one 🌻

BobbyBiscuits · 30/04/2025 12:25

What a lovely handsome mackerel tabby! He looks like my big boy. But slimmer and more elegant. Gorgeous eyes. I'm sure he had a wonderful life with you.
RIP little fella xxx

Grumpyoldpersonwithcats · 30/04/2025 12:30

Very sorry to hear your update about Elton. Just rest assured that he clearly had a great life with you.
Take care of yourself 💐

Judystilldreamsofhorses · 30/04/2025 12:32

I’m so very sorry to see this. 🤍

Puppylucky · 30/04/2025 13:03

Thank you so much everyone - I knew you would understand.

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financialmuddle · 30/04/2025 13:13

What a precious little boy. I'm so sorry, it must be so hard 💙

tealady · 30/04/2025 13:16

So sorry for the loss of your gorgeous boy (such beautiful eyes) x

Gatekeeper · 30/04/2025 13:17

I'm so sorry...what an absolute sweetheart he sounds. It's so hard losing a much loved friend- which is what he was- but rejoice that you gave him a wonderful life and gave him peace in his final hours

VeryQuaintIrene · 30/04/2025 13:37

What a gorgeous boy! I'm glad he was so loved.

ghostyslovesheets · 30/04/2025 13:40

RIP beautiful Elton x

RumNotRun · 30/04/2025 13:42

RIP Elton. He knew how loved he was. Look after yourself.

AlmostSummer25 · 30/04/2025 13:45

I'm so sorry. I have seen your post before and I know how loved he was, he will have known how loved he was for sure and yes, he would have known you were there at the end.

It's so sad, but you have to think about what a loving home you have given while he was here & no he wouldn't have known anything about dying, so will have just gone off peacefully

They take a piece of hearts with them over the rainbow bridge, I think I just about to have more over the bridge than this side now!

Night night beautiful baby boy💕

PollyCreo · 30/04/2025 15:20

I'm so sorry 😿

JoanOgden · 30/04/2025 15:25

Oh no, I'm so sorry to hear about lovely Elton. You gave him the best life.

Defiantly41 · 30/04/2025 16:06

Oh no, I’m so sorry to hear that @Puppylucky. Elton was a beautiful boy and will be missed by all the Litter Tray regulars xx

thebear1 · 30/04/2025 16:17

Beautiful boy, hope you can take comfort from knowing you provided a loving home.

polarsystem · 30/04/2025 16:21

I’m so sorry fof your loss. What a beautiful boy. The photo should be framed as, it captures his beauty perfectly. Rest easy little man 🩵