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New rescue cat excessively vocal

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AliceInSwitzerland · 19/09/2024 19:13

I would appreciate some advice with my new rescue cat. She is extremely vocal but to the extent it’s becoming a bit much.

I adopted her a week ago from my local CP shelter. She is 3 and had been left for rehoming after her owner was evicted and couldn’t bring her to the new property. She lived with another cat but they were separated because the staff decided they were making each other anti-social with humans, hiding behind each other and not interacting with people.

The staff said she was timid so I gave her one room to settle into. I spent a lot of time sitting with her and talking to her and she came out within 2 days. She is spending time with the family now and not hiding away but she meows and yowls constantly. The only time she is quiet is when she is sleeping or at night when we are upstairs. I can stop it for a while by fussing over her but she starts again not long after.

The meowing is very loud and insistent and almost like she is in heat (she isn’t because she was neutered by CP). I can’t work, make phone calls or watch tv because she’s so loud. She wanted to explore upstairs and meowed until I let her, then froze while up on the landing and started wailing. I was very worried because I’ve not seen a cat act like this. it took ages to persuade her to come down. My last cat was fairly quiet and settled quickly so I’m not used to it.

I’ve noticed she isn’t eating very much either. Her dry food is left out all the time and I’ve tried feeding her chicken or wet food but she just sniffs or picks at it. Is this behaviour because she’s still settling in and unsure of herself? Could she be missing her old life? She seems happy and purrs, rolls to show her belly and stuff like that. She is also very playful and she has a lot of toys here - puzzle feeders, balls, string mice, feather toys etc.

Any advice would be gratefully received because I’m not sure what to do.

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3LittlePiggs · 19/09/2024 19:41

I've got a rescue that is a wailer. It just seems to be her go-to thing to do. Feeling a bit anxious? Wail. Attention? Wail. Food? Wail. Sometimes I look over to see what she wants and she isn't even looking at me, she is just expressing boredom / unsure about something/ fancies making a noise / has seen a spider.

I've had her 3 years. She is a LOT quieter now than in the early months but I can still hear her from the full length of the house when she is in full voice.

3LittlePiggs · 19/09/2024 19:43

...just to add, I spent a lot of time trying to figure out how to placate her in the early days. Different litter, food, attention. It took ages to realise it was none of those things, it's just her personality. Like your cat, she is very timid and I think it is mainly anxiety and she wants reassurance.

Gymmum82 · 19/09/2024 19:44

Some cats are chatters. Others aren’t. One of my old cats wailed constantly. It’s just how she was. Never grew out of it even to her death aged 21. Current cats barely make a sound. You’ve just got a chatty one

Puppylucky · 19/09/2024 19:45

I feel your pain! Our rescue cat is extremely vocal and initially it made me very worried that we weren't meeting his needs. I now know that he yells just because he can.

Parsley1234 · 19/09/2024 19:49

Is she a ragdoll ? Ours is another level

AliceInSwitzerland · 19/09/2024 21:32

@Parsley1234 No she is a tortie/tabby cross.

So it sounds like it could just be her personality / a bit of anxiety. Hopefully she will calm down in the next few weeks.

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AnnaMagnani · 19/09/2024 21:41

Is she just loud?

I have an Arabian Mau who feels we need a running commentary on his every move.

He doesn't even do it for the benefit of people as he carries on when he runs around the village too. The noise when he catches a mouse is deafening.

He also makes a particularly awful noise which sounds like he is being tortured to indicate he is really happy. It took us a long time to figure this out.

Puppylucky · 20/09/2024 18:06

Oh my god @AnnaMagnani you have given me hope! Elton my Mau does a combination shriek / howl like a demon for no obvious reason at times and now I can tell myself he's happy rather than rushing to appease him!!

Bacardi101 · 20/09/2024 18:13

I also have a very loud rescue black cat who we’ve had for nearly a year and he’s still loud and chatty but has gotten a little less ‘talkative’ but I adore him and his stupid ways he demands I hold his paw at night time and shouts excessively if I don’t obey his commands….

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Scampuss · 20/09/2024 18:17

Mine is a shouty gobshite, bloody loud for a tiny cat!

I just talk back.

cheezncrackers · 20/09/2024 18:27

She is bound to be really anxious atm. When I look back on those early months with our rescue cat (she'd been a stray, then with the RSPCA for two months before we adopted her), she was a really different cat to one we have now. She was just super anxious and on edge. Give her time to settle. If she's vocal she'll probably never completely shut up, but you may well find that as she relaxes and learns to trust you she'll become less vocal, if meowing is something she does to seek reassurance.

Spenditlikebeckham · 20/09/2024 18:31

When 1of ours died the other howled for 5 months. Isn't your dcat just wanting her friend back? Poor thing. Splitting them up to appease humans.

Sethera · 20/09/2024 18:39

Loud cats are the best! My tabby/tortie girl is very chatty too.

Sethera · 20/09/2024 18:40

Spenditlikebeckham · 20/09/2024 18:31

When 1of ours died the other howled for 5 months. Isn't your dcat just wanting her friend back? Poor thing. Splitting them up to appease humans.

Surprising they were not homed as a bonded pair. I agree, I think I would have wanted to take both.

AliceInSwitzerland · 20/09/2024 19:47

I was really sad that they split them. Unfortunately, the other cat had been adopted out by the time we went to collect ours, otherwise I would have asked if it was possible to have both. I don’t mind shy cats. The staff were very adamant that my cat was doing much better since they’d been separated but I think the other poor cat had regressed. I think about her often and hope she’s ok.

I feel better that some of you say your cats meow when they’re happy. She does seem happy and has been very relaxed and settled today and a little bit less chatty (although still very loud this morning). I think maybe she’s just telling me about what’s been going on in her little cat life.

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Spenditlikebeckham · 20/09/2024 20:09

Op haven't you heard of dcat tax? Maybe the other new owner could be an mner? You could see if her new dcat is fine or not?

gamerchick · 20/09/2024 20:13

Spenditlikebeckham · 20/09/2024 18:31

When 1of ours died the other howled for 5 months. Isn't your dcat just wanting her friend back? Poor thing. Splitting them up to appease humans.

I was thinking that. Bit mean splitting up a bonded pair.

Spenditlikebeckham · 20/09/2024 20:15

I caved and got a dkitten..
Just saying...

AliceInSwitzerland · 20/09/2024 20:41

The rescue centre said she has to be the only cat in the house so I’m not sure about the kitten idea. But it has crossed my mind…

pic included for tax

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pointythings · 20/09/2024 21:04

She's gorgeous.

My Egyptian rescue is a talker - especially early in the morning when he thinks I ought to be getting up to feed him. He also loves to talk to the birds when he's looking out of them from the catio. He's just loud.

I've had him just over a year and he is actually calmer than he was.

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Spenditlikebeckham · 20/09/2024 22:24

Not sure the rescue can come round and check you only have 1...
Our boy with his new tiny buddy... Now and back then...

New rescue cat excessively vocal
New rescue cat excessively vocal
Puppylucky · 20/09/2024 22:30

How's your boy doing @pointythings ? Hope he's ok

spikeandbuffy · 20/09/2024 22:40

My 3kg old boy didn't have a thought that he didn't vocalise
He would chat ALL DAY to the point when I told him to shhh he would huff miaow at me, stalk off and yell at himself sadly in the mirror Confused

I now have a cat that is silent 99% of the time and it's very... strange!

7catsisnotenough · 20/09/2024 22:45

One of our cats (all related) is a loud mouthed monster! He's a small cat but calls from several gardens away to let us know he's coming home!
Our other cats do like to meow and chirrup but they're usually pretty quiet about it!
Perhaps he just likes you to know he's coming back? X

spikeandbuffy · 20/09/2024 22:53

Nearly every photo I have is like this

New rescue cat excessively vocal
New rescue cat excessively vocal