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need a lap-cat... an impossible quest?

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CanadianJohn · 21/02/2024 04:37

My wife is terminally ill, and will be coming home from the hospital... to die, essentially. She has perhaps 3 or 4 months to live.

My wife desperately wants a cat. Unfortunately, we had to have our cat p.t.s. a few months ago. However, my wife wants a 'lap-cat', a cat that will sit on the couch with her and watch TV, maybe even sleep with her.

So, how do I find a lap-cat... quickly. My current thought is to contact a cat-rescue place and see if they have an older cat who is really calm and placid.

Any thoughts.

OP posts:
Catsinaflat · 26/03/2024 05:58

Such a beautiful photo. It is so peaceful and cosy. Your wife's beauty shines out despite her illness. I'm so glad you found Ingles - I hope he brings you comfort. I'm sorry for your loss.

LaBelleSauvage123 · 27/03/2024 22:11

I’m so glad you found the perfect cat - the photo is beautiful.

Shiveringinthecountry · 28/03/2024 10:10

I'm so sorry for your loss, OP. It's a beautiful picture. I hope Ingles will be a comfort to you. How lovely for him to have a loving new home Flowers

MrsSkylerWhite · 28/03/2024 10:13

My mum has dementia. They have just adopted an old lap cat from the RSPCA in the West Country. They were completely up front about mum’s condition.

Squirrelsnut · 28/03/2024 10:14

I'm so sorry for your loss, @CanadianJohn. The photo is beautiful.

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