Newish rescue cat. Neutered male. From day one he has come to sit on me to have a wank (what else can you call it? Nothing sounds right when applied to my sweet cat.) I thought he was just happy and purring a lot the first time, then I saw the unseeable.
I know everyone will say just push him away, but he keeps trying and I feel bad for him. If he just did it on a cushion or something, that would be fine, but he never does.
Sometimes it's two or three times a day. He's eight years old FFS! Also it takes ages.
I've googled and followed advice for more play etc. We chase around the house for a good while every day. He isn't going outside at the moment as I'm scared he'll wander, but I am going to try to harness train him. He's been to the vet recently for other issues. I didn't mention this (will next time) but no indication of any urinary issues.
Had anyone else had this become an issue? It calmed down for a while and has just got more frequent again so I need to change something.