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Rescue cat coming tomorrow

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Cleanmean · 04/07/2021 13:25

After many many tries we have finally secured a lovely rescue. We've never had a cat so don't know what to expect and I'll be honest (I'm embarrassed to say) I'm scared of cats. Dh and dd are obsessed with cats and so we've got a rescue. He seeks a lovely gentle chap. Can anyone advise in what we need other than the basics:

Litter tray
Felix pouches
Dry food
Cat carrier
Cat toys
Cat bed

He's neutered but I'm booking him inn for vaccinations with the vet tomorrow.

My questions are, do we need to feed him the same food he ate at the rescue? Do we leave dry food and water out all day? What do we do if he scratches or hisses? How go we gain his trust? How do we know if he's happy or anxious? Are cats ok with anyone stroking them?

Finally, the thing I'm most worried about is the litter, the poos the smell. We've been told to keep him in 4 weeks, then he should be allowed out and should toilet outside. At that point do we get rid of the litter tray?

Any advice at all for us would be appreciated. Want to make his welcome as calm and happy as possible without passing my anxieties on to him. Also need to think of a name.

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Cleanmean · 01/08/2021 08:40

I can't thank everyone on this thread enough! You were absolutely right in saying the cat is the best cat therapist. Every morning my boy comes straight up to see me whilst dh gets his food ready. We have a good 10 minutes of strokes and he likes me to sit on the floor and then snuggles right against me, swishing his tail. He then runs down for food. He is the most loving cat. He has started going out for about an hour in the evening, but when he gets home he comes to find me again to snuggle in and tell me about his adventures. This weekend we had some young visitors to the house and he was so gentle around them and so happy to have so much attention.

The sure flap is on its way and I'm hoping it'll mean he becomes a lot more independent and less attached. Again, the advice here was invaluable! Thank you.

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TheLongRider · 01/08/2021 10:30

Wow, you've come so far since your first post on this thread! I love that you call him "your boy".

Toddlerteaplease · 01/08/2021 16:32

That's a brilliant update! I hope you have many years of happy cat slavery ahead!

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