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Lost our little furry boy yesterday

26 replies

Hardtoknowwhat · 26/01/2020 08:40

Our 4 year old cat, Ziggy died yesterday. Had him at the vets on Thursday due to lethargy and not eating. She suspected UTI and gave him a couple of injections and some medicine to add to his food at home. He seemed to improve somewhat on Friday, to the point we thought we wouldn't need Saturday morning's follow up appointment.

Got up yesterday morning however and his breathing was rapid and shallow. Took him to vets who listened to his chest and admitted him to give him oxygen, medication and xray.

Got a call a couple of hours later to say it wasn't looking good and another call half an hour later to say he had passed away. Acute Pneumonia which caused heart failure. I feel terrible that we weren't with him in those last hours and just so sad he's not here anymore.

We have another 8 year old tortie whom we all love but in typical tortie fashion is more sassy and not quite as tolerent of cuddles as this little fella was. My youngest DD, 11 quite simply adored Ziggy and has not stopped sobbing, she's bereft that her little pal (he really was) has gone which is making everything even more upsetting.

Not sure why I'm posting really, just nice to know that others 'get' the feeling that he wasn't 'just a cat' but a hugely loved member of our family that has been taken too soon.

I've attached a picture.. Just want to stroke that little tummy 💔

Lost our little furry boy yesterday
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GenuineKlatchianPottery · 26/01/2020 08:57

I’m so sorry for your loss. And of course he’s more than “just” a cat. He was a much loved member of your family and you’re going to grieve for him as such.
Flowers for you and your DD

swampytiggaa · 26/01/2020 08:58

I am so very sorry 😢

Chocolatecake12 · 26/01/2020 09:00

Oh you poor things. Ziggy was a beautiful little fella and you will miss him so much. It seems so sad he was taken so young. I lost a cat at the same age to the same thing a few years ago now and remember the pain. Look after yourself and your dd

CaptainCallisto · 26/01/2020 09:14

Oh I'm so sorry. Ziggy looks like he was a very contented, happy little chap. Of course he was more than 'just' a cat - they take a little piece of us with them when they go. Unmumsnetty hugs for you and your DD Flowers

Toddlerteaplease · 26/01/2020 09:27

So sorry.

Vinorosso74 · 26/01/2020 09:48

I'm so sorry. Of course he was more than just a cat-they are part of the family and it is perfectly normal to feel upset. Very sad.

Artinsurance · 26/01/2020 09:50

I'm so sorry for your loss Flowers

Satsuma2 · 26/01/2020 09:52

I'm so sorry. It is awful losing them and they really are a family member. The joy and sadness they bring into our lives can be overwhelming. Have a virtual hug from me.

Fluffycloudland77 · 26/01/2020 10:42

I’m sorry, 4 was no age to lose him. The pain of losing them is unbearable too.

It’s part of your family that you’ve lost.

Otterseatpuffinsdontthey · 26/01/2020 10:46

Gorgeous little cat. Sorry for your loss Flowers

Whynosnowyet · 26/01/2020 10:49

What beautiful eyes op. When my friend's dd lost her dkitten in tragic circumstances I bought her a little dcat bracelet as a keepsake.
Sorry for your loss.

BovaryX · 26/01/2020 10:49

I am so sorry, Ziggy looks like a lovely chap and far too young. Like everyone has said, he was a part of your family and all of us with beloved cats understand that. You have to give yourself time to grieve and keep in mind that he knew he was loved.

Toddlerteaplease · 26/01/2020 11:27

If you have a picture of his paw prints. Or can get a print, you could have it made into a necklace or key ring.

Fluffycloudland77 · 26/01/2020 11:49

I did the paw print necklace, oddly comforting. When we get another cat I’ll be ordering one while it’s still alive.

Hardtoknowwhat · 26/01/2020 11:50

Thanks for all the lovely comments Flowers

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Autumnchill · 26/01/2020 11:51

So sorry for your loss and especially at such a young age. Ziggy ❤️

BovaryX · 26/01/2020 11:58

How do you do the paw print necklace? I am just wondering how to get a paw print from my two without injury......

Fluffycloudland77 · 26/01/2020 12:14

Some retailers take a photo or you get them to step on an ink pad, then onto paper.

You’ll need non toxic ink.

BovaryX · 26/01/2020 12:19

Thank you fluffy. I don't want to derail this thread, but just want to ask, they can use a photo of their paw pads? What kind of necklace do they make?

PixieDustt · 26/01/2020 12:27

Oh what a gorgeous boy.
So sorry Thanks

Foslady · 27/01/2020 07:09

I’m so sorry for your loss, we had to say goodbye to our cat Treacle on Saturday too and I am going through the motions right now - ok one moment and then crying the next. It’s a huge hole left in your heart for such a little fur baby/monster depending on what they were up to, take the time you need to get through the worst of it Flowers

Fluffycloudland77 · 28/01/2020 21:09

How are you getting on?.

Hardtoknowwhat · 29/01/2020 18:31

Thanks for all the kind words.

Sorry to hear of your loss @Foslady

We're doing okay. He's being cremated and coming back to us next week in a wooden cat shaped urn. He can then sit in his favourite spot on the window ledge looking out over the garden.

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Want2beme · 29/01/2020 21:05

How sad. It's really hard when they leave usFlowers

nettie434 · 29/01/2020 23:07

Very sorry for your loss Hardtoknowwhat. So sad for your daughter too. Ziggy looks like a much loved and contented cat.