We have a 1 year old neutered male cat very friendly mostly likes to stay indoors he'll go out to toilet and comes in then I see never far away , every night when kids are gone to bed he Will sit on my husbands knee if I had him he'll just go overt to him I'm the 1 who feeds him etc, it drives me mad we have a female also she hates everyone only sits on our knee if she's wet or cold. This is light hearted I'm just wondering