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Fostering home check today - what to expect?

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littleladyluna · 05/07/2015 12:46

Very excited and nervous for our home check today, hopefully we'll be able to foster a cat soon! Does anyone know what to expect from a home visit? Anything that the charity will be looking for specifically?

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Fluffycloudland77 · 05/07/2015 13:48

Probably making sure you don't have any dangerous house plants or unrealistic expectations about cat furniture destroying furry tyrantsownership.

I hope it goes well.

SunnyAgain · 05/07/2015 19:40

Probably too late reassure you, but when we had our home check before bringing two young cats home from the rescue centre, the woman barely came in! She stood in the hall, peeped round the doorway into the kitchen and that was it. I think she wanted to check the location of the house much more than the inside of it. Hope all goes well with your fostering!

walthamcross · 05/07/2015 20:06

I foster for Cats Protection. They check your home is hazard free and that you have a separate space for your cat if you already have cats. You sign an agreement and all being well, the first cat arrives quite soon.

We're on our fourth cat; this one is scared of everything and a bit hissy and bitey, the other three were easy and laid back.

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littleladyluna · 05/07/2015 20:48

Thanks all! The lady had a quick look around and that was it, checked our back garden was walled as we had told her before, and asked us where the cat would sleep (I think our answer of "wherever it likes" was what she was looking for!)

Anyway, we get our first foster cat tomorrow evening. Absolutely thrilled to bits :)

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cozietoesie · 06/07/2015 12:04

I'll start the book here for a 'failed foster'. (That means that you fall in love with them and can't bear to give them back up again. Wink)

Well done, anyway. Smile

walthamcross · 07/07/2015 20:42

My first one was this amazingly lovely big ginger and white tomcat. Friendly, full of character and really well behaved. Was so hard to let him go! He went to a really lovely family though which was a comforter.

Fluffycloudland77 · 07/07/2015 20:56

I couldnt foster, I'd end up with 40 failed fosters and one very pissed off Bengal hating me.

You're going to make those cats so happy to be out of a shelter.

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littleladyluna · 08/07/2015 20:50

We got given a supremely beautiful, skinny, and nervous two year old to love, and I've attached a pic Smile

I've already been warned by the foster coordinator that these abuse/neglect cases who need more that extra effort to come round to people again are especially hard to give up. Fostering is probably one of the best and worst ideas I've had for a while!

Fostering home check today - what to expect?
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cozietoesie · 08/07/2015 20:56

That is one beautiful cat. Smile

code · 08/07/2015 20:56

That cat is soo pretty! Failed fosterer I bet!!!!

Fluffycloudland77 · 08/07/2015 20:57

Good grief, those eyes are full of hurt.

Poor girl, how long do you have her for?.

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littleladyluna · 08/07/2015 21:10

We have her for as long as she needs to come out of her shell and trust people again. Right now, despite being gorgeous to look at, she is mistrustful of people and so many permanent homes understandably want a cat who at least likes a stroke and a fuss.

The first evening we had her she managed to get behind the baseboards in the kitchen and hide behind the washing machine, we couldn't get to her so left some food out and headed to bed. I tossed and turned all night worrying about her! In the morning she was happily snuggled in the little cat-cave we'd made her out of a cat carrier draped in a towel, and DP's old woollen scarves as a mattress. She came out for breakfast, and after a very graceful stretch, investigated me from a safe distance.

She's getting bolder everyday, and I am in deep emotional trouble!

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Fluffycloudland77 · 08/07/2015 21:13

I think we all would be.

LaurieFairyCake · 08/07/2015 21:15

Lovely cat

This is why I don't foster cats, I'd end up with a dozen

Ive got one very elderly cat left - all my others have passed in the last couple of years (but ive had 6)

code · 08/07/2015 21:15

That one will be staying...

Fluffycloudland77 · 08/07/2015 21:18

It would be nice but what about all the other cats who need fostering?.

code · 08/07/2015 21:20

She'll take those too...and they will stay...

cozietoesie · 08/07/2015 21:21

By this time next year, she'll be emulating TCN, that's what. Grin

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littleladyluna · 08/07/2015 21:28

Fluffy now that I've been introduced to this "pre-permanent adoption limbo" that some cats find themselves in I'd feel horrific if I decided to keep her and block off a foster home for another cat. She came from a multi-cat household so I've been told she's good with other cats... Wink

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cozietoesie · 08/07/2015 21:30

Uh Huh. Wink

code · 08/07/2015 21:35

Yep, this time next year 50+ cats and a guest spot on Animal Hoarders Grin

walthamcross · 08/07/2015 23:52

I too am currently fostering a ten month old neglected cat. In the one week he has been here not a day has gone by without hissing and claws. Today he felt brave enough to sit on me (having been bribed with copious numbers of Dreamies) for two minutes. Still not brave enough to let him out the cat room overnight!

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littleladyluna · 09/07/2015 20:47

walthamcross my foster girl is currently eating Dreamies off my knee and tapping me impatiently when I'm slow to produce them! I'm looking forward to being sat on Smile

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cozietoesie · 09/07/2015 21:15

She's found her home, I think? Grin

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littleladyluna · 09/07/2015 21:23

I can't imagine anyone else having her let's put it that way Wink

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