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A tale of a rescue cat and autism.

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Hurr1cane · 13/10/2014 11:46

I have mentioned one if my cats briefly in random conversations but never really given him a full boasting. So I would like to tell you all about scruffy the rescue therapy cat.

Last year just before Christmas, my friend contacted me and said that she had taken a cat off someone who was threatening to dump it, it was a pure bred ragdoll but she couldn't keep this cat as it was in a terrible condition and she didn't have the time for it. At the time I was looking for a none rescue kitten to act as a companion for my little boy with autism, as the other 2 rescue cats were far too skittish to stay near him and his shouting, so I was reluctant as it would mean there was no room for a new kitten, but I couldn't leave this scruffy ball of fuzz.

So I went to collect him and he was disgusting! His fur matted to the bone, greasy and smelly, he had two eye infections and hadn't been neutered and so was spraying everywhere, he was also pretty timid and feral as he had just been left living in a shed.

So I set to work, I got a groomer to come round and shave off all his lovely fur (too matted to be worth trying to snip/ brush and it would cause him too much distress) got him neutered and fleed and got him some eye drops.

He hated me. With a passion, every time I got hold of him I was doing something else nasty with him. All his little life he had been neglected by adult humans and now another adult human was slowly torturing him (I was helping him but obviously he didn't think so)

Anyway, ragdoll kept hiding, every night he'd be gone, I checked all the usual cat places but couldn't find him anywhere, until one day I did. Cowering under DSs arm in bed with him. You see, quiet adult humans were nasty, but this loud shouty small species of human was actually quite none plussed about his existence, so he found his saviour.

DS named him (it's a rubbish name) and that was that. They were best friends.

He sleeps with DS, sits at the dinner table with him, gets in the bath with him, sits in his jigsaw boxes while DS does the puzzles... You name it and ragdoll cat was there with DS. This brought DS out of his shell, he started talking to the cat, stroking him, spinning him on his spinners (cat doesn't mind a jot) and just generally being sociable with another being. It was amazing to see. If DS was in meltdown, seeing ragdoll cat brought him out of it instantly and he smiled and giggled.

So... Worked out well, I thought, good job I didn't choose a kitten over him after all.

But that's not the end of the story.

DS has very strange seizure like episodes, which aren't epilepsy, but are seizures. They seem to be brought on my heat or stress, but also just come from nowhere. Sometimes he stops breathing and has to go to hospital. Anyway they're horrible.

One day, I was doing my hair and DS was playing in my bed next to me, when all of a sudden ragdoll appeared from nowhere, sat next to DS and howled. He howled and howled. I thought he was in severe pain, but the next minute, DS was down, jerking and unconscious.

What a strange coincidence I thought. But it wasn't, it happened again and again, before every seizure.

This cat, who I didn't really want, is so attached and in tune with a little boy who other cats are scared of, that he can pick up warning signs of a seizure that even I can't see in my own child.

This cat is worth his weight in gold, and he weighs a bloody lot.

Anyway just thought I would share because I'm a bit massively proud of the beast. As you were.

OP posts:
streakybacon · 14/10/2014 11:52

This is lovely - thank you Grin.

AndyWarholsOrange · 14/10/2014 12:51

That's so lovely. Did anyone see 'The secret life of cats' a few months ago? There was a boy aged around 8 who suffered from severe anxiety and had become electively mute - he hadn't spoken at all for months. One day, this cat just turned up and adopted the family. He formed a really strong bond with the little boy and and spent ages miaowing to him like he really was trying to talk to him. Over the next few months, the boy started to talk again. I admit to shedding a tear, it was incredible.
When I used to volunteer in a home for adults with severe learning disabilities, a new manager started and the first thing she did was to get 3 cats. The residents adored them and used to love feeding them. One of them developed the most amazing relationship with one of the residents who had severe autism and was non verbal. The number of violent outbursts he had went down by about three quarters after the cats moved in. I wonder if there's actually any proper research about this?

Hurr1cane · 14/10/2014 12:57

Andy I often wonder. I know there are 'proper' therapy animals with their little harnesses and jackets Smile they look so cute! I looked into getting scruffy properly registered but I don't think he would like being taken out of the house somewhere else, I worry that he'll think he's being abandoned again Sad

There must be research if there's proper therapy animals. Apparently some people take them off to visit people with disabilities and they really help.

I once thought about getting DS an assistance dog, but he seems to really dislike the unpredictability of dogs and he doesn't like the way they get right into his space. I think cats are just the right amount of 'not arsed' for him Grin

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Solo · 14/10/2014 14:30

OP, you made me cry...

wantacatplease · 14/10/2014 17:31

Lovely, Hurr1cane. Just lovely. Thanks

hiddenhome · 14/10/2014 17:37

That's an amazing story.

I think cats are more tuned in to us than we realise.

Hurr1cane · 14/10/2014 19:59

Hi wantacat! Smile you're everywhere!

I do like a good brag about my scruffy boy. I love cats, but I've never met one quite so.... Anticat Grin

He isn't all cuddles and seizure watching though. He steals food, any food, he even breaks down cupboards to get to it! I think it comes from being so neglected poor lamb.

He also once sat on feral kittens head when she wouldn't stop trying to play fight him when he was having a nap GrinGrinGrin.

He just got up and moved, she followed and bit his tail, so he got up and moved again but she wouldn't let him pass and kept lying in his way batting at him, so he turned around, and sat on her head and proceeded to wash his paw.

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wantacatplease · 14/10/2014 20:15

Hi Hurr1cane! It could be suggested I am on MN far too much, with special emphasis on The Litter Tray. This will hopefully be lessened once I actually, finally get a cat.

I do love your threads, though! Thanks

wantacatplease · 14/10/2014 20:18

Who am I kidding, when I get a cat I'll actually have a legit reason to be here 24/7. Grin

Hurr1cane · 14/10/2014 20:26

I'm waiting for photos and stories of your cat when you get it Smile

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cozietoesie · 14/10/2014 20:28

Well you're not kidding us! We were just going to be tactful. Wink

wantacatplease · 14/10/2014 20:52

Hurr1cane I'm sure there will be plenty! Smile

Cozie is it that obvious? I only post on every other thread in the LT. Grin

LoopyLa · 16/10/2014 21:12

Aww this made me tearful but in a good way, love this story! Smile

MeAndMySpoon · 03/11/2014 22:33

This is wonderful! Smile Sounds very similar to Iris Grace and her Maine Coon companion Thula, who was mentioned up-thread. There's also a book about a boy with autism and his Ragdoll Jessi-Cat (book is: 'Jessi-Cat: The Cat that Unlocked a Boy's Heart' by Jayne Dillon). It's interesting that certain breeds of cat seem to have a particular affinity with children who are harder to reach - Maine Coons and Ragdolls.

I know that a fantastic relationship wasn't guaranteed, but I still wish I'd held out to rehome or even buy one of these breeds, rather than the moggy we've rehomed. He and DS2 (ASD) are mutually oblivious of one another! Grin

Taffeta · 03/11/2014 22:39

How wonderful. Smile

Snapespotions · 03/11/2014 22:51

What a lovely story. Thank you, OP. I'm glad that Scruffy found your little boy!

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