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A tale of a rescue cat and autism.

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Hurr1cane · 13/10/2014 11:46

I have mentioned one if my cats briefly in random conversations but never really given him a full boasting. So I would like to tell you all about scruffy the rescue therapy cat.

Last year just before Christmas, my friend contacted me and said that she had taken a cat off someone who was threatening to dump it, it was a pure bred ragdoll but she couldn't keep this cat as it was in a terrible condition and she didn't have the time for it. At the time I was looking for a none rescue kitten to act as a companion for my little boy with autism, as the other 2 rescue cats were far too skittish to stay near him and his shouting, so I was reluctant as it would mean there was no room for a new kitten, but I couldn't leave this scruffy ball of fuzz.

So I went to collect him and he was disgusting! His fur matted to the bone, greasy and smelly, he had two eye infections and hadn't been neutered and so was spraying everywhere, he was also pretty timid and feral as he had just been left living in a shed.

So I set to work, I got a groomer to come round and shave off all his lovely fur (too matted to be worth trying to snip/ brush and it would cause him too much distress) got him neutered and fleed and got him some eye drops.

He hated me. With a passion, every time I got hold of him I was doing something else nasty with him. All his little life he had been neglected by adult humans and now another adult human was slowly torturing him (I was helping him but obviously he didn't think so)

Anyway, ragdoll kept hiding, every night he'd be gone, I checked all the usual cat places but couldn't find him anywhere, until one day I did. Cowering under DSs arm in bed with him. You see, quiet adult humans were nasty, but this loud shouty small species of human was actually quite none plussed about his existence, so he found his saviour.

DS named him (it's a rubbish name) and that was that. They were best friends.

He sleeps with DS, sits at the dinner table with him, gets in the bath with him, sits in his jigsaw boxes while DS does the puzzles... You name it and ragdoll cat was there with DS. This brought DS out of his shell, he started talking to the cat, stroking him, spinning him on his spinners (cat doesn't mind a jot) and just generally being sociable with another being. It was amazing to see. If DS was in meltdown, seeing ragdoll cat brought him out of it instantly and he smiled and giggled.

So... Worked out well, I thought, good job I didn't choose a kitten over him after all.

But that's not the end of the story.

DS has very strange seizure like episodes, which aren't epilepsy, but are seizures. They seem to be brought on my heat or stress, but also just come from nowhere. Sometimes he stops breathing and has to go to hospital. Anyway they're horrible.

One day, I was doing my hair and DS was playing in my bed next to me, when all of a sudden ragdoll appeared from nowhere, sat next to DS and howled. He howled and howled. I thought he was in severe pain, but the next minute, DS was down, jerking and unconscious.

What a strange coincidence I thought. But it wasn't, it happened again and again, before every seizure.

This cat, who I didn't really want, is so attached and in tune with a little boy who other cats are scared of, that he can pick up warning signs of a seizure that even I can't see in my own child.

This cat is worth his weight in gold, and he weighs a bloody lot.

Anyway just thought I would share because I'm a bit massively proud of the beast. As you were.

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KnockMeDown · 13/10/2014 17:38

That is a lovely story - I have tears in my eyes!

Am interested - how old is your DS now? And what did he name the cat?

Scarletohello · 13/10/2014 17:45

Aw thanks for sharing that. How lovely for all of you. And such a gorgeous cat! Made me cry too. X

UpduffedFatty · 13/10/2014 17:50

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RubbishMantra · 13/10/2014 17:58

A very lovely story to warm the cockles on this cold, dreary day. Smile

Hurr1cane · 13/10/2014 20:03

Sorry for the late reply! DS was 7.5 when we acquired the smelly beast, beast was 2, DS is now 8 and beast is 3.

DS named the giant beast.... Scruffy. Because, well, he was. I wanted to call him Sylvester, but no, he is scruffy.

It doesn't quite suit his well groomed self now. But he's DSs cat and that's his name.

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Hurr1cane · 13/10/2014 20:06

We are having a cuddle tonight to keep warm. DS is usually on the other side of me Smile

A tale of a rescue cat and autism.
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ThisBitchIsResting · 13/10/2014 20:13

Made this pregnant woman sob too! So lovely.

cozietoesie · 13/10/2014 20:15

Hurr1cane

It might be a good idea to link to this thread on the Special Needs topic - Special Needs Chat, say. I'm sure it's made a lot of us smile and it might make a few posters across there grin as well?

demolitionduo · 13/10/2014 21:22

What a heart-warming story. My eyes have sprung a leak too.

aJumpedUpPantryBoy · 13/10/2014 21:33

What an amazing story.
I love the pictures of him, and I have to agree with your DS, Scruffy is there perfect name

timtam23 · 13/10/2014 21:33

What an absolutely lovely story, and I especially like the photo of Scruffy with the little kitten!

Fuzzymum1 · 14/10/2014 09:57

Awwww that's lovely. Cats are amazing beings.

One of our cats adores my son who has asperger's. She insists on sitting in his lap while we eat dinner.

miaowmix · 14/10/2014 10:00

Brilliant. What an amazing story Smile.

QueenoftheVerse · 14/10/2014 10:11

What a fantastic story. You just brought a tear to my eye Grin

MagratsHair · 14/10/2014 10:18

What a lovely story, thanks for sharing Hurr1cane :)

There is a little girl who is autistic & helped by her cat, she paints the most beautiful pictures & the parents have said that since the cat has been with them the little girl has started painting cat eyes & noses into her works.

irisgracepainting.com/2014/02/12/i-think-this-is-the-beginning-of-a-beautiful-friendship/

aNoteToFollowSo · 14/10/2014 10:24

What a wonderful story and a gorgeous cat. Thanks OP!

Hurr1cane · 14/10/2014 10:26

Thanks Smile so glad I rescued him instead of looking for a kitten to try and train up! It might have just ended up being naughty like feral kitten Grin

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Hurr1cane · 14/10/2014 10:27

I don't know how to link threads from my phone Sad

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magimedi · 14/10/2014 10:29

You have brightened my morning & bought a lump to my throat.

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kippersmum · 14/10/2014 10:38

My DD who is 8 has Aspergers. We have 3 cats, 2 join in normal family life, the 3rd decided when she was a tiny kitten that she was DD's cat.

Every night she waits for DD to get out of the bath & then goes to curl up on her bed. She starts off snuggled up next to DDs tummy but by the time I check on them later she is normally curled up on DDs pillow being cuddled like a cuddly toy. When it is cold she gets under the duvet with DD with just her head poking out :)

The relationship between them is lovely to see & has really helped DD.

cozietoesie · 14/10/2014 11:29

I'll link it for you in Special Needs Chat then Hurr1cane.

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Hurr1cane · 14/10/2014 11:31

Thanks Cozie Smile

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Hurr1cane · 14/10/2014 11:33

Recently I fostered 4 orphaned kittens. 2 of the 4 people who gave them their forever homes had a child with autism who loved cats. I thought it a bit of a coincidence when I met them. But maybe cats really do help them.

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spiderlight · 14/10/2014 11:35

Wailing!! Absolutely amazing - thank you for sharing Grin

VenusRising · 14/10/2014 11:48

My goodness, how lucky for everyone.
What an amazing story.