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Adopted dog struggling with our life stye

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Thestarsmayalign · 21/01/2026 01:07

We adopted a dog on trail some weeks ago . The owner was struggling and awaited surgery- which has now been successful. She mostly stayed in .

i did post about some
issues

she has now developed anxiety related colitis as advised by vet today .
-she lived a very quiet life with a lady and the vet says due to our more wide
life it has been producing cortisol in her which has led to
her having
colitis. Its seems excitement etc created this and turned
it into stress.
We are advised that as she is used to a very quiet life this has happened .
She also
has severe separation anxiety as she is used to
being with elderly
owner all
the time .
-she is running on her nerves and is over stimulated by a normal life - we go
out etc on walks which she struggles
with - she gets over exited and beyond herself.

The elderly lady
is now concerned re her well being as she feels
that she cannot adapt and its affecting her …
And has suggested we return her .

As for us , we see her as a lovely dog - but we can see that she really struggles with daily’ normal ‘ life and we do not know what to do for the best

its like the world is too much for her

.My gut i that she would be more settled im her previous home. We tried to adapt to
what she seems to
need , we have , on advice form behaviourist only walked her for
an
hour a day ( apart from we break s) to
let her be rested amd calm and its had a massive impact on our life as Ive not been able to
go
to work
( only a few hours)
.
Conflicted.!

Am aware that it takes
dogs a
while
to
settle but
I am
just
so
unsure
that she can .

i
have no
idea why
the text resorted
this format ! Apologies.

OP posts:
jamandcustard · 21/01/2026 14:27

Thestarsmayalign · 21/01/2026 13:14

FeralWoman

she seems to love other dogs and people .
its just then it makes her v exited .

I suspect what you’ve convinced yourself is excitement is actually severe stress.

WingingItSince1973 · 21/01/2026 16:07

oP there is a dog out there to suit your lifestyle. Please keep this dog as quiet as possible now for the next two weeks. I'm actually really excited for this pup to be reunited with it's owner. I have two dogs here snuggling with me because I have flu and absolutely would hate to think of them ensuring so much stress. You're absolutely doing the right thing x

noctilucentcloud · 21/01/2026 18:03

Thestarsmayalign · 21/01/2026 13:07

We have spoken to her . She will take her back in 2 weeks when she has recovered from her surgery.

That's a good update OP. I honestly think it is the best thing for you, the dog and her previous owner.

QuietPiggy · 21/01/2026 18:12

What kind of dog dosen’t like walkies?!

jamandcustard · 21/01/2026 18:17

QuietPiggy · 21/01/2026 18:12

What kind of dog dosen’t like walkies?!

One that's never had them before and finds them scary, stressful and overwhelming.

SpanielsGalore · 21/01/2026 18:17

QuietPiggy · 21/01/2026 18:12

What kind of dog dosen’t like walkies?!

A severely stressed one.

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