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New pup incoming… what do I need?

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3oldladiesstuckinalavatory · 27/08/2025 16:36

After years of careful research and deliberation/procrastination we’ve finally bitten the bullet and gave chosen our pup. She’s a mixed breed, mostly poodle but with some border collie thrown in there too.
She’s crate trained, so I’ve found one on Facebook marketplace for her that should be big enough to be a safe place for her to hide from the cat (and us, if she needs to!) and will buy a new dog bed, food and toys. I’ve ordered a selection of dog training books (one specifically for poodles). Our garden needs dog proofing I guess? What else? Grew up with dogs but it’s all so different now 😱.

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21ZIGGY · 28/08/2025 08:13

twistyizzy · 28/08/2025 08:05

It isn't nonsense. Been training working dogs for many years.
What is nonsense is the amount of untrained pet dogs, dogs never allowed off lead cos they haven't got recall, dogs constantly pulling on a lead, rude dogs who run up to other dogs and people, dogs with separation anxiety, fear of other dogs etc. All because their owners don't train them.

I dont want to derail op thread further but youve already backtracked from saying

My biggest tip is until dog is 1 year old only let then go 1 metre away from you on a walk, at 2 years it's 2 metres, 3 years 3 metres etc.

By later saying your 2 yo was 2 fields away.

You may not be explaining yourself well but saying dont walk a puppy outside the house until youve mastered on and off lead heel is ridiculous. Its setting people up to fail.

twistyizzy · 28/08/2025 08:19

21ZIGGY · 28/08/2025 08:13

I dont want to derail op thread further but youve already backtracked from saying

My biggest tip is until dog is 1 year old only let then go 1 metre away from you on a walk, at 2 years it's 2 metres, 3 years 3 metres etc.

By later saying your 2 yo was 2 fields away.

You may not be explaining yourself well but saying dont walk a puppy outside the house until youve mastered on and off lead heel is ridiculous. Its setting people up to fail.

You obviously haven't read my post properly. I said "when my dog is working it can be up to 2 fields away", outside of it working then yes they are always in that close. It is called proximity training- you make that circumference around you the most exciting place in the world for the pup. They then get further range when training or working as you have to have distance for recall/dummy work etc but yes, for general walks they are kept in proximity.

"Its setting people up to fail" no, it's setting dog and handler up to win! By ensuring your pup can walk to heel on a lead in the garden before going out on walks you set it up to win!

My pups start walking outside the garden when they are approx 16 weeks old. By that time they can do everything I listed in my first post. The outside world is then where you start building in distractions and proofing those techniques.

What sets a pup up to fail is letting it pull it's way around the pavements, not teaching recall or manners before going out into the world. No wonder there are so many untrained dogs and entitled owners around 🙄

SpanielsGalore · 28/08/2025 08:39

twistyizzy · 28/08/2025 08:05

It isn't nonsense. Been training working dogs for many years.
What is nonsense is the amount of untrained pet dogs, dogs never allowed off lead cos they haven't got recall, dogs constantly pulling on a lead, rude dogs who run up to other dogs and people, dogs with separation anxiety, fear of other dogs etc. All because their owners don't train them.

Apart from the pulling on lead, which is a work in progress, none of that applies to my puppy. She's always off lead. Has excellent recall until deer are involved. Only approaches other dogs and people that she is allowed to meet and greet. Doesn't have SA. And is over all a very confident, little dog.
She's just allowed more freedom to roam on walks. A dog can follow a scent for 25 metres and still be trained.

twistyizzy · 28/08/2025 08:43

SpanielsGalore · 28/08/2025 08:39

Apart from the pulling on lead, which is a work in progress, none of that applies to my puppy. She's always off lead. Has excellent recall until deer are involved. Only approaches other dogs and people that she is allowed to meet and greet. Doesn't have SA. And is over all a very confident, little dog.
She's just allowed more freedom to roam on walks. A dog can follow a scent for 25 metres and still be trained.

That's great but my response was to a PP who claimed a proven and tested method, nonsense!

SpanielsGalore · 28/08/2025 08:43

3oldladiesstuckinalavatory · 27/08/2025 21:19

She’s 10 weeks and is in a crate at night with her siblings - fed in there too. Mum and other related dogs are kept in a crate next to her overnight, with free range in a fenced off garden space during the day and time in the main house (which is massive and open plan, not really safe for pups) for cuddles and playing.

I’ve never used a crate before but want to keep that constant at least when she’s little. My plan is to keep the crate downstairs with the same bedtimes / wake up that she has now. I’m guessing I might sleep on a sofa next to her for the first couple of nights to settle her in?

Where are the cages if not in the main house?

Astrabees · 28/08/2025 08:46

We have a toy poodle and a poodle chihuahua cross. The first thing we found out when they arrived from rescue is that a good groomer is hard to find and they get booked up very quickly. I would suggest you do some research now and make a booking. Ours offers a puppy service starting with just a bath and introduction to grooming to be sure they enjoy the experience later on.

3oldladiesstuckinalavatory · 28/08/2025 09:19

SpanielsGalore · 28/08/2025 08:43

Where are the cages if not in the main house?

Their utility room - it is in the main house, but has its own entrance. Our house is not so big, we’ll have the crate downstairs in a sitting room off the kitchen.

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3oldladiesstuckinalavatory · 28/08/2025 09:19

Astrabees · 28/08/2025 08:46

We have a toy poodle and a poodle chihuahua cross. The first thing we found out when they arrived from rescue is that a good groomer is hard to find and they get booked up very quickly. I would suggest you do some research now and make a booking. Ours offers a puppy service starting with just a bath and introduction to grooming to be sure they enjoy the experience later on.

Another excellent point! My friend’s a dog groomer but she’s always busy. I’ll give her a call next week.

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Dunnocantthinkofone · 28/08/2025 10:48

If you can swing it space wise, I’ve found a play pen a useful addition. So for my pup crate = sleep time- no toys etc to distract from the job of sleeping
playpen = amuse yourself quietly with your toys/chew and nap if you like

VanGoSunflowers · 28/08/2025 13:58

My top tip is, if you look for a gun dog trainer and they’re positively dripping with arrogance and telling you that you’re doing it all wrong unless you follow their incredibly restrictive rules, run a mile.

The first trainer I spoke to on the phone was like that. I had to tell him several times that my Labrador puppy is a pet, I’m not training him with the hopes of him being a field trial champion.

The next gun dog trainer I spoke to was much more suitable. She was down to earth, positive and encouraging, didn’t belittle me once or try and laud her ‘experience’ over me because of some strange but misplaced superiority complex. And she very much understood that a pet dog does not need to be trained to working dog standards (which, funnily enough, still means you can teach your dog manners and good recall etc - after all, there is a gulf of difference between ‘highly trained working dog’ and no training at all)

twistyizzy · 28/08/2025 14:07

VanGoSunflowers · 28/08/2025 13:58

My top tip is, if you look for a gun dog trainer and they’re positively dripping with arrogance and telling you that you’re doing it all wrong unless you follow their incredibly restrictive rules, run a mile.

The first trainer I spoke to on the phone was like that. I had to tell him several times that my Labrador puppy is a pet, I’m not training him with the hopes of him being a field trial champion.

The next gun dog trainer I spoke to was much more suitable. She was down to earth, positive and encouraging, didn’t belittle me once or try and laud her ‘experience’ over me because of some strange but misplaced superiority complex. And she very much understood that a pet dog does not need to be trained to working dog standards (which, funnily enough, still means you can teach your dog manners and good recall etc - after all, there is a gulf of difference between ‘highly trained working dog’ and no training at all)

Is that aimed at me?
I'm not the one calling other posters ridiculous 🙄

Early3Rise · 28/08/2025 15:58

I think I've recommended it on here, but Puppy Perfect by Dr. Linda Simon is a really terrific read for new dog owners.

I'd get lots of food puzzles- our current ones are lick mats, the middle sized Kong and some feeding balls (plastic balls with holes, for her kibble).

Register at a vet asap as ours had a 3 week wait and we needed to get 2nd vaccine done. Ended up having to go to the next county!!

Bupster · 30/08/2025 20:44

I'm absolutely fascinated by Schrodinger's dog - both two metres away at all times, AND with perfect recall and under perfect control from two fields away. At the same time! It's a holy miracle! We should all be so grateful for being graced with such wisdom.

Piss-taking aside, the advice isn't helpful unless you actually explain how the two are linked and how you get from engagement and building a bubble to proofing a recall and commands at a distance.

OP, let your puppy off lead when young as they'll want to stay close to you and you can begin training recall then. But do work on engagement too - don't let them wander off because you're relying on your puppy recall, or you'll find you have to start from scratch when they hit adolescence and decide to bog off (ask me how I know).

twistyizzy · 30/08/2025 20:55

Bupster · 30/08/2025 20:44

I'm absolutely fascinated by Schrodinger's dog - both two metres away at all times, AND with perfect recall and under perfect control from two fields away. At the same time! It's a holy miracle! We should all be so grateful for being graced with such wisdom.

Piss-taking aside, the advice isn't helpful unless you actually explain how the two are linked and how you get from engagement and building a bubble to proofing a recall and commands at a distance.

OP, let your puppy off lead when young as they'll want to stay close to you and you can begin training recall then. But do work on engagement too - don't let them wander off because you're relying on your puppy recall, or you'll find you have to start from scratch when they hit adolescence and decide to bog off (ask me how I know).

I clearly made the distinction between working and non-working modes.

I didn't go into that because OP isn't going to work the dog. So I explained what I would do for a pet dog. It's called proximity training.

But yeh carry on with personal attacks. It elevates your post.

SpanielsGalore · 30/08/2025 21:53

@twistyizzy Ah, but when I said there was a difference between working and non working dogs, you replied 'dogs are dogs'.
So your dogs don't lead boring lives, because they get to run whilst working. But a pet dog has to stay within close proximity. When do they get to run? Or swim? Or play with other dogs?

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