She's only 10, has had nothing but health problems all her life and long term steroids have wrecked her kidneys, amongst other things. She's not in terrible pain but has no energy, interest or quality of life, she just sleeps all the time. So it doesn't have to be today and that's what I'm struggling with, every other time I've had to pts it's been 'urgent' and I don't know how to reconcile with being the one to choose the day she dies. I know we can't go on indefinitely and whichever day I pick will probably feel just as bad, I just don't know that it has to be today, does it? I'm just going round in circles and I'm running out of time.