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Struggling with puppy

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mumofthreesmallmen3 · 16/12/2022 10:54

Hi everyone, I am starting to struggle a lot with my puppy and would just like to maybe get ideas to help with the main issues I find I'm struggling with. Background is she is 19 weeks female Labrador. Over the past few weeks I have been finding it really hard, I'd like to know firstly If this is normal, secondly any tips. The nipping/not leaving alone is something I'm finding very hard,I know it's normal but it's relentless. Her routine is she gets 2 walks a day around 30 minutes each, around 9 and 4 roughly. The vets said the 5 minutes rule for walking outside so sticking to that, she also has my garden medium size and we also have a enclosed garden that we share with neighbours,communal, which is large and grassy and fully enclosed by the backs of our houses in a square shape, so she often will go out there too, I don't use lead there so I throw the ball and she has a run out there so I do think her exercise/physical Needs are being met. Is it possible I'm overdoing it or does this sound ok. We also do short training sessions with her kibble on things like sit,stay etc. If we are not out or actively playing/training she won't leave off, constantly bite my arms or hands, ashamed to say she made me cry the other day! Ridiculous! Id had bad news and I just wanted to sit down with a tea! I tried the yelping out loud then withdrawing from her, she goes more if I do that, I feel enticing her to do it more really with the loud exciting noises. I tried the remove myself from her with no reaction at all, I'm constantly standing up and down,up and down, I need a break! Is this normal? Another issue is she has diarrohea a lot, she actually has vets appointment on Monday as I need to sort the reason for diarrhoea out, it's impossible to pick up with bag, it makes a lot of mess,I'm hoping vet can help with issue but it's another thing that's quite stressful, in the day time she is pretty ok,odd accident, night time I put her into crate around 10pm after last toilet break as that's when I go to sleep, I still get up around 3/4 am to let her out as she needs a poo then, Is this normal? When would she be able to do 10pm to 6 am? I generally do hear her and let her out to go, if I do not in time she will soil crate, but after this 4am poo she's wide awake and ready to go, any advice for this issue? She is happy in crate I believe,she sometimes takes herself there in the daytime for nap, and bedtime she doesn't create, just at the 4am poo she will be wanting to get up and play then. She also will not toilet out on walks, is this a puppy thing and will change? She only will go in my small garden, not communal large one, when we finish walk and get to front door when I'm getting keys out of bag she will go outside front door without fail, is it because the walk is exciting so she forgets/holds as too busy sniffing/looking at everything? Anyone with experience of labradors 4/5 months is this all normal? It's so so much harder than I ever thought! If I sort the diarrhea problem on Monday that will be one less stressful thing, but she is hundred miles per hour most of the day! Is she not sleeping enough? She sleeps on and off through the day, but she's quite Velcro, she will sleep next to me on sofa,when I move,which I have to,she will wake so I don't know if I should be doing enforced naps in crate so I can get on with stuff? She's been lovely but I am shocked at how hard having a puppy really is! She is like having 4 toddlers at once with sharp teeth! By the time I do something in the house she's undone it! Sorry so long, did anyone else feel stressed at this age with there dogs,am I doing something wrong with her,please tell me in a year or 2 she's going to be a lovely mellow dog,she won't be this much forever will she? I'm trying to go with it but bit overwhelming last couple of weeks. I'm sorry this is so long

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Newpeep · 18/05/2023 08:50

stayathomer · 18/05/2023 07:30

I'm starting to think I should keep her off sofa for a bit, how difficult will this be as all she's known.
The trainer told us to never never never let your dog on a sofa or chair as they assume ownership and it’s likely to be the cause of them getting annoyed at anyone they don’t quite know who’s simply sitting down! I’m new to all of this, but Easy Peasy a puppy Squeezy (the book) has been a godsend. It teaches you to hand over a chew toy or teddy when they feel like chewing something. We quickly got to the stage that whenever our puppy even considered nipping/chewing we handed over a teddy/toy and now he looks around for one if we haven’t given it to him and takes it first. Told my friend and the same thing, after a while stopped going for the feet and just grabbed for a chew toy. Best of luck with it all op!

I am afraid your trainer is using vastly out dated methods and science in their advice to you. Dogs like chairs and sofas like us because they are comfortable and warm. If they don't fear being forceably moved then they won't guard them. Simple really. Resource guarding starts because a dog is scared of losing something because, well, they have lost something.

You can make it a good thing for them to get off my chucking a treat onto the floor. I allow my dogs and cats on furniture but they need to get off when asked to. The dog does. The cat sticks his fingers up. Clearly trying to dominate me 😀

SirSniffsAlot · 18/05/2023 09:30

I always think it's funny how cats never get tarred with the 'dominance' brush - despite much more of their behaviour lending itself to such a misinterpretation

Personally, I think cats get away with all the things dogs are shouted at for. They clearly have a much better PR firm behind them Grin Grin Grin

stayathomer · 18/05/2023 09:43

Newpeep
possibly (as I said am new to all of this!) but he just doesn’t get up on the couch now, he was never afraid of being removed, he just knew he got more fuss in his bed (next to us) as we have a bed for him next to the couch and he gets into that instead and is happy out!

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