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My dog has bitten DD. Help

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rottielove · 28/04/2021 17:06

He's never been aggressive to people before, let alone DD. I left them alone for two minute when I went to answer the door, I come back and DD is hysterical as she has been bitten on her arm. I don't think the dog meant it as no skin has been broken and he's a Rottweiler so if he really wanted to hurt her he could have. But like I say he is normally so good with him, I didn't think twice about leaving them for afew seconds. DD is 6, dog is 10., could it be dementia? Not sure where to go from here.

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PlanDeRaccordement · 30/04/2021 10:00

@bunniesanddaisies

The OPs dd was just sitting on the sofa!

I bloody love dogs but Christ what a life if you get bitten by a fucking Rottweiler and are told off for sitting on the sofa.

Couldn’t agree more. Victim blaming is what it is. A child of 6 who grew up with this dog is already going to know how to behave around this dog and be gentle, so the assumption everyone has that the child “must have” wound the dog up is highly unlikely in my opinion.
justasking111 · 30/04/2021 10:01

The vet will be helpful I believe.

PlanDeRaccordement · 30/04/2021 10:03

@curleyismyname

Didn't the dog respond to the noise of the doorbell?It would be very unusual for any dog not to wake up when someone is at the door.
Yes! That is my thinking too, the dog was not asleep when the OP left them in the room on the sofa together. It’s not coincidence the dog bite happened when they were alone with no adult supervision.
Meggymoo777 · 30/04/2021 10:05

Sorry this has happened OP, I do think you're taking the right approach by bringing ddog to the vets just to be sure.

We have a beautiful Staffordshire and have a VERY strict rule that she's never alone with DS 11, even for a few seconds. So if I run to the loo, answer the door etc I bring the dog with me. It can be a pain but both DS and ddog are my responsibility and it's not fair on either of them to be allowed in a situation where one could harm the other. Constant supervision is 100% the way to go here.

I'm really glad the situation wasn't worse for you, you sound like a caring owner and hope you all have a happy and safe life for the remainder of ddogs years x

rottielove · 30/04/2021 10:31

Vet has been on the phone. Dog has a low thyroid. Needs to go on tablets. Next challenge is getting tablets into my 52kg dog... he's a sneaky bugger who will sniff them out if I hide them in food.

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Hoppinggreen · 30/04/2021 10:34

@PlanDeRaccordement

*You do realise that this child wasn’t actually bitten dont you? Yes the child suffered a bruise but no broken skin, it’s the equivalent of a human grabbing the child’s arm too hard with their hand when startled.*

No, no the child WAS bitten. The bite left a bruise. Just because the teeth didn’t cut the skin, doesn’t mean it wasn’t a bite. I’ve never grabbed my child too hard and left a bruise so that is not at all comparable.

Rottweilers can exert pressure through their jaws of twice their body weight and then lock their jaws. Injury through such compression is still very painful and can even result in bones broken without the skin even being broken or scratched.

Yes, Rottweilers (and other dogs) CAN do that. This one didnt
rottielove · 30/04/2021 10:35

@bunniesanddaisies

The OPs dd was just sitting on the sofa!

I bloody love dogs but Christ what a life if you get bitten by a fucking Rottweiler and are told off for sitting on the sofa.

My Dd has not been told off for anything! We had a cuddle and a chat about how what we are going to do. The dog isn't a genuine risk. If he was, I wouldn't hesitate to rehome or pts. See my previous post, he has a bad thyroid. Vet says it can cause aggression in good dogs. We can manage it.
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Hoppinggreen · 30/04/2021 10:35

@rottielove

Vet has been on the phone. Dog has a low thyroid. Needs to go on tablets. Next challenge is getting tablets into my 52kg dog... he's a sneaky bugger who will sniff them out if I hide them in food.
Primula cheese and have another one waiting in the other hand Good luck
rottielove · 30/04/2021 10:40

@PomegranateQueen

I'll never understand why dog haters people who aren't terribly keen on dogs cone to a dog forum..

Because it's not a dog forum, it's a section within a parenting forum and your post came up on active.

I can't believe you left your child alone with a rottweiler. Now you don't know what happened, of course the dog people are very quick to blame the child, how lovely that the dog only bruised her and didn't main her Hmm
I'm shocked that anyone would keep a dog that has bitten thier DC.

There's no point in coming on here just to tell me what a crap mum I am. I already feel guilty enough. Thanks. It's a parenting site, it's supposed to be supportive..
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Wildswimming3 · 30/04/2021 10:44

Thats good news op, sorry hes unwell though. Good luck with the tablets! Youre not a crap parent and youre a good mum Smile

Wildswimming3 · 30/04/2021 10:45

Meant to say good dog mum!

vroominary · 30/04/2021 10:59

[quote PlanDeRaccordement]@vroominary
You are wrong in saying that dogs are not trying to be dominant over people regarding this specific situation. Yes, in general, most dogs will submit to an adult human but many dogs do try and exert dominance over children. This is a well known fact and why children are disporportionately victims of dog attacks.

Dominance aggression in the home progresses in stages because the owner may not have the understanding or the experience to nip it in the bud. Even if the owner is aware that science classifies the dog as a subspecies of wolf, it does no good to know that the alpha wolf controls his underlings with a stare. Dominant puppies and dominant-aggressive dogs seldom respond to these tactics from two-legged family members who are definitely of another species. In fact, a staring child, for example, may trigger an aggressive response from a dog that has been allowed to bully people and can result in a serious bite attack.[/quote]
Thanks for the reply.
I’d be interested to know where you are getting the term ‘dominance aggression’ as it’s not something I have come across in the literature around animal behaviour. Our most useful understanding of aggression comes from Panksepp’s work in neurobiology, who outlines a few broad brush reasons for aggression: fear, frustration, pain, grief/social panic, and care for young.
Clinical animal behaviourists use a process of elimination to understand unwanted behaviour (differential diagnosis) that takes into account genetic predisposition, temperament, the context of the behaviour, and medical influences amongst other things. Having a very specific understanding of the triggers and eliciting contexts allows for more specific (and therefore successful) behaviour modification plans. Back to this case anyway, what we know from what the OP has observed:
Elderly rottweiler (large breed, prone to joint issues in later life such as arthritis. Rottweilers have been involved in serious bite incidents obviously, but also frequently owned by the wrong kind of people.)
Young child (unpredictable, erratic movements, typically still learning social cues from people and struggle to read dog body language- studies show that young kids think a dog showing teeth is actually smiling- yikes)
Adult leaves room and incident occurs. Low level bite,doesn’t break the skin.
We have no evidence that the adult leaving the room caused the bite. In fact, it doesn’t really make sense. Why now? The child is 6, how many times will an adult have left the room before now and the dog has never demonstrated this behaviour? Why, when the dog is fast asleep and chilled out, would he suddenly think that now is the time to assert my ‘dominance’ over this kid? In an assessment I would rule it out immediately. In fact I wouldn’t, it would never have made my list of differentials in the first place.
We don’t know much about the relationship between the child and dog. It could be (although I doubt it based on the OP responses) that the dog has struggled with the child pestering it for a long time and the usual, lower level warnings that others have highlighted in previous posts have gone unnoticed, leaving the dog with no option to get its point across than to give an inhibited bite (this would fall more within the fear/frustration category). It’s a possibility- I would want to observe the interactions between the child and dog and learn more about the history to prevent further escalation of behaviour.

In my opinion, the most likely explanation for a dog who has never shown aggression before is medical. In this context, it makes perfect sense. An older dog who has been fast asleep, possibly startled or hurt by the child playing accidentally. As a result, the dog reacts to the nearest stimulus that could have caused the pain- the child.

It is generally acknowledged by most experts in the field that wolf/domestic dog comparisons are unhelpful as genetically, whilst retaining similarities, the two are different in much the same way as we are descended from Neanderthals (but I don’t think anyone would suggest that modern man is socially/emotionally the same).
There is such thing as dominance in dogs, but I think you are perhaps getting mixed up between the ‘popular culture’ side of dominance and the scientific definition. Contrary to popular belief and the prat that is Caeser Milan, dogs are not trying to be dominant over humans. In layman’s terms, dominance is just valuing resources and wanting to keep them as a consequence. So a dog might really value a toy and growl because an owner is going to take it away, or growl when an owner takes food away (to show who’s boss- ugh) in much the same way as I would be pretty pissed if a waiter removed my meal before I had finished eating. I suspect it wasn’t at play in this context unless the little girl was trying to pull him off the sofa (the valued resource) which I don’t believe she was.
So you’re right in the sense that aggression in the home can escalate because an owner doesn’t recognize the signs because it isn’t handled correctly, but I suspect we would handle this differently. If a dog was being aggressive over resources, I would be asking why the dog feels it needs to protect things, and trying to support the dog to feel more comfortable in the presence of people, and to learn that it’s valued possessions aren’t going to be taken away on a whim. I’d do this by building positive associations between proximity of people to valued resources (usually using food).
You are incorrect that dogs bite kids based on them being an ‘easy target’ in their quest to rule the household. Bites almost always occur because a dog has communicated it is uncomfortable with a situation on multiple occasions (often years) and this hasn’t worked, so the dog starts SHOUTING LOUDER (growls, nips etc) until their point gets across. Honestly, it’s true. One look on social media shows you the ridiculous things that kids do to dogs. It’s sad but its unsurprising that bites occur.
You are right, a staring human can trigger an aggressive response in some dogs but not through dominance. In Panksepp terms this would be the fear system activating- a stare is extremely intimidating and the dog would most likely feel the need to escalate its behaviour to move the scary, staring human further away. Most dogs would lick their lips, yawn and demonstrate low level avoidance behaviours like turning head away or moving away entirely in this context in order to avoid confrontation.
Any thoughts?

tabulahrasa · 30/04/2021 11:08

@rottielove

Vet has been on the phone. Dog has a low thyroid. Needs to go on tablets. Next challenge is getting tablets into my 52kg dog... he's a sneaky bugger who will sniff them out if I hide them in food.
Just stick them down his throat... then reward once they’re swallowed.

I got mine to open his mouth on command to take tablets doing that.

And I’ve fostered a rottie that had to have tablets and the same method worked...

They’re very obliging, and of course have nice wide mouths so your aim doesn’t need to be that good.

emilyfrost · 30/04/2021 11:17

I’m aghast that not only did you leave your young child alone with a Rottweiler, but are now wondering what you should do Confused

It’s simple: you rehome. The low thyroid is irrelevant and not an excuse.

Your dog is aggressive and has bitten your child. You would be exceptionally selfish to keep it and neglectful towards your daughter.

Hoppinggreen · 30/04/2021 11:32

@emilyfrost

I’m aghast that not only did you leave your young child alone with a Rottweiler, but are now wondering what you should do Confused

It’s simple: you rehome. The low thyroid is irrelevant and not an excuse.

Your dog is aggressive and has bitten your child. You would be exceptionally selfish to keep it and neglectful towards your daughter.

Utter bollocks
Floralnomad · 30/04/2021 11:37

@rottielove with regards to the pills cook some sausages chop into appropriate pill size stick the pill into the sausage then feed a few bits some without pill then the one with the pill . Hope he feels better soon .

vroominary · 30/04/2021 11:51

@emilyfrost

I’m aghast that not only did you leave your young child alone with a Rottweiler, but are now wondering what you should do Confused

It’s simple: you rehome. The low thyroid is irrelevant and not an excuse.

Your dog is aggressive and has bitten your child. You would be exceptionally selfish to keep it and neglectful towards your daughter.

The low thyroid is not irrelevant. If you control the low thyroid using medication, the problem goes away.

It's not ok to just rehome a dog that has shown aggression. You are just making it someone else's problem. That is exceptionally selfish in my opinion.

FanFckingTastic · 30/04/2021 11:54

*emilyfrost

I’m aghast that not only did you leave your young child alone with a Rottweiler, but are now wondering what you should do confused

It’s simple: you rehome. The low thyroid is irrelevant and not an excuse.

Your dog is aggressive and has bitten your child. You would be exceptionally selfish to keep it and neglectful towards your daughter.*

What a horrible, judgmental post.

bunniesanddaisies · 30/04/2021 12:05

Sorry OP I didn’t mean you were a crap mum. It’s the people blaming your daughter who have pissed me off. Hopefully you can get it sorted but I would have them in different rooms if you are in and out tbh.

cupoftea2021 · 30/04/2021 12:05

@Floralnomad

I totally agreed with everything said by *@LadyWhistledownsQuill , I think you are on the wrong forum @murbblurb* ,
The dog needs removed You irresponsible The story reflects what can happen not ignorance Your risking more than your knowledge more so your child's safety Glad Nz removed such dogs We actually can be prosecuted for such events take the hint
Hoppinggreen · 30/04/2021 12:27

Oh look, utter nonsense but in Haiku

Floralnomad · 30/04/2021 12:29

@cupoftea2021 I think you are on the wrong forum as well , the dog did not attack the child , it didn’t even break the skin , get a grip .

bunniesanddaisies · 30/04/2021 12:35

Minimising much?

vroominary · 30/04/2021 12:43

@PlanDeRaccordement

*You do realise that this child wasn’t actually bitten dont you? Yes the child suffered a bruise but no broken skin, it’s the equivalent of a human grabbing the child’s arm too hard with their hand when startled.*

No, no the child WAS bitten. The bite left a bruise. Just because the teeth didn’t cut the skin, doesn’t mean it wasn’t a bite. I’ve never grabbed my child too hard and left a bruise so that is not at all comparable.

Rottweilers can exert pressure through their jaws of twice their body weight and then lock their jaws. Injury through such compression is still very painful and can even result in bones broken without the skin even being broken or scratched.

Incorrect. Some dogs have a substantial bite force but no dog has the ability to lock their jaw. Skeletally, what would that even look like?!
Happenchance · 30/04/2021 12:44

[quote Floralnomad]@rottielove with regards to the pills cook some sausages chop into appropriate pill size stick the pill into the sausage then feed a few bits some without pill then the one with the pill . Hope he feels better soon .[/quote]
And it's amazing how irrasitable a spiked sausage is when it appears from a place where you normally store treats e.g. out of a packet of treats or a treat tin Grin

You sound like you're doing all the right things OP. For peace of mind, you could always ask a qualified behaviourist to observe your dog around your DD (once the meds have kicked in).

The Dogs Trust run free workshops for children about how to behave around dogs. I would have loved that type of thing when I was your DDs age and I think the family dog would have sent me on it if he could (I cringe at the things that that dog tolerated from me and my siblings, when l didn't know better).

I would hide/ask MN to delete this thread now X

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