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Chased Out Of Dog Park

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DaffodilDilly · 01/03/2020 13:43

Just been to our local dog park as i do every day, usually twice a day. I've got a Lab who is 14 months old. Mostly well behaved with good recall.
This is a designated dog park and 99% of the dogs are off lead. They all run around together quite happily
Well today a lady was walking a small dog, she saw us walking towards her and picked up her dog. Well, my lab saw this and jumped up at the dog. I quickly got him off and put him on the lead. I apologised to the lady and said if she left her dog on the ground my dog would have just walked past it.
She started swearing at me, took my photo and demanded money for her dirty coat.
She then followed me so I had no choice but to leave the park. All the time she was asking for my address and money.
I said I had no money, just poo bags and my phone.
I said she should expect to get dirty in the dog park and most people wear old clothes.
I was muddy and a few smaller dogs had jumped up at me. it doesn't bother me.
I've not seen this lady before and it really shook me up.
Was I in the wrong?

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adaline · 04/03/2020 20:37

I'm so pleased for you OP!

It can be really hard. Mine was really difficult as a puppy - I have a vivid memory of him running off on the beach to this couple with two Rottweilers - he didn't get within 15 feet of them but they yelled such abuse at me that it really shook me up Sad I didn't go back there again for weeks!

However, he's now absolutely fantastic. Only last week he was at the park playing with 5-6 dogs, all off the lead and all having an absolute ball! I'd never have imagined that a year ago.

Stellaris22 · 04/03/2020 20:45

Sounds perfect! Some MNers would think my dog was out of control, but this is the type of play dogs should be allowed to do and yours would fit right in! :)

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DaffodilDilly · 04/03/2020 21:02

And the postman made me smile, He bought a parcel and I had the dog sat at the front door, keeping a firm grip on him. (he loves watching people go by at the front door)
The postman asked if he could give him a cuddle as his Labrador had died last year.
OMG they had a lovely cuddle on the doorstep, bought a tear to my eye!

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adaline · 04/03/2020 22:40

@Stellaris22 what an excellent game of bitey face!

DaffodilDilly · 04/03/2020 22:53

Here's the out of control beastGrin

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Beautiful3 · 07/03/2020 05:42

Your dog is lovely op.

Booboostwo · 07/03/2020 07:41

Aw, he’s gorgeous. Glad you both enjoyed the park.

My dogs play a lot with each other, similar to the photos above. Anyone who knows about dogs can tell immediately that it is friendly play but so many people get worried (even though my dogs are nowhere near them) I have to be really conscious of where we are before I let them play in public.

Girliefriendlikespuppies · 07/03/2020 12:56

Going against the grain and saying YANBU op and I say that as an owner of a small breed!

Yes your dog shouldn't have jumped up but he is a young dog and by picking her dog up she was enticing your dog to play.

For the other lady to have a massive go at you is totally uncalled for, a sincere apology from yourself should have been enough. Would have been different if your dog had acted aggressively or knocked her over.

Topseyt · 07/03/2020 14:52

Awww, what a beautiful young lab. I fully understand your postman, as my labrador (a yellow one) only died last November, at the age of 15. What would I not give to have those puppy days again, even though they were also hard work!?

I am glad you got back to the park. I hope you let little Mr. Labrador off the lead to have a blast with the rest of the dogs. It is great for their exercise and socialisation levels at that age.

Young labradors are very energetic and bouncy. Training them takes time and isn't the simple matter that so many people think it is. If anyone ever tries to tell you that theirs has never upstaged them then I would be inclined to take it with a large pinch of salt.

I once encountered a lady who claimed to me that her spaniel had 100% recall and would never run up to another dog or go into a ditch and fail to come out at the first recall. The dogs had given each other a sniff and play-bow each on the way past, nothing else, but she took offence.

I walked in the same field the next day. Lo and behold, there she was again. This time shouting and shouting at her dog, which was playing in the ditch having a rare old time and absolutely refusing to come out. Grin I didn't laugh!! Of course not!! She noticed me and was very red in the face, looked at me but didn't speak this time.

Your dog is lovely. You are doing well. I am now nostalgic for having a labrador, and I miss my big yellow boy so very much. I will hopefully have one again one day, and will be far more prepared for how tricky they can be to train and how long it takes. Especially at the age yours is, which is really still the doggy teenage years. He was a right "Kevin the teenager" when he was that age. By the time he turned two years old he was almost out of the other end and beginning to listen to me again.

MsAdorabelleDearheartVonLipwig · 07/03/2020 17:39

I have just read the whole thread smiling at the idiotic responses. Of course dogs jump up sometimes, yes it’s not ideal but it’s easily trained out. Obviously you’re a nice responsible owner who is aware of this. No your dog did not bowl over a frail elderly person breaking at least twenty bones. You met a nasty chancer who thought she could intimidate you. She’s probably just some low life scam artist who’s tried that particular trick on several people. Probably wasn’t even her dog. Seems a ridiculous overreaction from a so-called dog owner in a dog park. Ignore the holier-than-thou experts on here, clearly their dogs are robots and that’s a very unrealistic expectation whatever they might like to bluster and protest.

I can’t get over how much your boy looks like mine. Mine can be quite rude too, he loves to run up to other dogs given half a chance. I have to watch him like a hawk though and call him back. Fortunately he has got a rock solid recall. We don’t see many dogs where we are, we’re quite rural. I’ve never encountered a loon like that though, you’ve just been unlucky. Please don’t let it put you off. Smile

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notquiteruralbliss · 08/03/2020 20:52

My small dog is not reliable. We don’t go to dog parks or anywhere busy but do sometimes meet strange dogs. She’s never off lead and If another dog approaches I pick her up and warn the owner that she isn’t friendly. They generally put their dog on a lead and pass without incident. If one jumped up, I couldn’t guarantee she wouldn’t snap.

MotherOfAllNameChanges · 09/03/2020 07:40

I have a puppy who jumps up at people too op.
Ive had someone have a go at me about it too.
I would really like some advice as to how to stop him doing this if anyone has the magic answer?

Iootraw1 · 11/03/2020 13:31

Oh OP everyone gone a bit bonkers and OTT at you. You’ve got a young dog whose still learning and a little dog he’d like to say hi to is hoisted Up into the air. Yes he jumped and that’s something you definitely need to train him with but he wasn’t actually being intentionally aggressive and no real harm done aside from a bit of mud on a jacket. The times I’ve had someone’s dogs paws on me out walking ...!

Iootraw1 · 11/03/2020 13:37

Oh gosh just noticed your dog looks just like mine too. This must be a black lab thing! My boy did it once when he was around the same age as yours when a man picked him JRT up and held it above his head just as my boy went to say hello. I hadn’t seen him behind the tree until last second. My dog just up and I ran over to retrieve him and apologize. The man said his was dog aggressive which is why he held it up. I don’t blame owners of small dogs being worried and picking their dogs up but sometimes it can entice a dog to jump up in this way. It’s still something we need to teach our dogs though so I’m not excusing this behaviour.

Iootraw1 · 11/03/2020 13:38

Btw how do you post a photo on here ?

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