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HATE my dog

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sashNmax · 01/02/2015 23:55

Sorry just need to vent. I have a 5 month old male beagle x and I seriously can't cope anymore. I wanted a dog for ages. Eventually my partner agreed (with the terms that he liked the breed) so we agreed on a beagle. We looked into it a lot and finally bought our puppy. We have quite an active lifestyle and I am usually a calm person so I thought we'd walk it. Couldn't be more wrong. he pees and poos everywhere. He appears to be house trained and then I'll let him out and bring him in then he'll go all over the floor. I'll be calm and it won't work. I'll show it him and he doesn't care. I catch him in the act and take him outside and he still goes inside! Barks and cries when he's alone. He jumps all over my 1 year old. Chases my cat bites all the time. I've always had dogs and read behavioural books but I'm losing my mind. The only thing I could give him credit for was coming to call off a lead. But today he's run out of our garden whilst I was watching. I've called him and he's not come back. I've run over walls and fences and he was under a bush eating something gross. He's now come home and sicked black stinky stuff all over my carpet. Took him out again and bent down to put him on the lead and he ran off and did it all again. Including throwing everything back up all over my carpet. I've been in tears for the past 2 hours. I don't know what to do. I love him when he's good but HATE him when he's bad. I feel for my little boy because I'm always telling the dog off for jumping on him so I can't spend the time I need with him. I grew up with dogs and I wanted my son to be able to have the same. But it's driving me insane. Everyone is telling me to get rid of him but i'd feel like i had let him down. I need some advice. PLEASE HELP.

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NetHuns · 04/02/2015 07:07

Sash you are not alone...our 5 month old pup can be a right rat bastard a lot of the time too!!just keep repeating the mantra 'this too shall pass'...

SunshineAndShadows · 04/02/2015 07:28

OP if that massive rant was to me then I'm not sure why - where exactly did I suggest that your dog wasn't suitable to be kept with your child? Or that you weren't spending time training etc? I was just explaining one of the reasons why people may have reacted negatively to your OP and providing some resources which may help.

But to be honest I'm not going to bother posting on this any more as I can't be doing with all of your melodramatic ranting. You've had some good advice despite your vile OP and misplaced expectations of your dog.

I wish your dog all the luck in the world.

MuddhaOfSuburbia · 04/02/2015 07:46

Oh sunshine don't be a dick

She's doing her best (which looks a lot better than my best)

These sort of posts are really, really unhelpful Sad

sebsmummy1 · 04/02/2015 08:08

This area of the site is worse than AIBU for hostility. Unless you have a rescue dog which you walk on a lead for approximately half the day and allow to sleep on your bed each night, you are scum.

ItsAllKickingOffPru · 04/02/2015 08:14

With all the research and prep in the world the reality of a puppy can come as a shock. It's not helpful to use words like 'vile' to someone who was clearly having a bad day with her dog and you'd be super lucky not to have one of those if you're a dog owner.

OP needed advice. She got it, she's feeling more positive, she can move forward knowing that she's doing things right and there's a few more things she can try. Personally, I save 'vile' and mawkish sympathies for the dog for the owners who clearly don't give a shit, which the OP in no way seems to be.

BrendaBlackhead · 04/02/2015 09:24

I really don't understand the nastiness of "doggy" people on here. I was on the receiving end myself a while ago.

Having a dog is somewhat akin to having a baby. You can do all the research in the world and read every book, but it still comes as a shock and no one says afterwards how incompetent, idiotic and undeserving the mother is. I've lost count of the number of times someone has smugly told me about their planned waterbirth with whale music. You just nod sagely and wish them luck.

I have a golden retriever. Boy, did I do my research and my stack of books was knee-high. I was flippin' beside myself when he did not turn into the "perfect puppy" in spite of following every damn bit of training to the letter. (That Gwen wotsit book I threw in the bin.) But, for every placid golden retriever I now know that there are ten boisterous disobedient ones. My dog is an absolutely great family pet, but weaving in and out of cones at Crufts - no way.

By the way, OP, wait until you ask about food. OMG - you are below scum if you dare to feed your dog anything but raw meat to be kept - as I was told by one poster - in your outhouse . Confused

sashNmax · 04/02/2015 10:36

Sunshine - no the rant was at the comment before.

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sashNmax · 04/02/2015 11:18

Also thank you for the messages of support. X

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MsAdorabelleDearheartVonLipwig · 04/02/2015 13:08

Brenda Grin

It says in the Pippa Mattinson book 'The Happy Puppy Handbook' Grin and I quote:

The whole raw feeding controversy has some similarities with the human breast feeding debate. Raw feeders can be quite evangelical in their claims about the benefits of raw feeding. People who decide not to feed raw can be left feeling quite inadequate and wondering if their dog will die of some horrible disease in the future as a result.

I fear The Doghouse will go the way of AIBU. Wink

lemonhope · 04/02/2015 13:12

Personally I would never have a beagle - and as for a beagle spaniel cross!!

But you are stuck with him now and tbh all puppies are hellish for the first 6 months. Just keep things firm and routine like and he'll eventually learn.

lemonhope · 04/02/2015 13:12

raw food for dogs is like blw for babies

dressed up as something easy and natural when actually its a massive PITA

our dogs are on biscuits and leftovers Smile

GotToBeInItToWinIt · 04/02/2015 13:28

OP beagles and babies are amazing together. Mine has never so much as glared at DD. He loves her. So don't listen to people saying you shouldn't have a beagle and a baby Smile

BingoBonkers · 07/02/2015 19:13

I would also invest in an adaptil collar and diffuser as it will help with the separation anxiety.

Don't lock the crate at all until he is happily going in and staying in of his own choice.

As well as the physical exercise you could get some games/clicker train him as that will tire him out mentally.

Beagles are not for the faint hearted, chin up you will get there!

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