I guess I'll just keep on keeping on Awks, same as Lurcherboy's SA, we'll get there in the end.
You wouldn't know that he loves me at any other time - with the possible exception of dinner time.
He's such an independent little so and so most of the time, quite happy to go in a different room or up the garden without me and for me to go all over the house, up and downstairs without him. Of course he's fast enough to rush back to me if something worries or scares him! He only objects to the crate with the door shut and I have nowhere else that's safe to leave him until he's out of his chewy phase.
It's not actually like he can't stand to be apart from me, more that he's cross that I'm going somewhere he can't. It sounds far more like temper than distress to be honest, but I can't let him yell it out because I don't want to upset my neighbours.
Daft thing is, he actually loves his crate most of the time. He goes in there to play and nap, he gets fed in there, has treats in there and generally it's his choice to go in. He sleeps in there with the door shut in the day no problem, as long as it's his choice to go in and then I shut the door once he's settled, but I need him to learn that he has to go in there on my terms sometimes. Like school runs for example.
He's sleeping through the night in there now as well, but only because he thinks one of us is still in there sleeping on the sofa. We've been working up to leaving him while he's awake and last night he didn't object when we went up while he was snoozy, rather than properly asleep, so I thought that showed real progress.
Training is never linear though. I suppose he could just be having an off day.
My Mum popped round today, having not seen him for a week and was really shocked at how much he's grown. You don't notice it so much when you're with them every day, but she's right. He feels so much more solid now than he did a week ago and he's definitely taller.