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What to do with an unwanted dog?

64 replies

Flatbread · 17/05/2012 13:35

Our neighbour's dog is around everyday. And every night Sad He knows he is not wanted, but has no dignity. I take him back to his owners twice a day. DH has gone at 9 pm and even 4 am to drop him off. But to no avail. Before dh or I reach home, the dog is back.

He is a lovely boy, handsome, gentle and affectionate. He is craving being a part of a family pack. His owners take care of him in the conventional sense of feeding him and grooming him, but are never around to actually pay any attention to him. He just jumps over their gate and hangs out at our home.

We try not to feed him, but feel really bad sometimes when we are treating our dogs, and he looks so hurt and sad that he isn't included. Then when we take our dogs out in the car, he stays behind and 'guards' our home and is soo excited when we come back. But the look in his eyes when we leave just breaks my heart...it is like he knows that he is not equal to our dogs, but he will take any scrap of love we have to offer.

But I don't want him around. It is hard to manage three dogs and every time we play with our dogs, he just tries to insert himself. Nor is he trained to obey, and it is tiring getting him to listen.

So, we can't seem to shame the owners into keeping him in check. We don't want to break relations with them either, as they are very influential in the area and we don't want to rock the boat (plus not sure if this will mean that they take care of their dog). We don't want to spend £5,000+ on fencing in our land. What are our options?

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Booboostoo · 20/05/2012 18:45

Wonderful news! Glad you found room for him in your family and I am sure he will repay you a hundredfold!

AllergicToNutters · 20/05/2012 18:46

Flatbread, I love you SmileThanks

JustFab · 20/05/2012 18:48

They are knob heads. Influential in their area my arse. Only because idiots let them be!

The poor dog. You have beeen really kind to him but maybe it is time to report them as he needs more than feeding and grooming.

RandomMess · 20/05/2012 18:48

I'd be tempted to get him done too to stop the village pups!!!

Sounds like the neighbours may not ever realise it's been done!

nightswimmer · 20/05/2012 18:57

You did the right thing!!Good for you, Flatbread x

thenightsky · 20/05/2012 19:03

Will they even notice you've adopted him do you think? You don't want some mad custody battle with them!

Well done you... I love a happy ending Smile

tunafortea · 21/05/2012 10:22

You have done the right thing flatbread.
Stick to it, even when the horrible neighbours get home.
He might have a chance now, if you stick with him Smile

AllergicToNutters · 21/05/2012 10:36

Flatbread, how are things in your doggy camp? Any sign of the neighbours yet? How is new dog settling in? Has he got a name? I'd call him Bond, as in vagabond!

AllergicToNutters · 22/05/2012 09:44

Flatbread, what you gonna call the dog?

Flatbread · 22/05/2012 11:11

Nutter, he is called Eliot (pronounced as Eli oh) and we will continue with that, although he does respond equally well to Smellio Smile

The neighbours are back, as we drove past yesterday and the shutters were open. They haven't called the dog and the dog shows no inclination to go back home. They know he is here so I cannot understand why they cannot send the 14 year old lad to get him!

Since it has been raining for the last couple of days, he has been sleeping in our room with our dogs. We woke up this morning to all three playing together, sounds lovely, but is a bit annoying when you are trying to catch up on sleep.

The unofficial adoption is fine, as neighbours can turn a blind eye and continue with their lives as normal, and Eliot can continue living with us. However, trying to make it formal, e.g., getting him a dog passport so we can take him with us to UK and getting him neutered is a bit more tricky.

In all conscience, we cannot just frisk him away without a conversation with the neighbours. They neglect him, but ultimately he is their dog. The problem is that the conversation will go badly. Till now, he has been the nuisance dog, really, being returned to his home twice a day by us. If we come by and say he want to adopt him, suddenly he becomes higher value and the lady next door will say no. I know her nature and this is how she would behave.

Dh says we should just go ahead and have the confrontation with them, but I am of the view that nothing good will come out of it. So still figuring out what to do...

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Yoghurty · 22/05/2012 11:27

I've only just seen this and am so glad you decided to take him in OP.

Oddly, your last few posts sound completely different in tone to your original ones.... I love the effect a good dog can have on people Grin

JustFab · 22/05/2012 13:38

Hurray! I hope all works out well.

hairylemon · 22/05/2012 13:54

Ahhh I want to kiss you op! What a loively thing to do for him, hope it all works out

ReneandGeorgetteMagritte · 22/05/2012 13:58

Oh, well done flatbread!

My Mum has this problem with a gorgeous little terrier. She would happily take it on, it is at her house most of the time, follows on walks etc (never walked by owner). They kept taking her back several times a day and eventually offered to adopt her, the owner said no- she couldn't possibly part with her!!

She is still at my parent's until Dad runs her home almost every evening

Mad

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