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How can people just get rid of their dogs?

60 replies

FlorenceDaphne · 13/04/2011 11:42

www.jack-russell-terrier.co.uk/rescue-dogs/item/827268501

He's been with them for NINE YEARS and they're not even giving him a chance with the new baby? Words fail me.

You cannot just discard animals after nine years.

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Vallhala · 15/04/2011 13:59

Not sure if taxing is the way to go, Hope. I'm in England with my 2 GSDs and a Lab cross. My total of 600 Euro would be better spent on my dogs than in the local council's pockets. (I take it that unlike Ireland, German Shepherds are, in Germany, not a restricted breed? :o Wink ).

At current exchange rates thats a lot of money and I can only see the decent, comfortably off dog owners paying it whilst the less well off (and, worse, their dogs) would be punished and the idiots would ignore the demands for the tax anyway, just as the thugs ignore that mugging is a crime.

EllAEllO · 15/04/2011 14:08

Poor husky, I adore them. If I didn't have a small garden I'd be tripping over myself to see him!

I know I should start my own thread for this, but on the subject of rehoming...
Would I be able to rehome a (small) dog, even though my garden is not very big?
Where are 'good' rescues?

peeriebear · 15/04/2011 14:08

I think that my rescue mutt had been dumped on an unwilling family member after a death/circumstance change, then when he escaped they just considered him somebody else's problem as they had no attachment to him. He was found running the streets with the phone numbers on his microchip (for a city hundreds of miles away) all disconnected.
I'd happily go with a dog licence, not sure about that tax though!

HopeForTheBest · 15/04/2011 14:51

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Vallhala · 15/04/2011 15:05

EllAEllO, yes you can rehome a dog even though your garden isn't very big. :)

If you want to name your county and/or type of dog you're interested in I may be able to point you in the right direction too.

peerie - if your dog was found straying miles away I'd think it possible he'd been stolen and then dumped. It's surprising how many people forget to change their details with their microchip company when they move and if the dog had been missing some while all the more it's all the more possible they didn't think to contact the company upon moving, sadly. :(

I'll get flamed for saying it but it's true - the travelling community have an unfortunate but deserved reputation for being responsible for more than their fair share of stolen dogs. Often when these dogs are of no use to them, have served their purpose or are subject of big "missing/stolen" campaigns and thus too hot to handle such dogs are dumped when the community moves on to it's next site.

Hope, licenses come with the same problems as the tax AFAICS. I wish there were an easy answer but I'm beggared if I can think of one.

wannaBe · 15/04/2011 15:13

iirc there is a moron poster on mn who believes that people should rehome their dogs once they have children as dogs and children should never mix. Hmm can't remember her name but I know our paths have crossed.

There are always threads on mn from people wanting to rehome their dogs and it makes me furious.

EllAEllO · 15/04/2011 15:14

Oh brilliant, thanks Vallhala Smile
I'm in the East Midlands.

I don't have a specific breed in mind, but would prefer a smallish dog (because of space) and one that can put up with my 2 children (and cat!) Grin

Gonzo33 · 15/04/2011 15:35

Valhalla, I have an idea on the easy answer, but I don't know how ethical it is Wink

Ephiny · 15/04/2011 15:36

wannaBe - I think I remember that poster as well!

I guess if people want to believe dogs and children can never mix then that's up to them, people can have whatever irrational beliefs they want - but then they should either not have children or not get a dog! Not just get the dog to amuse them for a while then throw 'it' away when their baby comes along Angry.

Vallhala · 15/04/2011 16:01

"iirc there is a moron poster on mn who believes that people should rehome their dogs once they have children as dogs and children should never mix. hmm can't remember her name but I know our paths have crossed. "

She doesn't want to cross my path, whoever she is!

Gonzo... I suspect that we have similar answers. Wink

EllA, my first thought is Denise at Dogwatch. She's very good, knows her stuff. If she can't help you she'll put you on to someone local who can. You'll find her at [email protected]

Now... are you REALLY sure that you only want a small dog? :) Wink

HopeForTheBest · 15/04/2011 16:30

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Melly19MummyToBe · 15/04/2011 17:16

I know of a poster who thinks it's creepy to wait and watch to see if a dog that looked like it was abused, was being abused. Does that make sense? Anyway, the dog was being abused. And this poster called the OP "a fucking stupid bitch" If I remember it correctly, for waiting in the rain for half an hour to see if said dog was being abused. There was a thread about it a while ago. By she did get flamed. And I remember her name, it's very distinctive.

Melly19MummyToBe · 15/04/2011 17:19

Vallhala, are you good with knowing breeds? I was just wondering if you knew this, it's something I have always wondered. What is the difference between GSDs, and Alsatians? Or is it totally obvious and am I just dumb?

Vallhala · 15/04/2011 17:32

Melly, I forget the poster's name but I remember the thread. I think I might have called the OP something less than friendly myself. Wink

Re GSDs and Alsatians - they're one and the same. I've always understood this to be because of the war, when all things German were persona non grata, so rather calling German Shepherd's by that name breeders referred to them as Alsatians after the Alsace region in which they were popular. I'm unsure how true that explanation is though, tbh.

morethanyoubargainfor · 15/04/2011 17:35

oh dear, that is sad and i don't understand it at all.

On the plus side i have sent a few emails re Scrabble and jerry! I think they would fit in here just right, my two lugs would love another play mate Wink.

We had semi agreed to looking for a dog at the end of year/beginning of next year but i obviously was not meant to wait till then Grin.

Melly19MummyToBe · 15/04/2011 17:50

Ahhh I seeee. My auntie had one for years and years and ended up having to have her PTS because she was so old and her back legs had gone. My auntie was adamant she was an Alsatian, and I knew someone else who had a GSD, I always thought they looked too similar to be different breeds :o
Thank you for clearing that up :)

musicposy · 15/04/2011 19:41

I cannot, just cannot understand why people think they can take on a dog and then just give it away so lightly. It makes me so sad - surely your dog is a family member? I would no sooner give my pets away than give my children away.

At the start of last year, when I was pregnant, I read up everything I could to make sure our dog and our cat would be affected as little as possible by the new arrival. I didn't want them to feel jealous or shut out any more than I wanted my two girls to. I just don't understand people who think "oh, baby on the way, let's discard the dog". The dog is family.

Sadly, I lost the baby Sad and that's why we got our 2nd dog Poppy :). She was my lifesaver, the silver lining to a very black cloud. But in the unlikely event another real baby ever does happen, I would never, ever regret getting her, and never let her feel usurped.

Plus I see so many people who say "the dog did this, it has to go" (some minor misdemanour). Are your kids never difficult, then? We had a bit of trouble a couple of months ago where Poppy was attacking our elder sheltie. A couple of friends said "why don't you take one of them to rescue? It's too much like hard work." I didn't react well, I can tell you! We got them checked at the vet for any problems, got in our dog trainer for help and worked to overcome the issues. Things are now much, much improved. You don't give up on your children when the going gets tough and I can't see the difference. You've taken on this life, it's your responsiblity to make sure it's a good life, from start to end.

Sorry for the rant! I just don't know how this can be got through to people so they don't see their dog as a disposable commodity. More campaigns like the "a dog is for life" one? I think educating people is probably the only way to make a difference, but educating people is expensive. Sad

Choufleur · 15/04/2011 19:47

We've only had our dog since January and I can't imagine him not being here.

He's a rescue dog (about a year old when we got him) and had been found wandering the street by the dog wardens.

He's lovely. I suspect he was dumped and he grew from being a little cute bundle of fluff into a very bouncy springer who needs a lot of exercise to stop him being quite so mad. But why get an energetic dog if you can't be bothered with it.

Wish he would stop trying to dig to australia though.

Melly19MummyToBe · 15/04/2011 21:04

Oh I love springers :) My BIL and his partner got a dog sometime last year, just because their childminder got a dog. They both work full time, (they work together) have 2 kids, a 7yo and a 3yo and were trying for a baby (I say 'were' because they're now having a baby). They got a cocker spaniel, they went to work everyday and left the puppy in a crate, all day. Just after christmas they went away and the dog went to stay at the ILs, the dog is still there now, they never let BIL take him back :) Their first dog (springer x CKCS, pic of him on my profile:)) wasn't too chuffed though but he's learnt to live with it bless him.

Not much point to this story but I thought it was a nice story to tell :)

kid · 15/04/2011 21:33

I love my 10 month old springer as if he was one of my kids. I did draw the line at him cuddling up with me in bed like my dc do! He is currently curled up on my lap asleep though which is lovely Smile

I miss my previous puppy and would have done anything to still have him here with me but it was just not meant to be.

musicposy · 15/04/2011 21:35

"I did draw the line at him cuddling up with me in bed like my dc do!"

I'm making no comment! Blush Blush

kid · 15/04/2011 21:38

Okay I confess, dh drew the line. I'd happily sit and cuddle him all day and night if I could Grin

musicposy · 15/04/2011 21:41
Grin

DH keeps trying to draw the line here, too, but luckily he's on night shift half the time so doesn't see!

HopeForTheBest · 15/04/2011 22:03

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JaxTellersOldLady · 15/04/2011 22:05

well the poster who thinks dogs and children dont mix doesnt want to meet me either! I got our first GSD when I was expecting DS 11 years ago!

He was the most perfect, most beautiful dog in the whole world! Sadly we lost him 2 years ago in May.

Now we have a 2yr old boy and an almost 8 month old hooligan bitch. Love them dearly, they are my hairy babies and I would never, ever rehome them. Nor would DH. Actually it is in our contract with the breeder that they get them back.

Anyway, back to the original point - the type of people who rehome because the dog has grown too big for the house (having got a husky/GSD/St Bernard) or the ones who now have a baby and cant be arsed with the dog are indeed fuckwits!