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One Born Every Minute - 23.3.10 at 9pm

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FabIsGettingThere · 23/03/2010 19:49

Don't forget.

There is a prem baby born tonight.

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EightiesChick · 23/03/2010 22:15

ruddynorah good for you for doing it. Wish I could but am permanently ruled out as I've had a blood transfusion.

Can't find out any more about how William's doing now from the C4 website. Is anyone else having more luck? I would love to know he has been able to go home to be with his mums and brothers. The scene of him with his brother next to him in the incubator was amazing.

Derv78 · 23/03/2010 23:28

Had started collecting & freezing milk for donation. Have only filled 2 of the 6 bottles they sent me.

Watching tonight has made me determined to fill the other 4 over the next few weeks.

DTs were delivered at 37weeks and are now 3 1/2 months. They are healthy, strong boys & watching those brave little babies (& parents) tonight makes me realise how very lucky I am.

The Medela will be out tomorrow!

SparklyGothKat · 23/03/2010 23:40

I have 'wires' on my Ipod, not a good song to listen to while on the ward after delivering DS2 at 33 weeks

Someone asked about parking charges, I had to pay for my parking every day, was no free parking and I wasn't given a pass either. Cost us a fortune.

bronze · 23/03/2010 23:51

we had to pay £10 a week once we were allowed the reduced rate. After I think it was the first 3 weeks. DH had had to pay £2.50 everytime he went into the car park when visiting me for th efirst month. A lot of our money troubles were caused by that period in our lives.

When they were talkign about waiting for th ephoen to ring I got the same feeling in the pit of my stomach that I did everytime the phone rang. I'm so lucky an so blessed that dd is ok now though sad that it wasn't both of them (bu lucky I didnt have to go through what the couple on the program did)

Watching that I've realised stufff about how I act with ds3 now that I hadn't thought about.

Sparkly- dont gett he urge to play it now

Northernlurker · 24/03/2010 00:26

Just watched it and I feel like I've run a marathon. What must it be like living it for even five minutes? The power of love is so awe inspiring and the tenacity of those babies. Wow.

The medical team as well - I can never understand how they have the confidence to get in and do those amazingly delicate things with somebody so young. Where does it come from - the courage that makes you pick up the equipment and the needles and the tubes and do what needs to be done? How do they not just drop everything and run for the hills? Amazing.

WorzselMummage · 24/03/2010 10:18

We had to pay for every bit of parking when ds was in. It cost us hundreds

whdn dd was in we got a parking permit.

I've just watched last nights episode and cried solidly for an hour. It brought it all back. I feel both hideously unluck to have had to go through it twice but as if I'm the luckiest woman alive to have both my children with me and both healthy.

What happened with my ds left me with some horrid mental health issues. It's hard enough going through it when you get a baby to take home at the end of it. To go trough it an then lose your child is not somethin I'd imagine you'd ever be able to get over.

Both sets of parents tonight were brilliant.

One of our mn mummies is goig throuh it with 23 weeks twins at the moment, they both seem to be doing well. Little mirAcles really

monkeybum1 · 24/03/2010 13:06

AnyFucker - I've never really listened to the words but just googled them - am sitting at my work desk with tears in my eyes.

Poor bubbas.

xx

shewhoneverdusts · 24/03/2010 17:58

William is still in Southampton General Hospital, one of my colleagues saw him and his mummy 'Dorit' today.

wonka · 24/03/2010 19:07

The Nurses are climbing Kilimanjaro to raise money to build more accomodation for parents on site if anyone would like a link?

wonka · 24/03/2010 19:13

www.justgiving.com/pahneonatalchallenge

uglymugly · 24/03/2010 19:58

This was such a heartbreaking episode to watch. It must be so difficult for the parents to see such tiny babies with all the wires and tubes. It really brought home to me how much courage and patience the parents suddenly have to find, to cope emotionally, when in reality the time they have to gear up for that experience is so limited.

Coincidentally, I've just been watching the rerun of Laverne Antrobus' two-parter "Growing Babies" which, amongst other things, included an interview with someone (I think it was Dr Als) who pioneered some improved techniques in the care of premature babies. In the past I've seen quite a bit of filming done in SCBUs, but it never occurred to me to question why incubators often have quilts or blankets over the top. Apparently that's to muffle the sensory input (lights and sound) to the baby, so as not to overload the premature frontal lobe of the brain. (I think I've got that right.) And it seems Dr Als also pioneered the "kangaroo" approach.

That's just made me think about what can be shown on film, i.e. the intervention techniques are pretty easy to show as we saw, but it's incredibly difficult to show the knowledge that SCBU staff must have. But then this series is about the emotional journey people travel rather than an academic expository series.

One thing I did notice was when Izzie left hospital it was from Winchester rather than Southampton. I don't recall any explanation as to why Izzie was transferred, though the whole problem of availability of SCBU/neonatal beds might have been one the producers didn't want to get into.

wonka · 24/03/2010 20:08

Winchester is prob where the family is from. They only have a small unit all local intensive care babies go to Southampton and move out to the smaller units like Winchester, Salisbury, dorchester its all to do with the Goverment centralising intensive care (at least thats what they told us when we were moved out!

uglymugly · 24/03/2010 20:19

Thanks, wonka. That makes sense.

bronze · 24/03/2010 21:16

Ugly- you've reminded me of something
If anyone is given a duvet set for their baby and doesnt use it then donate them to your local scbo/nicu. They very often give them to the baby when they leave as the laundry can't cope with them. I have dds and its a beautiful patchwork which I'll always treasure (that and the tiny blanket she first had)

Jenbot · 25/03/2010 21:42

Just watched it and it set me off crying when they showed the families at home with the babies in the hospital in the evenings.
DD was only in SCBU for a month, but driving home every night leaving her there in her incubator was awful every time we had to do it, really brought those memories back.

Those parents were ever so strong.

mcflumpy · 28/03/2010 10:44

Great episode. Amazing parents.
Just wanted to add re the milk bank it's so easy, I donated about 1litre at the start of this year as I had a stash of frozen milk and only found out about milk banks then. It really was effortless local SCBU came and did bloods and picked up milk. I didn't have to do anything other than express. Just wish I'd known about it sooner as I wouldve donated more.

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