I don’t think any of that is unkind, lacking in self awareness maybe, but not nasty or cruel.
I haven’t seen her launch herself at anyone that she thinks doesn’t like her? Rihanna and Phillip both approached her, not the other way round. She hasn’t even spoken to Rochelle yet.
Maybe I’m biased because although I don’t agree with her views on the trans issue it is something I like to discuss, so I’d happily chat away with her about it. I also don’t find the witchy woo woo stuff that weird, star signs, crystals and the like are very fashionable these days so while it isn’t my bag I’m not particularly put off or surprised by it.