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idontmatter123 · Yesterday 19:13

No but what safeguarding did they do. They shared beds on the first night

Warmlight1 · Yesterday 19:14

loveawineloveacrisp · Yesterday 19:07

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cp8pz1k4r2lo

Can't see that anyone else has posted about this. Quite shocking.

I don't want to sound puritanical but- it seems to me these risks are inherent in the format- like the whole concept mocks the thing it emulates. Of course I don't mean there's any excuse- just that a certain type of bloke gravitates towards the fact that that the boundaries are so messed up.

loveawineloveacrisp · Yesterday 19:19

It's definitely making me question whether I watch any more. They've had some really nasty men on over the years (and women, to be fair).

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ANiceBigCupOfTea · Yesterday 19:29

They literally have to sit on a couch and be asked 'have you been intimate' and when they say no it's a big problem. I am no prude but it's icky. You didn't know this person last week and now you're meant to be gasping for sex with them...

decorationday · Yesterday 19:39

ANiceBigCupOfTea · Yesterday 19:29

They literally have to sit on a couch and be asked 'have you been intimate' and when they say no it's a big problem. I am no prude but it's icky. You didn't know this person last week and now you're meant to be gasping for sex with them...

I tried watching it at one point and this is why I didn't get very far before I stopped. The whole setup felt so pressured and coercive. I found it quite upsetting.

PerfectYear321 · Yesterday 19:48

I'm not surprised one of the women is Shona. Anybody could see that the dynamic was disturbing. Didn't they get kicked off the show at one point?

decorationday · Yesterday 19:50

This from the article is a more eloquent version of the concerns and discomfort I felt when I tried watching it:

Baroness Helena Kennedy KC who, as well as chairing the Creative Industries Independent Standards Authority, is a highly experienced criminal lawyer.

She is calling on Channel 4 to bring in external investigators to assess the show's welfare system. She is critical of the format and said she, personally, does not think MAFS UK should be on air at all.

Women often do not immediately report allegations of rape and sexual assault, she said, "because of the sense of shame that you have, that somehow it's your fault".

"It takes a while to come to terms with 'what was done to me wasn't right'."

Prof Helen Wood, a media academic, has carried out a three-year study into reality TV and has spoken to some former MAFS UK cast members as part of it.

She said the highest risk is on shows where people are taken into an "unnatural" environment, where "their contact with the outside world is removed from them."

"The bubble of the show assumes that there will be, kind of intimacy," she added, "and that is a dangerous situation."

From what I remember they matched women with men they'd never met before, staged a mock wedding ceremony and then the camera crew followed them to a bedroom set up for newlyweds to have sex with a very clearly communicated expectation that they should have sex and left them there for the night. Then returned in the morning to see if they'd had sex.

I thought it was horrific.

loveawineloveacrisp · Yesterday 19:52

@decorationday the expectation for them to have sex wasn't quite so overt.

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thenightsky · Yesterday 20:05

I bloody knew it would be poor Shona and the vile Bradley.

pouletvous · Yesterday 20:06

Watxhing now

decorationday · Yesterday 20:06

loveawineloveacrisp · Yesterday 19:52

@decorationday the expectation for them to have sex wasn't quite so overt.

If you say so. There's another thread about this and the consensus there is the same.

loveawineloveacrisp · Yesterday 20:06

thenightsky · Yesterday 20:05

I bloody knew it would be poor Shona and the vile Bradley.

Me too. He was horrific.

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pouletvous · Yesterday 20:07

Shona and that awful man were invited to leave by the experts

he was evil

problem with these MAFs shows is the people are selected for the wrong reasons and then heavily influenced by producers

pouletvous · Yesterday 20:17

The whole set up of the show is toxic

people are chosen because they have specific
personality types. Usually vulnerable, insecure, controlling, narcissistic etc

they are heavily influenced and coerced by producers

thenightsky · Yesterday 20:18

I wonder if this will mark the end of MAFS.

Ifeeltheneedtheneedforcoffee · Yesterday 20:19

The worse thing is you can see people (majority women but not always - thinking of scott in mafaus) change over the course of the weeks- getting smaller and quieter.
And the rule that if one person says leave and the other stay then have another week of it.
And there has been the pressure of people having to be intimate even of not fancying their partner. This has been called out along with controlling behaviour on the threads on here

Shittyyear2025 · Yesterday 20:20

loveawineloveacrisp · Yesterday 19:52

@decorationday the expectation for them to have sex wasn't quite so overt.

The Australian version is.

Vile series.

3678194b · Yesterday 20:22

So channel 4 say they've removed all episodes, yet they've kept on the Aus and New Zealand series. IMO they should remove them all. They're all the same format and really the same programme.

dinnerdateeee · Yesterday 20:36

The last story I think I recognise as being recent and I’m gutted for her. Absolutely gutted, she did try to tell but kind of sanitised it but it makes sense now why she was so upset. Fucking prick.

loveawineloveacrisp · Yesterday 20:41

dinnerdateeee · Yesterday 20:36

The last story I think I recognise as being recent and I’m gutted for her. Absolutely gutted, she did try to tell but kind of sanitised it but it makes sense now why she was so upset. Fucking prick.

Who do you think it is?

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dinnerdateeee · Yesterday 20:41

loveawineloveacrisp · Yesterday 20:41

Who do you think it is?

The lock picker and the story about thrush

pouletvous · Yesterday 20:45

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Lalgarh · Yesterday 20:55

They're still showing the US version right now.

And I wouldn't be surprised if their more overtly "sex people" reality programmes like Open House (with lots of seemingly willing "sex surrogates" on tap) is a safeguarding minefield as well

pouletvous · Yesterday 20:55

dinnerdateeee · Yesterday 20:36

The last story I think I recognise as being recent and I’m gutted for her. Absolutely gutted, she did try to tell but kind of sanitised it but it makes sense now why she was so upset. Fucking prick.

They did leave abruptly did t they. There wasnt the usual exit

thenightsky · Yesterday 20:57

dinnerdateeee · Yesterday 20:41

The lock picker and the story about thrush

I thought that too.

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