I said more or less the same thing earlier today.
'I think the point of Emma and Caspar is that he's honest about his feelings, whereas she wants the groom she was paired with to fancy her like crazy, regardless of whether or not she actually fancied and wanted him. She wants her attractiveness to be validated and thinks that one individual not rating her puts her down, not that it is what it is and we can't all fancy everyone.'
We're on the same page.