I'm A Celebrity Thread #2

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Why's it disgusting? She's trying to manipulate the situation into something we can all see wasn't the case . Very similar I would say

So because she was triggered it was ok for her to be rude and nasty?

I lost my dad that young and I wasn’t a dick to people every time I got a bit upset about it.

Its not on other people to not be psychic about these so-called triggers and then tolerate a heap of abuse if she takes something the wrong way.

Not that I think for a member she was triggered - she knew exactly what he meant and she twisted it to create an argument

I kinda get the Roxanne Pallet thing - the hitting accusation was a couple of week into BB but before that she was quite manipulative and came across as a perpetual victim. She was very unppular in the house because of the drama and OTT reactions. I think that’s where the Roxanne comment stemmed from

Having said that, coming across as a bully on a reality show is a career killer and she shouldn’t be making accusations that are just plain wrong

I wish they’d just send JL home. At this point she’s unlikely to provide any entertainment at any point and too much airtime is being spent on her sobbing. I want to see the laughs Josie, Nick, Danielle, Grace etc are going to have, not persistent tears and whining from a few people who probably shouldn’t be in camp.

Farage can fuck off too. If he wants airtime he should provide entertaining conversation not just hope for a trial

Exactly. I disagree with her reaction and how she went about things but peoples responses on here and on SM are absolutely shocking. I’ve seen people fat shaming her, calling her a ‘fucking idiot’ as if her reaction has deserved such a harsh response. People are also bringing race into it like a comment on this thread, it’s all so unnecessary.

Comparing her to Roxanne is just next level

Manipulate WHAT? Do you not understand that we are all individuals and we all have different responses to things? Is that really so hard to grasp?

I have a friend who lost a parent and whenever someone says ‘mum,’ she instantly gets defensive and goes into flight or fight mode. People have emotions and can overreact in situations whereas other people wouldn’t.

Saying she’s manipulating the situation as if she’s going around the camp twisting the story to all who will listen….

Where did I say it was okay? You’ve lost a parent so I’m sure that you can understand that you will react to things differently to someone else has lost a parent. We are all different. I’m not sure why that’s so hard to understand?

She knew exactly what he meant and she twisted it? Really? How did you come to that conclusion?

To me, it seems that Nella is a conflict avoidant person. Instead of her to say ‘Fred, I get quite sensitive when someone makes a comparison to my dad, can we talk about something else’ right in the moment. She left it, kept on thinking about it in order to create the worst case scenario and then blew it way out of proportion.

Regardless of what you think, the pile on is extremely unnecessary

Yes I’ve lost a parent but I don’t get antsy every time someone says ‘dad’ - anyone who does needs grief counselling because that a disproportionate response. It’s no excuse to be rude to someone like she was. Fred said nothing wrong the ‘misunderstanding’ was all on Nella

She knew exactly what he meant and she twisted it? Really? How did you come to that conclusion?

Because when she woke up she accused him of having an attitude when it came to cooking, said he wouldn’t let anyone else have a say and when she tried to make a suggestion he said “I could be your dad” in a way that he was trying to assert authority over her.

But when you watch the clip back, he was clearly referencing AGE. And she actually acknowledged that. He said “I could be your dad” when talking about their ages and she said the words “Nah my dad was way older than you”. So she KNEW the conversation was about age rather than belittling herself. Yet she woke up and suddenly changed the context of the conversation. Why would she do that?

See my post upthread about people who have English as a second language and turns of phrase - what he meant was “I’m old enough to be your dad” but he said “I could be your dad”. Had he said the former (which is what he meant) should couldn’t have been able to twist it in the way she did.

To me, it seems that Nella is a conflict avoidant person

LOL!!! Yeah shouting at someone because YOU misunderstood what they said, calling them a weirdo and saying you will never speak to them again is so conflict averse

He also wasn’t making a comparison to her dad at all

@CeeChynaa
I get what you mean about your friend and emotions, or should I say I have a slightly similar experience.
I HAD a friend who lost her mum the year before last. Unfortunately she wasn't very nice after that. She became very rude and passive aggressive, to myself and the rest of our friendship group. Her behaviour ultimately led to the demise of the friendship group.

It was quite shocking to me because I just felt like, there's grief and then there's being rude to others because you're going through something.

I had my own personal issues linked to grief at the time too, and someone else in our friendship group had lost their partner, but we were never rude to anyone else as a result.

There were others that had said that "people grieve in different ways" in response to her behaviour, but I just couldn't quite get over her behaviour.

Nella's behaviour is scary imagine if she pulled a stunr like this in a workplace and turned on someone who did nothing wrong....thankfully it is all recorded and has been shown on TV again word for word.

@CeeChynaa stop trying to defend the indefensible...her behaviour was totally unjustified just appalling it was was nasty and vile.

When this happens people need to be called out not pussyfooted around and made excuses aw bless she was triggered yada,yada, yada...nonsense that is just excuses....she wasn't triggered she new exactly what she was doing.

She picked on Fred for no reason whatsoever....every word was heard he was talking about his age and his eye sight and she knows that....she even asked him if he wore contacts...it is all there. Her blow up came from nothing and shows that she has anger issues at the very least...stop trying to say she is being piled on.

People are speaking the facts and are appalled at her behaviour....simple as that. The only person piled on was poor Fred...

I can imagine she will leave under her own steam or be booted out very soon...

Because you said you have to remember she is only 26, I'm sorry at 26 she is old enough to know what she is doing.

I’m not going back and forth with people. Yes, she was completely in the wrong and she was unnecessarily rude. No, she does not deserve the majority of these comments as they are way out of order.

Comparing her to Roxanne, calling her a fucking idiot and bring up race (??) is extremely uncalled for. Simple. As.

I said you have to remember she is 26 and lost both of her parents at 22. Context is everything as I mentioned her age to show she lost not one, but BOTH parents only 4 years ago. She clearly still has issues surrounding her grief. I never mentioned her age to say she isn’t old enough to know what she’s doing. Keep up

Her refusing to eat is just silly. I doubt she'll last with that.
no one seems to be camp mum yet

yes refusing to eat Freds food is daft. I mean if i HAD to eat random raw jungle meat, i'd prefer someone who knows what they are doing to cook it. (and others of course help, but i want my meat COOKED THROUGH)

I actually voted for Fred for the task - i think it would be a fun one for him (or anyone competent to do). A test of skills - like Mike wanting to do ones last year.

not sure watching Jamie lee cry and refuse to do stuff is fun. Watching Fred give it a good go would be more interesting.

Ahahahaha conflict avoidant 😂

Delurking to say that the end credits of the programme list no fewer than THREE psychology/welfare staff for the camp mates

Also, Nella is an appalling woman.

*Edited to correct 'less' to 'fewer'

They’re all for JL…

Just catching up on last nights show. Can’t believe Nella’s reaction to Fred..
It was a figure of speech and not meant to be personal..

LOL!!! Yeah shouting at someone because YOU misunderstood what they said, calling them a weirdo and saying you will never speak to them again is so conflict averse
😂

She shouldn't have gone in there if she is so easily upset.

I lost my mother in tragic circumstances when I was young. My father not long after. I have never ever behaved like Nella did. I can't believe anyone is defending her disgraceful and rude behaviour.

Agree she is the one bringing the conflict she ain't conflict averse 😂😂!!!

It really gets my goat people trying to justify this sort of shit! it is nasty and aggressive plain and simple...with any luck we won't see much more of her

she was very calcuated like i said didnt say anything straight away went to bed then decided to bring it up a mature person would have saidx ok i misunderstood

shes quite childish-weve all lost someone its not excuse to make out there was harmful intent

My god just catching up - Nella needs to go what a pain in the arse ! Don’t want to hear her voice ever again !