Only just popped in to see some notifications and reply to this. Been injured and top busy to post for a while, so will probably be back properly next week sometime.
Thanks for your information regarding your family history as it relates to Northern Ireland itself. I think there's a lot of ignorance over the extent of overlapping history within Northern Ireland as well as from the Republic of Ireland, England, Scotland and Wales.
The view points of families was always more fluid than is often acknowledged. It is the more militant Republican and Loyalist families whose voices have for too long dominated both discourse on Northern Ireland as well as outsiders' perspective.
No wonder when the Republican and Loyalist terrorists groups had various weapons to ensure compliance with their narrative to a large degree.
That easily drowns out the moderates who abhorred violence. And the media in the Anglosphere were always far more willing to report on terrorist atrocities than the more complicated reality of life.
I have an excellent quote regarding this which I'll post next week.
You're correct when you say "certain professions were not open to Catholics because of the threat of murder / ‘assassination’ / blackmail". Most of this was down to the Provisionals which explains how and why the numbers of Catholics in the Royal Ulster Constabulary and the Ulster Defence Regiment massively declined in the early 1970s. Their families were at risk of being murdered yet all of those Catholics had the right idea in joining them which seriously undermined the Provo claim these were sectarian against Catholics.
I said before I had a relative who lived in the Ardoyne area - moved there in 1930, IIRC. The area at that time was mixed with Protestants and Catholics living side by side. In the early stages of the Troubles, PIRA forced the Protestants out of the street. But my Catholic relatives stayed not because they agreed with the Provos which they never did. They stayed in defiance of the Provos and because it was home to them. That area to this day is pro-IRA, unfortunately.
We only found out after their death a couple of years ago that there actually worked in the Stormont Civil Service. They'd kept that fact from their Republican neighbours for all their lives because they'd have been tarred and feathered by the Provos or murdered by them.
Their Republican neighbours still have zero idea about the true history of my relatives family to this day. It'll stay that way forever.
The quote from Malachi O'Doherty I provided earlier in relation to terrorists forcing people out of houses reinforces the point.