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Tits is absent ! Love Island thread 4

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anybloodyname · 06/07/2022 17:20

Here you go

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Aquarius1234 · 09/07/2022 17:35

Picoloangel · 09/07/2022 17:04

I agree with others that Jacques is immature more than anything. They are little more than kids most of them. He hasn’t behaved well but I don’t think it’s full on psycho behaviour as much as immature and drunken stupidity.

That award goes to Andrew.

Pinkdelight3 · 09/07/2022 18:59

I agree about Jacques dimness and immaturity rather than the ADHD being an excuse. It's an interesting angle to factor in though - like that weird moment when Jay asked him about chatting up Paige, the way Jacques reacted instantly saying go for it, clearly not at all thinking through the consequences or considering things like it making Paige feel that he didn't like her enough. That always stuck with me as an odd moment and could be explained (but not excused) if he's impulsive rather than considering the impact of his actions.

PinguIglu · 09/07/2022 19:14

ADHD does cause immaturity though in brain development. It also affects emotional responses and this could be seen in the way he struggles to articulate himself when he is under pressure and has made mistakes.

When I started reading about this, I was about to type “I have ADHD and I’ve never cheated on anyone!”. Then I remembered back to my teens and early 20’s 😳

If you consider traits such as: Impulsivity and immaturity , the need for immediate gratification (with the longer term consequences completely forgotten about in the moment), low tolerance for boredom/need to create excitement by taking risks, high sensitivity to perceived rejection, speaking without thinking… and so on, then his behaviour isn’t excused (it is possible to have ADHD and still be a twat of course, doesn’t have to be one or the other) but his diagnosis give a bit more of a backdrop to his behaviour.

We don’t know if he is medicated, how he is responding to the stress of being in there - as stress can make symptoms worse - so there is a lot to consider and I imagine his family have already been through a lot to support him, it’s not an easy diagnosis to get for a child.

EddieHowesBlackandWhiteArmy · 09/07/2022 19:27

His family do say it doesn’t excuse his behaviour.

anybloodyname · 09/07/2022 20:27

I'm so trying to stay awake for Unseen Bits

The housework , gardening , tip trip and this heat have wiped me out

I can do this .. it could be fun 🤩

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anybloodyname · 09/07/2022 22:00

I was wrong .. it was a bit boring

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BiscoffSundae · 09/07/2022 22:03

I was going to ask if it was worth watching 🤣 I haven’t watched the unseen bits at all this series

MotherofKitties · 09/07/2022 22:06

Just caught up with last nights episode.

ADHD or not, it does not justify nor excuse Jacques behaviour. Since him and Paige have been together he's repeatedly gaslighted her and let's not forget the time he called her 'fucking pathetic' to her face. Any woman being in a relationship with him, with this behaviour, would be in for nothing but an utterly miserable life. I hope Paige keeps strong and has nothing more to do with him.

I don't really get the whole Andrew and Tasha thing. It's clearly not right, they need to move on.

Coco saying she wanted to keep it classy by not saying anything whilst having told half the villa he sucked her tits and the rest of the U.K. she likes big dick energy - you can only laugh.

Luca needs to calm down on the jealous and possessiveness. He's doing himself no favours.

I'm another one loving and admiring Gemma's self assuredness - my god I wish I had that level of sheer innate confidence in myself and my boundaries at that age! She's a great example for the younger girls watching this.

wordlewordle · 09/07/2022 22:09

anybloodyname · 09/07/2022 22:00

I was wrong .. it was a bit boring

Was the missing CA girl shown?

anybloodyname · 09/07/2022 22:13

Who is missing ? Which girl ?

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LostaraYil · 09/07/2022 22:23

Jazmine was shown very briefly a couple of times. She seemed nice enough. I thought Josh seemed to have a bit of chat at least, more than we've seen in the main show. I like Danica more and more.

wordlewordle · 09/07/2022 22:37

anybloodyname · 09/07/2022 22:13

Who is missing ? Which girl ?

Yes Jazmine, wasn't shown at all in the week!

FatPatsCat · 10/07/2022 02:44

icelollycraving · 09/07/2022 13:17

In her first video she said she liked big dick energy. I think she meant alpha type men, what she’s got is a man acting like an absolute dick.

😂😂😂😂

anybloodyname · 10/07/2022 06:10

Gosh , I had to Google her , why have we not seen her have one "chat "

Very weird

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marmiteadict · 10/07/2022 06:17

@wordlewordle Jasmine's monumental moment was when she revealed to Dami that her favourite crisps were Lay's paprika.

Which apparently aren't even sold in the UK.

But that was it 😂

Zampa · 10/07/2022 07:46

marmiteadict · 10/07/2022 06:17

@wordlewordle Jasmine's monumental moment was when she revealed to Dami that her favourite crisps were Lay's paprika.

Which apparently aren't even sold in the UK.

But that was it 😂

Wasn't that Paige right at the beginning?

marmiteadict · 10/07/2022 07:53

@Zampa definitely Jazmine. Think it was only on Unseen Bits to add insult to injury 😯

Zampa · 10/07/2022 07:58

Ha! It has obviously all blended into one. Apologies!

Mummyoflittledragon · 10/07/2022 08:11

anybloodyname · 10/07/2022 06:10

Gosh , I had to Google her , why have we not seen her have one "chat "

Very weird

Same also had to google her.

Cravingsweets · 10/07/2022 08:36

I've been watching with my 13 year old daughter and it's been great to show her unacceptable behaviour, that is sometimes excused. Luca's possesiveness, for example, is not romantic or something to aspire to, and Gemma handles it perfectly. She's a wonderful role model. Straight talking and doesn't take shit.

Interesting that Gemma said early on she didn't trust Jacques when she went out with him. We can see why. I don't buy all the "he's just immature and doesn't know how to communicate" comments. Men's bad behaviour is so often excused as them being immature etc, but that's no excuse for hurting people. I'm loving that Paige hasn't given into him; she's demonstrating that she knows her worth and I hope she doesn't give him another chance. He's not coming across well, and for his family to blame his behaviour on ADHD is poor. Perhaps his they've always colluded with and excused his bad behaviour. No wonder he thinks he can get away with anything.

Andrew is awful. Awful. Typical "I was angry, that's why I did it", i.e., blaming Tasha for his behaviour. He needs to go. We've never seen them have fun as a couple, which is what the early stages of a relationship should be about.

So much of this is very common male behaviour and it's quite good to see it clearly on screen.

Someone asked about same-sex couples and it did happen early on where two women coupled up, but it didn't last long from what I remember.

A580Hojas · 10/07/2022 08:48

They did the same with one of the Casa Amor girls last year - literally not one moment of airtime. I would look up where we talked about it on the 2021 threads if only the friffing advanced search function still worked!

Deji and Chyna for the win please.

BiscoffSundae · 10/07/2022 09:11

Salma was the one that wasn’t shown at all last year (well apart from her sleeping in bed which tbh just looked like some pillows as her face was covered also)

BiscoffSundae · 10/07/2022 09:23

This...

Tits is absent ! Love Island thread 4
marmiteadict · 10/07/2022 09:26

Saying Jack Nicholson in the Shining was her celebrity crush is pure Ekin Su

Yamyam13 · 10/07/2022 09:30

At this rate, I think we're going to definitely see Ekin Su & Davide and Gemma & Luca in the final as top 2 couples

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