The elephant in the room for me is always that Kevin,Kate and Rebecca were never really allowed to grieve for the triplet that died. They were just swept up in Jack’s big actions.
Don’t get me wrong, it was a good thing to do, the right thing to do and everyone int he family’s lives are richer and better for it.
But that doesn’t take away the need to grieve that loss. And Jack didn’t get to grieve either.
Randall has started to address his wounds from his abandonment , adoption, loss of his birth parents in different ways etc.
But there is this big unspoken, unprocessed loss. And lots of addictions. Sure there are other roots for that too-Vietnam war, tragic loss of a father, abusive relationships etc.
It was really brought home to me int he episode tonight by child Kate and Kevin in bed together after the Challenger disaster, talking about their parents dying. They always run for one another in times of loss, tonight Kevin went straight to Kate’s after leaving Madison’s.
They were with their triplet for nine months. Rebecca carried him for nine months. And they had to go straight to channeling their love in another way. No space for grief or to acknowledge the absence. They should have been allowed that as well.