@dunblanemum
I have name changed to a name I use at this time of year. I lost my daughter at Dunblane. It was very poignant watching that TV programme. I remember Lorraine very well.She was very involved in what was happening and genuinely lovely. I am always really surprised that people remember what happened as for me it is obviously very personal. I don't involve myself in any of the programmes any more. My life has moved on. I have a wonderful life and a wonderful family. I would hate anyone to feel sorry for me. But it is nice that people remember our children. They were such innocent souls.

. I knew a mumsnetter had lost a child that day
It's a day seared in the memory of everyone in Scotland.
The snowdrops are up
In the garden and I think of those wee souls every year