Love Island ♥️🌴21 - what’s Michael gonna do?!

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@alloftit she keeps saying that there is something still between them, that is her behaviour NOW.
So he has to sit down with her and tell her firmly.
Why should he have to stay with or be friends with someone that was nasty to him when they were together?
She needs to get her aggressive behaviour under control

Amber was nasty to Michael loads of times when she was with him

Then she was surprised he left her.

That girl really needs to get her attitude under control

I’ve come to the conclusion bandera that you’re bonkers and have it in for Amber. Are you Michaels mum?

@wrongdissection are you obsessed with me? There are alot of posters right above me also saying that michael is not abusive. Can you see that? Maybe you should go to specsavers

I think Joanna acted far worse last night than Amber ever did to Michael so I’m surprised he took that as ‘she was just upset’ When he’s made such a big deal about Ambers behaviour to him 🤨

@Wrongdissection I am starting to think that you are not "all there " yourself. You have a very strange way of talking to anyone with a different viewpoint to your own. You don't own this page. It is for discussion by everyone

Another day another kick off on the Love Island thread😬

You’ve got me. I’m obsessed with you 🤷🏼‍♀️

Orrrrrr perhaps, you’re the only poster who is not only saying Michael isn’t abusive but in actual fact not only is he not abusive, everything he says and does is completely fine because it’s all Ambers fault.

I’ve actually never said I think Michael is abusive, I think that’s a strong assumption to make and not one Id be comfortable doing based on a few minutes footage, what I have said is his behaviour was out of order and Amber hasn’t deserved the level of anger and vitriol he has levelled at her.

But whatevs.

On the off chance you are his mum (you do seem strangely & relentlessy skewed!) - I think you should try and get him home...

I don't think he can get much more from the show, there would be less tension, and then make sure he gets some expert support!

@Wrongdissection I am starting to think that you are not "all there " yourself. You have a very strange way of talking to anyone with a different viewpoint to your own. You don't own this page. It is for discussion by everyone.

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Cheers for that.

i agree totally @Newbeginnings2

You think she needs to get herself under control? Seriously?
Since leaving Amor she hasn't said one nasty thing to him.

Joanna on the other hand...

None of what you said excuses Michael's behaviour. He is thinking about his ex and projecting.

@Alloftit I agree, imagine the outrage if Michael had grabbed Joanne’s face like that!

So anyway...can we move on...please

And rightfully so. Can’t believe that seemed to just go by unnoticed on the show, surely someone would’ve said something?

Bandara I'm also wondering on what you're doing or trying to achieve here.
Sure others are saying it wasn't abuse, and that's subjective, but nearly all are saying he was out of line and unpleasant. They are sinoly questioning if it can be defined as abuse. They aren't saying he was pleasant and she deserved it.

You're the only one saying amber deserved it and saying really Nast stuff about her. It's very odd. We are all watching rhe same program. Clearly your view is not widely shared.

Are you Male? Jealous of amber? Do you behave as Michael does? Just trying to be goady as youre bored? Have you name changed, been on this thread under a different name? Your Posts are unfathomable. No one would think like you are without something else driving them.

Ummm anyway...

I’ve just seen first look. New guy is not my type. Think Amber was right to be annoyed that no one backed her up but I guess they’re all avoiding any more conflict in the villa.

Surely someone is going to want Chris? He’s hot, and seems really kind and funny. I think Maura should have given him more of a chance really.

I think the dates might bring some light relief tonight - Ovie and Chris seem the two most normal, sweet and funny in there.

I can never warm to new people properly when all you see is them slo-mo cat-walking into the villa/dates. The only person who looked good doing that was Maura when she stacked it and laughed! Fingers crossed though!

Agree @Alloftit -Chris and Maura seemed a great match - he seemed to bring out her funny side that you see on Unseen!
He'd be a catch for someone in the villa

I think Michael was totally manipulated by the producers. He wasn't given a chance to think or to say he was leaving and after the way Joanna responded I don't blame him for not leaving with her. I'm sure if it had been another couple, Caroline would have asked if the other person wanted to stay or leave, or they would have had a chance to talk, but it seemed like everyone including Joanna assumed Michael was staying so it would have been difficult for him to leave.
He shouldn't have told Amber to sit down, but you could see how wound up he was and the pressure has clearly got to him. I thought when he told her he wasn't interested he kept himself under control and it was the right thing to do.

I agree that the whole situation was manipulated - that is how the producers run it, for ratings, and we're complicit, unfortunately. Everyone wants the drama. It puts people under huge pressure and brings out the worst in some. I can't see it lasting much longer in this format.

Your comment made me think though

"He shouldn't have told Amber to sit down, but" I don't think there can be a 'but' there - that was horrible to witness, and experience for her I'm sure (not saying this is abuse, but behaviour that is a red flag).

"you could see how wound up he was and the pressure has clearly got to him. I thought when he told her he wasn't interested he kept himself under control and it was the right thing to do."
This is a really important part of why his behaviour is so alarming. Amber did nothing wrong. Michael had no business trying to speak to her if he was visibly struggling to control himself. I think that was one of the most unsettling aspects of it - and why it seems like Michael is taking this out, so unfairly, on Amber. She's clearly found it very hard to cope with that attitude and was understandably shaken.

Wow. There is bullying going on on this thread.

Joanna did seem to react in the wrong way. I thonk if shed stayed quiet or been sad or something then michael would have left. But no, she stormed past him and then when he said he was going to leave she was all no, stay and see if it works out with her (amber). It was a test and she shot herself in the foot with that.

I don't think either of the new girls are gona go for Chris.

He was given the chance to say he was leaving - I posted upthread, he merely waffled on about how he knew it was a hard decision and he didn't blame anyone then looked at his shoes. There was plenty of time for him to say "thanks guys but I found what I'm looking for so I'm leaving" he didn't which is why she was so cross. She should not have grabbed his face though.