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Has anyone watched The Staircase on Netflix? I need to talk about it

79 replies

SouthWestmom · 03/07/2019 18:57

Just that really. I don't know what to think.

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Bluerussian · 03/07/2019 21:22

Noeuf Wed 03-Jul-19 19:38:51
Blue it's addictive I've literally watched all 13 episodes back to back while the kids were at school. So interesting to see people age and develop alongside it.

I just don't know. He definitely has some charisma and was so calm all the time in prison and with the lawyers and his family.
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I can't wait to watch it! Might stay up tonight.

SouthWestmom · 03/07/2019 21:52

Envious blue , it's such a good documentary

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IamAporcupine · 03/07/2019 22:02

Oh I watched this last year - totally addictive, and as others have said said I changed my mind episode after episode.

SouthWestmom · 03/07/2019 22:05

I just don't feel like the initial investigation answered questions for me, now we know it's because of Deaver. But hasn't Lee also been discredited?

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SabineSchmetterling · 03/07/2019 22:06

I thought he was probably guilty but I didn’t feel like they’d really proved it beyond reasonable doubt. The forensics just didn’t seem to match the prosecution theory. The lack of cast-off spatter really troubled me. I don’t think her death was a simple accident though. I think there was an altercation of some kind and that he had a role in her death.

DamnItsSevenAM · 03/07/2019 22:06

There is something deeply weird about him and his relationship with his kids and the whole thing just smells fishy. When he is talking about the whole affair in the later episodes, his manner just sets off warning bells for me of something being wrong. I think he is guilty but I don't understand all of the evidence. It's just a gut feeling based on the way he comes across.

SouthWestmom · 03/07/2019 22:10

Do you think maybe he knows more but isn't guilty? Like he saw her fall and left her ?

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UpToTheRigs · 03/07/2019 22:57

That's still murder, surely, to leave someone to die and then lie about it?

I think some of the kids know, too. I think all of them probably know something's not right, and others know all about it. The whole dynamic in that house was so odd.

Bluerussian · 04/07/2019 03:28

I have it on now, matchsticks keeping my eyelids up.

SouthWestmom · 04/07/2019 03:40

Blue! That's so funny. Where are you up to?

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SouthWestmom · 04/07/2019 03:42

Yes I agree that would be murder. I guess I'm trying to think of something to explain the weird vibe. His ex wife was very odd , and the two adopted kids I felt so sorry for.

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MonteStory · 04/07/2019 06:27

There’s a fairly key price of forensic evidence that the doc just leaves out. I agree it seems astonishing that they find him guilty based on the evidence they show. But when you read further it becomes apparent they leave out some pretty damning stuff.

I don’t want to spoil it for people watching though.

bonjourbonjour · 04/07/2019 07:21

Ohh @MonteStory what is it!? PM me please😁

MonteStory · 04/07/2019 07:25

Ah finally found it! I’ve been looking for the place I originally read it as it was s few years ago I watched this doc.

www.reddit.com/r/TheStaircase/comments/8q8c9x/what_the_documentary_left_out/
Hmm can’t remember how to make it clicky.

LizziesTwin · 04/07/2019 07:28

It was recommended to me by a friend who’s a judge!

EnidAlexandraRollins · 04/07/2019 07:30

You need to listen to the BBC podcast on this - Beyond Reasonable Doubt. I went to the recording of the last episode at the London Podcast festival and Chris Warburton who had interviewed the guy face to face was pretty clear in his conclusion during the unrecorded Q and A afterwards. Clue: He wasn't innocent Grin

CookPassBabtridge · 04/07/2019 07:39

I really don't know.. it's frustrating that some of these cases will never have an answer! I do think the amount of blood was inconsistent with a fall down the stairs though.. surely you'd bump your head a few times and then maybe bleed out on the last one, but not all over the wall like that? Hmm.

SouthWestmom · 04/07/2019 09:50

Oh that's interesting. My book arrives today.

I've been distracted on Netflix by 'because you watched' and I'm watching the Fyre Festival documentary now

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EssentialHummus · 04/07/2019 10:02

The fact that she used his computer and found the gay porn the night she then ‘fell down the stairs’, and that the other lady had also ‘fallen down the stairs’ are both rather damning.

This for me too.

Veterinari · 04/07/2019 10:13

Second the ‘beyond reasonable doubt’ bbc podcast

IamAporcupine · 04/07/2019 12:34

@Noeuf - the same was suggested to us!
I had not idea what had happened in Fyre and was totally Shock

willyloman · 04/07/2019 12:42

I think the owl definitely did it! Very David Lynch...

SouthWestmom · 04/07/2019 12:53

@IamAporcupine I watched it , like a lemming, and was just OMG! That party and those tents!

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MusterTheRohirim · 04/07/2019 12:58

None of it quite adds up, does it? The injuries and the fact the girls are so convinced he's innocent. I also think perhaps owl! It's bizarre but it could have happened. I heard a podcast the other day where a neighbour is quite obsessed with this theory and says that recorded owl strike injuries are consistent with Kathleen's. Very sad, however she really died.

Birdrib · 04/07/2019 13:09

and that the other lady had also ‘fallen down the stairs’ are both rather damning.

Exactly.

It was also recommended to me by a judge who said he’s either guilty or the unluckiest man in the world.

I think his age is irrelevant, there are plenty of murderers who didn’t kill until a late age. We’ll never know if he was abusive towards her during their marriage either.